FastSaying

Our can-do culture has made many of us believe that we should always be self-sufficient. Somewhere along the way, we also got the message that asking for help is a sign of weakness. We often forget that we’re interdependent creatures whose very existence depends on the kindness of others, including—with a bow to Tennessee Williams—strangers.

Sharon Salzberg

Sharon Salzberg

compassionindependencelovelove-quotesreal-lovereal-love-quotesself-sufficiencystrangersweakness

Related Quotes

No matter what we think we should do, I don’t think you can coerce yourself into loving your neighbor—or your boss—when you can’t stand him. But if you try to understand your feelings of dislike with mindfulness and compassion, being sure not to forget self-compassion, you create the possibility for change.
— Sharon Salzberg
changecompassionlove
Even as we recognize our resentment, bitterness, or jealousy, we can also honor our own wish to be happy, to feel free.
— Sharon Salzberg
bitternesshappinessjealousy
These are times when sympathetic joy comes naturally, but in a complex relationship the heart may not leap up so easily.
— Sharon Salzberg
heartlovelove-quotes
The heart is a generous muscle.
— Sharon Salzberg
generosityheartheart-quotes
How we traverse the space between us when conflict arises has a profound effect on the health and longevity of our relationships.
— Sharon Salzberg
conflictshealthlove