No amount of listening to messages can or should take the place of personal Bible study, meditation and praying.
Train yourself to search the Scriptures for God's will for your life.
By the way, that's how real relationship with the Holy Spirit is forged.

Never be decieved by exterior decorations, some monsters go about on suit and tie and of course a Bible.

Only God gives a man true friends, He is the one who binds the heart of men together.

If we study the Holy Scripture, the spirit shall minister to us the depths of truth of GOD.

The LORD is my shepherd; I shall not want. He maketh me to lie down in green pastures: he leadeth me beside the still waters. He restoreth my soul: he leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for his name's sake. Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me. Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies: thou anointest my head with oil; my cup runneth over. Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life: and I will dwell in the house of the LORD forever.
[Psalms 23]

The holy sword, the Holy Scripture.