Pain is pain, hurt is hurt, fear is fear, anger is anger, and it has no color.

If you are afraid to take a chance, take one anyway. What you don't do can create the same regrets as the mistakes you make.

All of us have ways in which we mask and cover our pain.

If you are a card-carrying human being, chances are that you share the same fear as all other humans: the fear of losing love, respect and connection to others. And if you are human, in order to avoid or prevent the pain, trauma and perceived devastation of the loss, you will do anything to avoid your greatest fear from being visited on you.

One of the ways that people avoid taking responsibility for their role in their own pain is what I call the BPs - blame and projection.

My mother she was heaven bound, I did not see it then but i see it now, being a child wasn't an easy thing watching my back with everything i did, hiding in corners crying for it to stop then silence i can hear it not! the pains she had the marks on her face, the anger i had he was a disgrace, now I'm grown i can show him pain, his life will no longer be the same