Obedience keeps the rules. Love knows when to break them.

Perfect love casts out fear. Where there is love there are no demands, no expectations, no dependency. I do not demand that you make me happy; my happiness does not lie in you. If you were to leave me, I will not feel sorry for myself; I enjoy your company immensely, but I do not cling.

Fools have no RULES; therefore anyone given should be obeyed to a logical end.

If you follow the rules, it's your own fault.

We see people and things not as they are, but as we are.

There is only one cause of unhappiness: the false beliefs you have in your head, beliefs so widespread, so commonly held, that it never occurs to you to question them.