Love the rule. It's something we've used for years in Junior Olympics volleyball.

Katherine is tall and powerful, and Lindsey has just been a beast so far.

I was kinda laying low, letting all my friends talk.

Love, I'm pretty sure, is light.

I want to come from love. And I want to do it all the time. I can't expect it to always look the same, though. I remember a friend saying that God loved his daughter enough to say no — something he had a hard time with. Sometimes love says, “No, this doesn't work for me.” Sometimes love walks away ... because staying would conflict with loving and being true to who we are. And, staying would make it very difficult to come from love.

When I'm tempted to do something that feels like giving up, I won't ... because love doesn't give up (I Corinthians, 13). But, lest I push love aside, I will make sure that what I'm holding on to can coexist with love.