The only ghosts, I believe, who creep into this world, are dead 
young mothers, returned to see how their children fare. There is 
no other inducement great enough to bring the departed back. 
They glide into the acquainted room when day and night, their 
jailers, are in the grip, and whisper, "How is it with you, my 
child?" but always, lest a strange face should frighten him, they 
whisper it so low that he may not hear. They bend over him to 
see that he sleeps peacefully, and replace his sweet arm beneath 
the coverlet, and they open the drawers to count how many little 
vests he has. They love to do these things. 
What is saddest about ghosts is that they may not know their 
child. They expect him to be just as he was when they left him, 
and they are easily bewildered, and search for him from room to 
room, and hate the unknown boy he has become. Poor, passionate 
souls, they may even do him an injury. These are the ghosts that 
go wailing about old houses, and foolish wild stories are 
invented to explain what is all so pathetic and simple. I know 
of a man who, after wandering far, returned to his early home to 
pass the evening of his days in it, and sometimes from his chair 
by the fire he saw the door open softly and a woman's face 
appear. She always looked at him very vindictively, and then 
vanished. Strange things happened in this house. Windows were 
opened in the night. The curtains of his bed were set fire to. 
A step on the stair was loosened. The covering of an old well in 
a corridor where he walked was cunningly removed. And when he 
fell ill the wrong potion was put in the glass by his bedside, 
and he died. How could the pretty young mother know that this 
grizzled interloper was the child of whom she was in search? 
All our notions about ghosts are wrong. It is nothing so petty 
as lost wills or deeds of violence that brings them back, and we 
are not nearly so afraid of them as they are of us.
 — J.M. Barrie
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