Barbara Kingsolver quote: "Mistakes wreck your life. But they make what you have. It's kind of all one. You know what Hester told me when we were working the sheep one time? She said it's no good to complain about your flock, because it's the put-together of all your past choices."

Wars and elections are both too big and too small to matter in the long run. The daily work - that g...
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Small change, small wonders - these are the currency of my endurance and ultimately of my life.
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Empathy is really the opposite of spiritual meanness. It's the capacity to understand that every...
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Stop a minute, right where you are. Relax your shoulders, shake your head and spine like a dog shaki...
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The important thing isn't the house. It's the ability to make it. You carry that in your bra...
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The first sentence of a book is a promise.
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For me, writing time has always been precious, something I wait for and am eager for and make the be...
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Terms like that, 'Humane Society,' are devised with people like me in mind, who don't ca...
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Readers of fiction read, I think, for a deeper embrace of the world, of reality. And that's brav...
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What you lose in blindness is the space around you, the place where you are, and without that you mi...
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I think the most interesting parts of human experience might be the sparks that come from that sort ...
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I'm of a fearsome mind to throw my arms around every living librarian who crosses my path, on be...
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To be hopeful, to embrace one possibility after another that is surely the basic instinct - crying o...
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Motherhood is so sentimentalised and romanticised in our culture. It's practically against the l...
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Good fiction creates empathy. A novel takes you somewhere and asks you to look through the eyes of a...
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What keeps you going isn't some fine destination but just the road you're on, and the fact t...
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It's surprising how much memory is built around things unnoticed at the time.
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Memory is a complicated thing, a relative to truth, but not its twin.
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What a writer can do, what a fiction writer or a poet or an essay writer can do is re-engage people ...
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Few people know so clearly what they want. Most people can't even think what to hope for when th...
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The very least you can do in your life is to figure out what you hope for. And the most you can do i...
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But kids don't stay with you if you do it right. It's the one job where, the better you are, the mor...
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There is no point treating a depressed person as though she were just feeling sad, saying, 'There no...
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The very least you can do in your life is figure out what you hope for. And the most you can do is l...
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It is surprising how much of memory is built around things unnoticed at the time.
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The very least you can do in your life is to figure out what you hope for. And the most you can do i...
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Until that moment I'd thought I could have it both ways; to be one of them, and also my husband's wi...
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Mama always said barefoot and pregnant was not my style. She knew.
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People's dreams are made out of what they do all day. The same way a dog that runs after rabbits...
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Sometimes the strength of motherhood is greater than natural laws.
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The older I get, the more I appreciate my rural childhood. I spent a lot of time outdoors, unsupervi...
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The truth needs so little rehearsal.
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As a biologist, I can't think of myself as anything but an animal among animals and plant.
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I can count all the ways in which being a mother has enriched my understanding of the world, of char...
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Pain reaches the heart with electrical speed, but truth moves to the heart as slowly as a glacier.
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I think the most interesting parts of human experience might be the sparks that come from that sort ...
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Southern Appalachians have been ridiculed since the country began. In fiction, they're usually d...
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Like kids who only ever get socks for Christmas, but still believe with all their hearts in Santa.
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I used to think religion was just more of the same thing. Dump responsibility on the big guy. Now I ...
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Hallie and I... were all there was. The image in the mirror that proves you are still here. We had e...
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That would be Axelroot all over, to turn up with an extra wife or two claiming that's how they do it...
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The last generations's worst fears become the next one's B-grade entertainment.
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My morning begins with trying not to get up before the sun rises. But when I do, it's because my...
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A clear conscience is usually the sign of a bad memory
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Illusions mistaken for truth are the pavement under our feet. They are what we call civilization.
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When something extraordinary shows up in your life in the middle of the night, you give it a name an...
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I love developing children as characters. Children rarely have important roles in literary fiction -...
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The friend who holds your hand and says the wrong thing is made of dearer stuff than the one who sta...
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But newspapers have a duty to truth,' Van said.
Lev clucked his tongue. 'They tell the truth on...
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In a world as wrong as this one, all we can do is make things as right as we can.
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You always need that spark of imagination. Sometimes I'm midway through a book before it happens...
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There's a graveyard in northern France where all the dead boys from D-Day are buried. The white cros...
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So you make this deal with the gods. You do these dances and they'll send rain and good crops and th...
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In Kilanga, people knew nothing of things they might have had - a Frigidaire? a washer-dryer combina...
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Shoes would interfere with her conversation, for she constantly addresses the ground under her feet....
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To live is to change, to acquire the words of a story, and that is the only celebration we mortals r...
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It's frightening when things you love appear suddenly changed from what you have always known.
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No other continent has endured such an unspeakably bizarre combination of foreign thievery and forei...
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I live in southern Appalachia, so I'm surrounded by people who work very hard for barely a livin...
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We're animals. We're born like every other mammal and we live our whole lives around disguis...
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God doesn’t need to punish us. He just grants us a long enough life to punish ourselves.
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Everything you're sure is right can be wrong in another place.
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The important thing isn't the house. It's the ability to make it. You carry that in your brains and ...
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Close the door. Write with _no one_ looking over your shoulder. Don't try to figure out what other p...
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Terms like that, "Humane Society," are devised with people like me in mind, who don't care to dwell ...
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A first child is your own best foot forward, and how you do cheer those little feet as they strike o...
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I'm of a fearsome mind to throw my arms around every living librarian who crosses my path, on behalf...
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People's dreams are made out of what they do all day. The same way a dog that runs after rabbits wil...
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I could never work out whether we were to view religion as a life-insurance policy or a life sentenc...
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He spoke for an hour on the nonviolent road to independence. The crowd loved it so much they rioted ...
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Patriotism threatens free speech with death. In other words, the American flag stands for intimidati...
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Libraries are the one American institution you shouldn't rip off.
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Come to think of it, just about every tool was shaped like either a weenie or a pistol, depending on...
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I’ve seen how you can’t learn anything when you’re trying to look like the smartest person in ...
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Sympathizing over the behavior of men is the baking soda of women's friendships, it seems,the thing ...
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Do you think its possible to live without wanting to put your name on your paintings? To belong to a...
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If men only knew, modesty makes women fall in love faster than all the cock-a-doodling in the world.
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It occurs to her that there is one thing about people you can never understand well enough: how enti...
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Anybody can get worked up, if they have the intention. It's peacefulness that is hard to come by on ...
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The thing is, it's my own fault. I just can't put up with a person that won't go out of his way for ...
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No matter what kind of night you're having, morning always wins.
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Last time I talked to her she didn't sound like herself. She's depressed. It's awful what happens wh...
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God, why does a mortal man have children? It is senseless to love anything this much.
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Soon the maroon-throated howls would echo back from the other trees, father down the beach, until th...
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When people are frightened about going hungry and paying their mortgages, a scarcity model begins to...
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WOMEN ON THEIR OWN RUN in Alice’s family. This dawns on her with the unkindness of a heart attack ...
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Then again, do you have to be told every single thing about the world before you know it?
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The backs of his hands remind him of paper burning in the fireplace, the moment the taut membrane go...
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Cash misses his wife with a blank pain in his chest, and he misses his sisters and cousins, who have...
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She told him television was a bad influence. Probably she was right. Like those white birds he's bee...
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Let's go take a walk down to the blue hole. You need to look at some water.
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She climbs down and pours half an inch of Jim Beam into a Bengals mug that came free with a tank of ...
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They rock against each other, holding on, and the birds in the forest raise their voices to drown ou...
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I've just fallen on some bad luck and landed jelly side down.
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The clock gulps softly, eating second whole while she waits...
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You talk about her as if she is the Notre Dame Cathedral!" "She is. And the Statue of Liberty and Ab...
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I was so depressed I stopped using hair spray for three weeks.
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She married him two years ago for love, or so she thought, and he's a good enough man but a devotee ...
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I’m always looking at the dialectic between the truth we believe exists outside ourselves and the ...
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Alice hands Annawake a handkerchief. Young people never carry them, she's noticed. They haven't yet ...
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She understands all at once, with a small shock, exactly what it is she always needed to tell Harlan...
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The obstinate practicality of old women pierces and fortifies these families like the steel rods bur...
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A woman knows she can walk away from a pot to tend something else and the pot will go on boiling; if...
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It's monstrous, what one person will do to another.
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She has changed in this way that motherhood changes you, so that you forget you ever had time for sm...
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You could love your crazy people, even admire them, instead of resenting that they're not self-suffi...
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He lifts her breasts, which fit perfectly into his hands, though he knows this is no promise that he...
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Be sweet and carry a sharp knife, was her motto.
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He was my father. I own half his genes, and all of his history. Believe this: the mistakes are part ...
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I know what it is: it's a green mamba snake away up in the tree. You don't have to be afraid of them...
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What a rich wisdom it would be, and how much more bountiful a harvest, to gain pleasure not from ach...
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What there is in this world, I think, is a tendency for human errors to level themselves like water ...
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Finally Cub said, "They don't call it global weirding."
"I know. But I think that's actually th...
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restraint equals indulgence
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It is harrowing for me to try to teach 20-year-old students, who earnestly want to improve their wri...
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It kills you to see them grow up. But I guess it would kill you quicker if they didn't.
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It's surprising how much of memory is built around things unnoticed at the time
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Few people know so clearly what they want. Most people can't even think what to hope for when they t...
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What keeps you going isn't some fine destination but just the road you're on, and the fact that you ...
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Why does a person even get up in the morning? You have breakfast, you floss your teeth so you'll hav...
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In my own worst seasons I've come back from the colorless world of despair by forcing myself to look...
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I was trained in classical piano, but it kind of dawned on me that classical pianists compete for si...
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There can be no greater spiritual accomplishment than to come through brutal trials and then look ba...
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If you can't live by the laws the LORD God made for the world, they'll go into effect regardless.
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always tried to be positive with her, although I’d learned
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A disappointed-looking Jesus eyed her from the wall...Look, look, her steps called out, here is a re...
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If people really gave it full consideration, I mean, like if you could return a baby after thirty da...
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She made it plain that her fondest wish was to have a grandbaby. Whenever fat Irene would pick up th...
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Do you know, I spent the first half of my life avoiding motherhood and tires, and now I’m counting...
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There is no point in treating a depressed person as though she were just feeling sad, saying, There ...
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When I was Turtle’s age I had never had anyone or anything important taken from me. I still hadn�...
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I never could figure out why men thought they could impress a woman by making the world out to be su...
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We do have some strong traditions of community in the United States, but it’s interesting to me th...
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That means you're my kid," I explained, "and I'm your mother, and nobody can say it isn't so.
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I have been afraid of putting air in a tire ever since I saw a tractor tire blow up and throw Newt H...
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So one time when I was working in this motel one of the toilets leaked and I had to replace the flap...
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It was hard to feel the remotest sympathy for any of the different fools she'd been. As opposed to t...
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Whatever you want the most, it’s going to be the worst thing for you.
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Mi'ija, in a world as wrong as this one, all we can do is to make things as right as we can.
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You think you're the foreigner here, and I'm the American, and I just look the other way while the P...
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I’ve been thinking about that. About how your kids aren’t really yours, they’re just these peo...
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The very least you can do in your life is to figure out what you hope for. The most you can do is li...
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You're asking yourself, Can I give this child the best possible upbringing and keep her out of harm'...
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That was when we smelled the rain. It was so strong it seemed like more than just a smell. When we s...
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Tortolita, let me tell you a story,” Estevan said. “This is a South American, wild Indian story ...
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It's terrible to lose somebody, but it's also true that some people never have anybody to lose, and ...
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I had decided early on that if I couldn’t dress elegant, I’d dress memorable.
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Sadness is more or less like a head cold - with patience, it passes. Depression is like cancer.
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A human being can be good or bad or right or wrong, maybe. But how can you say a person is illegal? ...
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There were two things about Mama. One is she always expected the best out of me. And the other is th...
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The flowers were beaten down, their bent-over heads bejeweled with diamond droplets like earring on ...
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Listen. Slide the weight from your shoulders and move forward. You are afraid you might forget, but ...
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The longer I think about a food industry organized around an animal that cannot reproduce itself wit...
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If it crosses your mind that water running through hundreds of miles of open ditch in a desert will ...
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Most of us are creatures so comforted by habit, it can take something on the order of religion to in...
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Every time I write a new novel about something sombre and sobering and terrible I think, 'oh Lor...
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I did it to win love, and to prove myself capable. Not to move mountains. In my opinions, mountains ...
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Spring is made of solid, fourteen-karat gratitude, the reward for the long wait. Every religious tra...
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Why is it that only girls stand on the sides of their feet? As if they're afraid to plant themselves...
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You think you're no good, so you can't do good things. Jesus, Codi, how long are you going to keep l...
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Awareness is everything. Hallie once pointed out to me that people worry a lot more about the eterni...
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Memory runs along deep, fixed channels in the brain, like electricity along its conduits; only a cat...
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What keeps you going isn't just some fine destination but the road you're on and the fact you know h...
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Perhaps growing up meant we put our knives away and feigned ignorance of the damage.
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There was a roaring in my ears and I lost track of what they were saying. I believe it was the physi...
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You can’t replace people you love with other people…But you can trust that you’re not going to...
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It's one thing to carry your life wherever you go. Another thing to always go looking for it somewhe...
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Insomnia’s different,” I said. It was hard to explain this to people. “You know the light that...
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Sometimes I still have American dreams. I mean literally. I see microwave ovens and exercise machine...
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To people who think of themselves as God's houseguests, American enterprise must seem arrogant beyon...
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I don't expect to see perfection before I die. Lord, if I did I would have stuck my head in the oven...
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But children robbed of love will dwell on magic.
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You're thinking of revolution as a great all-or-nothing. I think of it as one more morning in a mugg...
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I thought: this is how life is, ridiculous beyond comprehension.
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I've about decided that's the main thing that separates happy people from the other people: the feel...
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The very least you can do in your life is to figure out what you hope for. And the most you can do i...
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At some point in my life I'd honestly hoped love would rescue me from the cold, drafty castle I live...
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Your dreams, what you hope for and all that, it's not separate from your life. It grows right up out...
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Emelina and I took each other in. All morning I'd felt the strange disjuncture that comes from recon...
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A miscarriage is a natural and common event. All told, probably more women have lost a child from th...
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What keeps you going isn't some fine destination but just the road you're on, and the fact that you ...
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What I want is so simple I almost can't say it: elementary kindness.
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She kept swimming out into life because she hadn't yet found a rock to stand on.
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He warned Mother not to flout God's Will by expecting too much of us. "Sending a girl to college is ...
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....mountains. They stand at every view, like a mother offering a blanket in which to wrap everyday ...
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But I'll tell you a secret. When I want to take God at his word exactly I take a peep out the window...
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Because I could not stop for death he kindly stopped for me, or paused at least to strike a glancing...
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When you're given a brilliant child you polish her and let her shine.
Pigs in Heaven
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As long as I kept moving, my grief streamed out behind me like a swimmer's long hair in water. I kne...
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I don't bring expectations to any of my books. I don't tell people what to do. I want to inv...
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Nonfiction requires enormous discipline. You construct the terms of your story, and then you stick t...
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When I sit down to write, I consider myself an artist.
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I know I'm a rare person, a trained scientist who writes fiction, because so few contemporary no...
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Most every book I bring into the world is like birthing a baby; it's a lot of effort!
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After 'The Poisonwood Bible' was published, several people believed that my parents were mis...
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It's a funny thing: people often ask how I discipline myself to write. I can't begin to unde...
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At home, growing up, we weren't really poor. We had everything we needed, we just didn't hav...
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I suppose that is my central obsession. What we owe to society, what we owe to ourselves.
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Being a novelist and being a mother have exactly coincided in my life: the call from my agent saying...
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I'm not pretending to be ingenuous; I know what I'm doing.
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Mistakes wreck your life. But they make what you have. It's kind of all one. You know what Hester told me when we were working the sheep one time? She said it's no good to complain about your flock, because it's the put-together of all your past choices.

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Mistakes wreck your life. But they make what you have. It's kind of all one. You know what Hester told me when we were working the sheep one time? She said it's no good to complain about your flock, because it's the put-together of all your past choices.

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