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MIKE BIRBIGLIA When a mother quarrels with a daughter, she has a double dose of unhappiness hers from the conflict,... TERRI APTER There's so much with my character in 'Dredd' that I identify with. She's my favorite... OLIVIA THIRLBY When my first daughter was born, my husband held her in his hands and said, 'My God, she's s... AYELET WALDMAN The women of my generation and my daughter's generation, they were very active in moving along t... RUTH BADER GINSBURG Mum loves me being famous! She is so excited and proud, as she had me so young and couldn't supp... ADELE Sister relationships span a huge range, from best friends to worst enemies. From 'I adore her; I... DEBORAH TANNEN What Whitney Houston has accomplished will never be accomplished. She's the most famous person o... NARADA MICHAEL WALDEN My daughter's dabbling in showbiz, and she's done a few commercials. She's auditioned fo... 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I look at it this way: the WNBA is 13 years young. I think eventually women will get to that point, ... CANDACE PARKER My grandmother spent her whole life working as a maid, a cook and a babysitter, barely scraping by, ... JULIAN CASTRO When you have a daughter, you want to protect her from the things that I've seen out there, you ... NAS It is just a crazy life as a sportsman. My daughter, Sam, wants to go into tennis, and I tell her, &... ERNIE ELS Absolutely, I don't believe in rules. As I tell my daughter when she is mischievous, 'Well-b... NIA VARDALOS I thought, 'OK, Melissa Gilbert is playing my mom, and I'm playing her old role - no pressur... KARA LINDSAY The great thing about getting married young like I did and having a child so young is that he gets t... TONY DANZA All the Disney Princess films are iconic and beautiful, so to have been a part of all that was reall... LEA SALONGA A women's greatest asset is her beauty. 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JOHN OATES Having a mustache and never smiling became a permanent component of my persona through the quaintly ... JOHN OATES My mustache has become this weird iconic representation of a certain era. JOHN OATES I couldn't wait to grow a mustache. I stopped shaving my upper lip the day I graduated from high... JOHN OATES The key, I think, from a business point of view, is to learn how to be efficient in making a record ... JOHN OATES I think people were just starving for good material because they just weren't getting it on the ... JOHN OATES I think in music and a lot of creative fields, people's egos get in the way of their ability of ... JOHN OATES Jam Cruise is actually a comfortable place for me. My jamming skills and my improvisational skills h... JOHN OATES You don't want to pitch a tent and live inside the Louvre. You want to check it out, appreciate ... JOHN OATES I'm a bit more grounded than Daryl. I'm more practical, more pragmatic. Daryl looks more at the crea... 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JOHN OATES I realized if I'm not really making an album, I don't have to be concerned about things like... JOHN OATES He would be overjoyed. To see the outpouring of love from the fans, the former players and the Range... GLORIA OATES This is just a very strong testimony to the life Johnny lead. GLORIA OATES It's absolutely awesome the turnout that we've had here. Friends from as far back as high school and... GLORIA OATES I am just going outside and may be some time. CAPTAIN LAWRENCE OATES This was a one-on-one encounter between an officer and a violent felon. And there's no question that... CHIEF DANIEL OATES It's so easy to settle for less than God's best for us because we don't always feel like... JOYCE MEYER Yes, God does expect us to live holy, consecrated lives. But not even the best of our intentions can... JOYCE MEYER As a celebrity, you get a certain number of free passes. You're actually in a better position if... JOYCE BROTHERS There is such a thing as bad publicity. JOYCE BROTHERS I don't give advice. I can't tell anybody what to do. Instead I say this is what we know abo... JOYCE BROTHERS I have found in work that you only get back what you put into it, but it does come back gift-wrapped... JOYCE BROTHERS The topic of trust is an important factor in all matters of the heart - and here's why. Men lie ... JOYCE BROTHERS Never try to negotiate with anyone after he or she has eaten. People are best persuaded on an empty ... JOYCE BROTHERS Credit buying is much like being drunk. The buzz happens immediately and gives you a lift... The han... JOYCE BROTHERS