No matter how intimate of a relationship or closeness you have with another person, you will never know every trauma nor every happy time they carry behind their eyes and in their hearts. Shit gets real deep with folks and only they know how deep it goes. Hold space for people to filter their knowing, if they so choose.

Racist in our culture act with the same victim blaming behavior as those in rape culture. What was he wearing, what was he doing, was he speaking loudly, was he blasting loud music, was he reaching in his pocket, was he drinking, drugging, or acting all wild? And they believe that these things somehow justify what happened to him.

Reclaim words! Ugly 'in the flesh'-a look with true character.

Freelance. I love contributing to various freelance causes, projects etc for goodness sake.

I want to nest with my loved ones in a place we may call home.

Blush chakra