Making the decision to have a child is momentous. It is to decide forever to have your heart go walking around outside your body.

If you publish, you are contributing to the illegal market.

“Making the decision to have a child - It's momentous. It is to decide forever to have your heart go walking around outside your body.”

Getting older is something you make a decision about. You can get old without becoming an older person (in your outlook).

I made a conscious decision that I was not going to have children. I didn't want others raising them, and looking after them myself would get in the way of being a musician and writer.

Actually, it is an extremely stiff penalty for someone who's children were not injured. Their decision shows they recognized they were wrong and want to make amends as soon as possible.