Oh! blame not the bard.

Oh! blame not the bard.

Vina e un vis, mila e singura realitate.

It is more difficult to praise rightly than to blame.

I'm Canadian. Can't you take my word on it? (To Canadian immigration)

Continuing to play the victim is a self-fulfilling prophecy. Blaming others for your station in life will indeed make you a victim but the perpetrator will be your own self, not life or those around you.