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My wife and I just don't have the same feelings for each other we used to have. I guess I just don't love her anymore and she doesn't love me. What can i do?"
"The feeling isn't there anymore?" I asked.
"That's right," he reaffirmed. "And we have three children we're really concerned about. What do you suggest?"
"love her," I replied.
"I told you, the feeling just isn't there anymore."
"Love her."
"You don't understand. the feeling of love just isn't there."
"Then love her. If the feeling isn't there, that's a good reason to love her."
"But how do you love when you don't love?"
"My friend , love is a verb. Love - the feeling - is a fruit of love, the verb. So love her. Serve her. Sacrifice. Listen to her. Empathize. Appreciate. Affirm her. Are you willing to do that?


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STEPHEN COVEY Our character is basically a composite of our habits. Because they are consistent, often unconcious ...
STEPHEN COVEY It takes a great deal of character strength to apologize quickly out of one's heart rather than out ...
STEPHEN COVEY The Inside-Out approach to personal and interpersonal effectiveness means to start first with self; ...
STEPHEN COVEY The most important ingredient we put into any relationship is not what we say or what we do, but wha...
STEPHEN COVEY Live out of your imagination, not your history.
STEPHEN COVEY In addition to self-awareness, imagination and conscience, it is the fourth human endowment-independ...
STEPHEN COVEY You have to decide what your highest priorities are and have the courage—pleasantly, smilingly, non...
STEPHEN COVEY People who exercise their embryonic freedom day after day, little by little, expand that freedom. Pe...
STEPHEN COVEY Our ultimate freedom is the right and power to decide how anybody or anything outside ourselves will...
STEPHEN COVEY Security represents your sense of worth, your identity, your emotional anchorage, your self-esteem, ...
STEPHEN COVEY It is in the ordinary events of every day that we develop the proactive capacity to handle the extra...
STEPHEN COVEY You can't live principals you can't understand.
STEPHEN COVEY Priority is a function of context.
STEPHEN COVEY To focus on technique is like cramming your way through school. You sometimes get by, perhaps even g...
STEPHEN COVEY Private victories precede public victories. You can't invert that process any more than you can harv...
STEPHEN COVEY Seek first to understand and then to be understood.
STEPHEN COVEY The ability to manage well doesn't make much difference if you're not even in the right jungle.
STEPHEN COVEY The character ethic, which I believe to be the foundation of success, teaches that there are basic p...
STEPHEN COVEY Effective leadership is putting first things first. Effective management is discipline, carrying it...
STEPHEN COVEY Lose/Win people bury a lot of feelings. And unexpressed feelings come forth later in uglier ways. Ps...
STEPHEN COVEY If you're proactive, you don't have to wait for circumstances or other people to create perspective ...
STEPHEN COVEY It's easy to say no! when there's a deeper yes! burning inside.
STEPHEN COVEY My parents were just constantly affirming me in everything that I did. Late at night, I'd wake u...
STEPHEN COVEY I affirm to you the tremendous potential you have, not beyond anything you could ever imagine.
STEPHEN COVEY Reactive people... are often affected by their physical environment. They find external sources to b...
STEPHEN COVEY One of the things that I have admired about India is the spiritualism of the people.
STEPHEN COVEY The deepest desire of the human spirit is to be acknowledged.
STEPHEN COVEY Life is not accumulation, it is about contribution.
STEPHEN COVEY Accountability breeds response-ability.
STEPHEN COVEY Management is efficiency in climbing the ladder of success; leadership determines whether the ladder...
STEPHEN COVEY Both times I was in India, I could not get people to listen to each other. I had to literally tell p...
STEPHEN COVEY The more people rationalize cheating, the more it becomes a culture of dishonesty. And that can beco...
STEPHEN COVEY If there's one thing that's certain in business, it's uncertainty.
STEPHEN COVEY We are the creative force of our life, and through our own decisions rather than our conditions, if ...
STEPHEN COVEY When you really listen to another person from their point of view, and reflect back to them that und...
STEPHEN COVEY Trust is the glue of life. It's the most essential ingredient in effective communication. It'...
STEPHEN COVEY If you want small changes in your life, work on your attitude. But if you want big and primary chang...
STEPHEN COVEY Effective leadership is putting first things first. Effective management is discipline, carrying it ...
STEPHEN COVEY When you show deep empathy toward others, their defensive energy goes down, and positive energy repl...
STEPHEN COVEY Leadership is a choice, not a position.
STEPHEN COVEY The key is taking responsibility and initiative, deciding what your life is about and prioritizing y...
STEPHEN COVEY The key is not to prioritize what's on your schedule, but to schedule your priorities.
STEPHEN COVEY When one side benefits more than the other, that's a win-lose situation. To the winner it might ...
STEPHEN COVEY There are three constants in life... change, choice and principles.
STEPHEN COVEY Moral authority comes from following universal and timeless principles like honesty, integrity, trea...
STEPHEN COVEY Strength lies in differences, not in similarities.
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