Love is the direct opposite of hate. By definition it's something you can't feel for more than a few...
JUDITH ROSSNER Identity is a bag and a gag. Yet it exists for me with all the force of a fatal disease. Obviously I...
JUDITH ROSSNER It takes far less courage to kill yourself than it takes to make yourself wake up one more time. It ...
JUDITH ROSSNER It takes far less courage to kill yourself than it takes to make yourself wake up one more time. It'...
JUDITH ROSSNER What interests me, ... is why people are so repelled when, after all, everyone started life attached...
JUDITH ROSSNER I want to write a book about a schoolteacher who's murdered picking up someone when she's cruising a...
JUDITH ROSSNER She kept encouraging me when I was young, and so I just accepted it ? this was what I was going to d...
JUDITH ROSSNER Honestly, what can really be said about 'the Jewish people' as a whole? Is it not a lamentab...
JUDITH BUTLER I believe God has a path for me. He's always had a path for me, and I've always been in the ...
JUDITH JAMISON I think we won't be able to understand the operations of trans-phobia, homophobia, if we don'...
JUDITH BUTLER We act as if that being of a man or that being of a woman is actually an internal reality or somethi...
JUDITH BUTLER A man who reads effeminate may well be consistently heterosexual, and another one might be gay. We c...
JUDITH BUTLER You can browse to your heart's content but it's hard work and not easy on the feet unless yo...
JUDITH KRANTZ Only if we accept the proposition that the state of Israel is the exclusive and legitimate represent...
JUDITH BUTLER Love is much nicer to be in than an automobile accident, a tight girdle, a higher tax bracket, or a ...
JUDITH VIORST But it's hard to be hip over thirty when everyone else is nineteen, when the last dance we learned w...
JUDITH VIORST The way Alvin Ailey has transformed modern dance and dance in general is the fact of variety. It'...
JUDITH JAMISON Cameras help to minimize collateral damage, and very often, without a camera a missile cannot fire. ...
JUDITH BUTLER 'Honesty' in social life is often used as a cover for rudeness. But there is quite a differe...
JUDITH MARTIN There is nothing enduring in life for a woman except what she builds in a man's heart.
JUDITH ANDERSON Email is very informal, a memo. But I find that not signing off or not having a salutation bothers m...
JUDITH MARTIN Love is much nicer to be in than an automobile accident, a tight girdle, a higher tax bracket or a h...
JUDITH VIORST Two separate, distinct personalities, not separate at all, but inextricably bound, soul and body and...
JUDITH GUEST A lie is an affront to the soul, as well as an insult to the intelligence of the person to whom one ...
JUDITH MCNAUGHT Why is it when you yield, I feel like the one who has been conquered?"

-Royce Westmorelan...
JUDITH MCNAUGHT Here is the same clock that walked quietly
Through those enormous years I half recall,
When b...
JUDITH WRIGHT If written directions alone would suffice, libraries wouldn't need to have the rest of the universit...
JUDITH MARTIN One advantage of marriage is that, when you fall out of love with him or he falls out of love with y...
JUDITH VIORST One advantage of marriage, it seems to me, is that when you fall out of love with him, or he falls ...
JUDITH VIORST You end up as you deserve. In old age you must put up with the face, the friends, the health, and th...
JUDITH VIORST Infatuation is when you think he's as sexy as Robert Redford, as smart as Henry Kissinger, as noble ...
JUDITH VIORST There are three possible parts to a date, of which at least two must be offered: entertainment, food...
JUDITH MARTIN An answering smile drifted across his tanned face. "What is mine, I intend to
keep.
JUDITH MCNAUGHT Royce Westmoreland stared at him with biting scorn. "I despise hypocrisy, particularly when it is co...
JUDITH MCNAUGHT Strength is the capacity to break a Hershey bar into four pieces with your bare hands - and then eat...
JUDITH VIORST There will be a few times in your life when all your instincts will tell you to do something, someth...
JUDITH MCNAUGHT Every dreamer knows that it is entirely possible to be homesick for a place you've never been to, pe...
JUDITH THURMAN You are mad!" she snapped, her chest heaving. "And you are a devil!"
"And you, my dear," Royce ...
JUDITH MCNAUGHT It's true love because if he said quit drinking martinis but I kept on drinking them and the next mo...
JUDITH VIORST Experience is a comb that life gives you after you lose your hair.
JUDITH STERN Infatuation is when you think that he's as sexy as Robert Redford, as smart as Henry Kissinger, as n...
JUDITH VIORST Geez, if I could get through to you, kiddo, that depression is not sobbing and crying and giving ven...
JUDITH GUEST There is nothing enduring in life for a women except what she builds in a man's heart.
JUDITH ANDERSON Dance is about never-ending aspiration.
JUDITH JAMISON Always serve too much hot fudge sauce on hot fudge sundaes. It makes people overjoyed, and puts them...
JUDITH OLNEY For me being depressed means you can spend all day in bed, and still not get a good night’s rest.
JUDITH GUEST I'm convinced that it's energy and humor. The two of them combined equal charm.
JUDITH KRANTZ We are all born charming, fresh, and spontaneous and must be civilized before we are fit to partici...
JUDITH MARTIN Brevity may be the soul of wit, but not when someone's saying "I love you."
JUDITH VIORST Honesty has come to mean the privilege of insulting you to your face without expecting redress.
JUDITH MARTIN If we are going to teach creation science as an alternative to evolution, then we should also teach ...
JUDITH HAYES We can go on talking about racism and who treated whom badly, but what are you going to do about it?...
JUDITH JAMISON Love is the same as like except you feel sexier.
JUDITH VIORST Strength is the capacity to break a chocolate bar into four pieces with your bare hands -- and then ...
JUDITH VIORST Superstition is foolish, childish, primitive and irrational -- but how much does it cost you to knoc...
JUDITH VIORST Let us make a special effort to stop communicating with each other, so we can have some conversation...
JUDITH MARTIN We are born charming, fresh and spontaneous and must be civilized before we are fit to participate i...
JUDITH MARTIN A handsome parson is fit for nothing but ti put ideas into the young woman's heads.
JUDITH BROCKLEHURST I had lived with my mother in anger and love - I suppose most daughters do - but my children only kn...
JUDITH VIORST You only trust those who are absolutely like yourself, those who have signed a pledge of allegiance ...
JUDITH BUTLER We've observed that people who stall in their personal growth work often have counterproductive ...
JUDITH WRIGHT You know, gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender - people are people.
JUDITH LIGHT Soft addictions are an alluring, seductive aspect of our culture - they are easy to attain and socia...
JUDITH WRIGHT Close friends contribute to our personal growth. They also contribute to our personal pleasure, maki...
JUDITH VIORST Masculine and feminine roles are not biologically fixed but socially constructed.
JUDITH BUTLER When we say gender is performed, we usually mean that we've taken on a role or we're acting ...
JUDITH BUTLER It's my view that gender is culturally formed, but it's also a domain of agency or freedom a...
JUDITH BUTLER There is no gender identity behind the expressions of gender... identity is performatively constitut...
JUDITH BUTLER Surely the whole point of writing your own life story is to be as honest as you possibly can, reveal...
JUDITH KRANTZ I really love being finance director.
JUDITH MCKENNA I think you need to go through some stuff to really appreciate life and understand what it means to ...
JUDITH HILL A social impact bond is a new way of bringing financing into social and environmental support issues...
JUDITH RODIN As a dancer, you really try to stay true to whatever the choreographer/artistic director is giving y...
JUDITH JAMISON Superstition is foolish, childish, primitive and irrational - but how much does it cost you to knock...
JUDITH VIORST I was a protege; by the age of 10, I was studying with ballet choreographer Anthony Tudor in a class...
JUDITH JAMISON Dancers use their bodies in extraordinary ways, so we are chronically pre-arthritic, because of how ...
JUDITH JAMISON Exactly Straight women who surround themselves only with gay men or white people who refuse any othe...
JUDITH LIGHT The gay community just recognizes what their closets are and we straight have to spend years trying ...
JUDITH LIGHT I am much more open about categories of gender, and my feminism has been about women's safety fr...
JUDITH BUTLER One of the big no-nos in cyberspace is that you do not go into a social activity, a chat group or so...
JUDITH MARTIN Either give me your hand, or end it now, and put us both out of our misery
JUDITH MCNAUGHT To say that gender is performative is a little different because for something to be performative me...
JUDITH BUTLER When we learn new behaviors and break through to higher levels of consciousness and love, we can ful...
JUDITH WRIGHT The point is not to stay marginal, but to participate in whatever network of marginal zones is spawn...
JUDITH BUTLER Feelings or emotions are the universal language and are to be honored. They are the authentic expres...
JUDITH WRIGHT I learned to be with myself rather than avoiding myself with limiting habits; I started to be aware ...
JUDITH WRIGHT My mother was born in June and later, feeling a vacancy, chose her birth month for her middle name. ...
JUDITH VIORST When Zionism becomes co-extensive with Jewishness, Jewishness is pitted against the diversity that d...
JUDITH BUTLER Strength is the capacity to break a chocolate bar into four pieces with your bare hands - and then e...
JUDITH VIORST Everyone has bad days, and when you're having a bad day, you think, 'Here I am being singled...
JUDITH VIORST Kids are always writing me: 'I had a bad day too.' 'I got gum in my hair.' And the k...
JUDITH VIORST I thought that the 40s was a tough decade, because it's when you finally figure out that you'...
JUDITH VIORST I don't think of myself as a leader. I am, but I don't think of myself that way. I'm not...
JUDITH JAMISON I believe in being prepared. I'm going to say that. Pray, prepare, proceed.
JUDITH JAMISON My favorite was 'The Secret Garden'. I loved it, and I think it's had a big influence on...
JUDITH VIORST There was no singles problem until singles got so single-minded that they stopped wasting time with ...
JUDITH MARTIN I knew that sunny citrus helped put things in focus, sharpened the memory, just like a squeeze of le...
JUDITH FERTIG Always serve too much hot fudge sauce on hot fudge sundaes.
It makes people overjoyed, and puts...
JUDITH OLNEY When virtues are pointed out first, flaws seem less insurmountable.
JUDITH MARTIN When I did my first price guide in 1979, publications weren't interested in mentioning it. Now I...
JUDITH MILLER When you're visiting an antiques fair, turn left once you've passed through the entrance. Ev...
JUDITH MILLER I think when you get interested in antiques, the most frustrating thing is that books don't have...
JUDITH MILLER You become an expert by working hard. We've got fantastic museums, collections and antique shows...
JUDITH MILLER Junk stands and antique markets are the perfect place to pick up clues about the history of a countr...
JUDITH MILLER When one set of Jews labels another set of Jews 'anti-Semitic,' they are trying to monopoliz...
JUDITH BUTLER We already know that anonymous letters are despicable. In etiquette, as well as in law, hiring a hit...
JUDITH MARTIN Race and class are rendered distinct analytically only to produce the realization that the analysis ...
JUDITH BUTLER When people start hurling insults at you, you know their minds are closed and there's no point i...
JUDITH MARTIN Dealers always like to sell chairs in sets of four, six, or eight. And they charge a premium for sup...
JUDITH MILLER To search is more blessed than to find, Gissler thinks.
JUDITH SCHALANSKY I always credited my mother with inspiring me to be a writer because she was such a passionate reade...
JUDITH VIORST The modern designers are quite showy, and a lot of the young people really like it. Costume jewelry ...
JUDITH MILLER Kids need to encounter kids like themselves - kids who can sometimes be crabby and fresh and rebelli...
JUDITH VIORST There is a new venue for theory, necessarily impure, where it emerges in and as the very event of cu...
JUDITH BUTLER So much of our fictional medievalism is distorted through a lens of Protestantism and the Reformatio...
JUDITH TARR There is no original or primary gender a drag imitates, but gender is a kind of imitation for which ...
JUDITH BUTLER The purpose of it is to be a community building event.
JUDITH ANDERSON There's been some conflict with old-time ranchers being engulfed with new development.
JUDITH ANDERSON Personally I believe it is important for mankind to respect nature - for homeostasis - and I have vo...
JUDITH ANDERSON I am inspired by many mediums and use them to express varied aspects of my philosophies and life obs...
JUDITH ANDERSON All of my work is based on nature. I grew up in a rural environment and living in the Bay Area allow...
JUDITH ANDERSON This technique requires both sides of your brain -- analytical and creative.
JUDITH ANDERSON Innovation, creativity, and enthusiasm are all linked. When you walk into a warehouse and the manage...
JUDITH ANDERSON Etiquette does not render you defenseless. If it did, even I wouldn't subscribe to it. But ruden...
JUDITH MARTIN Chaperons, even in their days of glory, were almost never able to enforce morality; what they did wa...
JUDITH MARTIN Chaperons don't enforce morality; they force immorality to be discreet.
JUDITH MARTIN Understanding Hamas/Hezbollah as social movements that are progressive, that are on the left, that a...
JUDITH BUTLER We're now seeing email that people thought they had deleted showing up as evidence in court. You...
JUDITH MARTIN When I do uptempo songs, I like to bring in the funk and world music and different elements.
JUDITH HILL I make a distinction between manners and etiquette - manners as the principles, which are eternal an...
JUDITH MARTIN Victorian racehorse owners frequently named their horses after murderers. That was so astonishing. C...
JUDITH FLANDERS On the one hand, shopping is dependable: You can do it alone, if you lose your heart to something th...
JUDITH KRANTZ What restricts the use of the word 'lady' among the courteous is that it is intended to set a woman ...
JUDITH MARTIN A young lady is a female child who has just done something dreadful.
JUDITH MARTIN There is nothing enduring in life for a woman except what she builds in a man's heart
JUDITH ANDERSON Looking at you has been my favorite pastime from the moment you asked me to describe your face," he ...
JUDITH MCNAUGHT No letter from a lover is ever more welcome, brings more joy, than a publisher's expression of inter...
JUDITH BROCKLEHURST A young lady who faints may awake chivalrous sentiments in gentleman; a young lady who weeps engende...
JUDITH BROCKLEHURST The biblical account of Noah's Ark and the Flood is perhaps the most implausible story for fundament...
JUDITH HAYES We are all born charming, fresh and spontaneous and must be civilized before we are fit to participa...
JUDITH MARTIN What you have when everyone wears the same playclothes for all occasions, is addressad by nickname, ...
JUDITH MARTIN There are three social classes in America: upper middle class, middle class, and lower middle class.
JUDITH MARTIN It is far more impressive when others discover your good qualities without your help.
JUDITH MARTIN One of the things that made Epic strong when I wrote the original code was that it never occurred to...
JUDITH FAULKNER The more facts one introduces, the more truth one shows, the more determined the bigot is to cling t...
JUDITH TARR You are about to begin the hero's journey. Travel well on the quest. A life of More is your birthrig...
JUDITH WRIGHT He had led off being a perfectionist when he discovered that not promptly kept appointments, not a h...
JUDITH GUEST The great thing about costume jewelry is that there's something for everyone - there are very hu...
JUDITH MILLER I would say that I'm a feminist theorist before I'm a queer theorist or a gay and lesbian th...
JUDITH BUTLER Sexual harassment law is very important. But I think it would be a mistake if the sexual harassment ...
JUDITH BUTLER Rawn did her own thing in her own way. She cast the female gaze on a genre heavy with all-male quest...
JUDITH TARR It frustrates me about myself when I see I'm not taking the road that demands more of me.
JUDITH LIGHT It's far more impressive when others discover your good qualities without your help.
JUDITH MARTIN My Girl Scout leader. She told me if I listened more and talked less, I could grow up to be a good w...
JUDITH VIORST I was an undergrad math major and a grad student in computer science. I'm hugely introverted, no...
JUDITH FAULKNER As we get past our superficial material wants and instant gratification we connect to a deeper part ...
JUDITH WRIGHT Maybe it's a generational thing, but I never wanted to be the best black dancer in the world. I ...
JUDITH JAMISON I heard directly from my source that I should testify before the grand jury,
JUDITH MILLER Obama's failure to close Guantanamo is yet another instance where the rhetoric of democratic and...
JUDITH BUTLER Parents should conduct their arguments in quiet, respectful tones, but in a foreign language. You...
JUDITH MARTIN I got that experience through dating dozens of men for six years after college, getting an entry lev...
JUDITH KRANTZ If judged only by the results that challenge the laws of probabilities, then the power of prayer is ...
JUDITH HAYES My mother was a huge, huge reader. I think I picked up very early how precious it was to write thing...
JUDITH VIORST Some of his comments suggested insubordination on my part. I have always written the articles assign...
JUDITH MILLER I started buying bits of broken porcelain. I furnished our first flat with pieces of 'junk.'...
JUDITH MILLER Obama was late to affirm the Egyptian revolution as a democratic movement, and even then he was eage...
JUDITH BUTLER Without Mark Felt there would have been none of the revelations that showed what began as a third-ra...
JUDITH MILLER Etiquette is all human social behavior. If you're a hermit on a mountain, you don't have to ...
JUDITH MARTIN Freedom without rules doesn't work. And communities do not work unless they are regulated by eti...
JUDITH MARTIN As a Jew, I was taught that it was ethically imperative to speak up and to speak out against arbitra...
JUDITH BUTLER Why is it that almost every human culture yet discovered has found it necessary to believe in an aft...
JUDITH HAYES I am a traditionalist, and I'm an innovator. Most of what I do is to weigh change and legislate ...
JUDITH MARTIN The message of transformation and how we all can live from our heart, not just from our head, was a ...
JUDITH LIGHT Identifying Israel with Jewry obscures the existence of the small but important post-Zionist movemen...
JUDITH BUTLER This was the invention of modern American philanthropy as we know it. The idea of systematizing givi...
JUDITH RODIN People don't remember me for how high my legs went, even though they went up very high, and how ...
JUDITH JAMISON A rebel. That was me when I was younger. What was a rebel from New Jersey? A rebel was moving to the...
JUDITH VIORST I grew very skeptical of certain kind of Jewish separatism in my youth. I mean, I saw the Jewish com...
JUDITH BUTLER My idea for the Jamison Project was rather like a pickup company. The idea was to give the dancers a...
JUDITH JAMISON According to my interview notes, though, it appears that Mr. Libby said little more than that the as...
JUDITH MILLER In that case, we just build ingredients and recipes from the region.
JUDITH BERGER It's the ill-informed that lash out. They get it off their chests. We have found the best way is not...
JUDITH YOUNG Transfer of title has been completed, the Island corridor is now Island-owned and it's connecting co...
JUDITH SAYERS To have a reason to get up in the morning, it is necessary to possess a guiding principle. A belief ...
JUDITH GUEST The principle of academic freedom is designed to make sure that powers outside the university, inclu...
JUDITH BUTLER The problem with beards is the association with the '60s and '70s - the beatnik and hippie movement,...
JUDITH RASBAND We were not expecting to get caught up in the global warming debate when we published our initial re...
JUDITH CURRY While once the Judicial Conference was much more circumscribed.
JUDITH RESNIK Chief Justice Rehnquist was brilliant at enhancing that position, and Congress has played a major ro...
JUDITH RESNIK There are many innovations that have been proposed. There is a proposition that life tenure means th...
JUDITH RESNIK Chief Justice (William) Rehnquist was brilliant at enhancing that position, and Congress has played ...
JUDITH RESNIK People use people according to their own needs. Or don't use them. When a primary need is one of saf...
JUDITH GUEST He hangs on now, pressing his hand lightly against the wall, below the window, waiting for the famil...
JUDITH GUEST Depending on the reality one must face, one may prefer to opt for illusion.
JUDITH GUEST Many people mistakenly think a new technology cancels out an old one.
JUDITH MARTIN [How much to prescribe is an open question.] The absurdity of this is that a lot of times we're put ...
JUDITH OWENS It was very bitter for me to see this happen all over again. And I felt I had to do something.
JUDITH KARPOVA Toward the 1890s, you start seeing more lawyers who are homegrown. Still, for many years, they could...
JUDITH KILPATRICK Love and Shrimp.
JUDITH VIORST I could be such a wonderful wife to another wife’s husband.
JUDITH VIORST