Katie was a girl, and not only was she a girl, she was terrible. Okay? There is no other way to say it.

It was obvious Katie was not very good. She was awful. ... Katie was not only a girl, she was terrible.

Katie was a girl. Not only was she a girl, she was terrible. And there's no other way to say it,

Oh my gosh. That's terrible. I had no idea. I've known her since I was a little girl. That's really awful.

or that if I hadn't stopped one question short, that I would have been a lot more sensitive about my remarks and sensitive to how they would play out.

I don't mind when they burp and spit around me, ... It tells me they think of me as their teammate.