Men have a harder time in our culture. They are brought up to be linear and logical, and not to develop their intuition.

It's the one time people get quiet, they stop talking and flow into the plot. They forget about themselves. It's the only socially condoned altered state.

I don’t care how intelligent or attractive someone is, if he zaps your energy, he isn’t for you. True chemistry is more than intellectual compatibility. Beyond surfaces, you must be intuitively at ease.

I crave the sweet surrender of sleep and my dreams' uncensored communication: no tiresome small talk, sucking up to impress, or tiptoeing around charged topics. Dreams are the naked truth; get ready for it.

It's important to develop strategies to deal with them. Otherwise, you can be chronically fatigued, depressed or anxious, and your energy level goes way down.

How you react emotionally is a choice in any situation.