Sensitive people care when the world doesn't because we understand waiting to be rescued and no one shows up. We have rescued ourselves, so many times that we have become self taught in the art of compassion for those forgotten.
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Related We have a right to life, not on it. DANIEL MELGAçO We have finalised the rescue operation. We have rescued the Kyoto protocol. It is a major achievemen... MARGOT WALLSTROM As we all know, many people remain buried under tons of rubble and debris, waiting to be rescued. Wh... JEAN-BERTRAND ARISTIDE Single ladies, the only thing we need to be rescued from is the notion that we need to be rescued. MANDY HALE There's people still there, waiting to be rescued, and for me it's not acceptable. CELINE DION If we're honest with ourselves, most of us know the one thing we lack. CRAIG GROESCHEL We must know the pain of loss; because if we never knew it, we would have no compassion for others, ... DEAN KOONTZ Shelter dogs are the most loving, wonderful, sweet pets in the world. They understand being rescued,... FAITH HUNTER Each of us views life through a different lens. What we think is colored by the baggage we carry, an... LAURIE BUCHANAN, PHD We had to take a big knife off one guy who we rescued. That's not anything that should be a surprise... BOB MCDOWELL The geometry of judgment is a circle. Hate is a snake that turns to consume itself from the tail, a ... DEAN KOONTZ You have made people listen. You have made people care, and you have taught us that whether we are p... KOFI ANNAN The answer isn't more time but a greater awareness of the time we have. CRAIG GROESCHEL It's the imperfections that make things beautiful JENNY HAN If we all look at life we think how nice, then we look at death and everybody goes oh you can say th... GARY F EVANS... If you love someone you must set them free like the wind and give them the respect they deserve.If y... GARY F EVANS... Destiny consist in the moments that we experienced, and not in the choices we have to do. DANIEL MELGAçO My crew and I airlifted nearly 100 people from the roof of a building and onto a field where ambulan... DAVID HOPPER we sat there smoking cigarettes at 5 in the morning. CHARLES BUKOWSKI We must become so alone, so utterly alone, that we withdraw into our innermost self. It is a way of ... HERMANN HESSE We've got exactly what we need to fulfill our destiny! ABHISHEK KUMAR Every man has forgotten who he is. One may understand the cosmos, but never the ego; the self is mor... G.K. CHESTERTON We were in the attic before we were rescued, ... At that time, the shelters were segregated. WARREN WILLIAMS The times in our lives in which we feel that we have the least power are actually
the times when we ... GAIL PURSELL ELLIOTT Now we have one chance in some case, as in this body but in other body we will have + one because we... DEYTH BANGER Education is what remains when we have forgotten all that we have been taught GEORGE SAVILE When we hear some beautiful piece of Mozart or admire a wonderful building, we suddenly become prese... JOHN O'DONOHUE Superheroes were born in the minds of people desperate to be rescued. JODI PICOULT When we die our deeds shall be left for humanity to judge & our flesh shall become dust for humanity... DAVID ATTA (A.K.A DAVIED ATTLARS & MR DAIN) It (dunk) is always good for the crowd. We have been waiting on that to happen, because he (D.J. Sha... JOE LAYNE My mother can certainly be rough around the edges at times, but she also taught me to have compassio... LZ GRANDERSON If... many influential people have failed to understand, or have just forgotten, what we were up aga... MARGARET THATCHER I've been in this struggle for many years now. I understand racism. I understand that there are a lo... MAXINE WATERS It is... axiomatic that we should all think of ourselves as being more sensitive than other people b... W. H. AUDEN For the first year we rescued 250 ferrets and after that it's been 375 to 400 a year. CJ JONES Since that night I have come to understand that sometimes the best families of all are those we crea... SILAS HOUSE It's definitely frustrating when you have that many penalties to kill. But on the same hand, we kind... ROBERT ESCHE Many times we feel that motivation doesn't last for long. This is just because we have our identity ... ARVIND MEHTA I am aware that everyone that exists has a story, and we all exist because that story is important f... ARZELL I can think of no better way of redeeming this tragic world today than love and laughter. Too many o... THEODORE HESBURGH When compassion wakes up in us, we find ourselves more willing to become vulnerable, to take the ris... SUE MONK KIDD It's a powerful way for people to know that we have not forgotten. It's reassuring to see so many pe... EMILY LAU I write for those women who do not speak, for those who do not have a voice because they were so ter... AUDRE LORDE The conditions were extremely hazardous and it could get worse later in the week. We didn't have to ... PETER ANDERSON Convinced that we're living the whole time that we're dying. We decide to go out walking the wh... TEGAN QUIN In our family, we've always been owned by border collies, or dogs of one kind or another, and ha... GARY PAULSEN Maybe what I need to be rescued from is the feeling that I don’t need to be rescued, for without a... CRAIG D. LOUNSBROUGH Yet we were rescued by that fancy, and saved by a myth. URSULA K. LE GUIN Mostly, we authors must repeat ourselves -- that's the truth. We have two or three great moving expe... SOURCE UNKNOWN We're way behind the times and not catching up to the advances in technology. Here we have the abili... JULIE SALZ GREENSTEIN What the computer in virtual reality enables us to do is to recalibrate ourselves so that we can sta... DOUGLAS ADAMS The values we care about the deepest, and the movements within society that support those values, co... FRED ROGERS We took comfort in the knowledge that God is never cruel, there is a reason for all things. We must ... DEAN KOONTZ When we started the band, it was because we were waiting for a sound that never happened. We got tir... MIKE SHINODA The waves were heavy. A lot of people had to be rescued. DREW DELIS Regret comes in four tones that operate in unison to shape our lives. First, we regret the life that... KILROY J. OLDSTER I don't wear fur and I understand their cause. I am the biggest animal lover in the world. I hav... GISELE BUNDCHEN You know we've been going in getting people out of attics, off the top of roofs and trees. We've got... JAMES HUNT Once he was rescued, then we had to arrest him. JUDY ORIHUELA Because God is never cruel, there is a reason for all things. We must know the pain of loss; because... DEAN KOONTZ We've rescued Tillie from a life of crime and we hope to rehabilitate her so she can be a contributi... BRIAN OLSON Self-absorption in all its forms kills empathy, let alone compassion. When we focus on ourselves, ou... DANIEL GOLEMAN We must relinquish our passive observation of the world outside; we can open the door to the world w... MARIANNE WILLIAMSON The more we give, the more we reap the benefits of feeling good in helping others. We are all capabl... ANGIE KARAN Mostly, we authors must repeat ourselves - that's the truth. We have two or three great and moving e... F. SCOTT FITZGERALD If we care enough to share,there will surely be enough for every one,but if we care for ourselves al... DAVID ATTA (A.K.A DAVIED ATTLARS & MR DAIN) Because all of us believe and understand in the fabric of the common bond of why we call ourselves A... STEVE BUYER We have all read in scientific books, and, indeed, in all romances, the story of the man who has for... G.K. CHESTERTON Weirdly enough, the more we give away, the richer we become. CRAIG GROESCHEL If we live a self-directed, self-motivated, self-centered life, always needing to get our own way, t... JOYCE MEYER The words you can’t find, you borrow. We read to know we’re not alone. We read because w... GABRIELLE ZEVIN In this world we do not have to become the doer, we have to become nimit [an instrument, one of the ... DADA BHAGWAN A couple of customers interrupted [...] who wanted to know if we had some YA book about ants and ali... SHAUN DAVID HUTCHINSON We should not blame people by the mistakes of others. DANIEL MELGAçO I define comfort as self-acceptance. When we finally learn that self-care begins and ends with ourse... JENNIFER LOUDEN The most important thing is to preserve the world we live in. Unless people understand and learn abo... JACK HANNA Our standards of morality are begotten of the past needs of society, but is society to remain always... KAKUZō OKAKURA We need be careful how we deal with those about us, when every death carries to some small circle of... CHARLES DICKENS So, tomorrow, I'm leaving. And I'm not going to let that happen again with anyone else. I'm going to... STEPHEN CHBOSKY We all have a world of things inside ourselves and each one of us has his own private world. How can... LUIGI PIRANDELLO The world is the way it is now because of five thousand years of ingrained structures of power based... NAOMI ALDERMAN No daylight to separate us. Only kinship. Inching ourselves closer to creating a communit... GREGORY J. BOYLE 2. We experience bouts of depressions at times. Those are the times when we feel that we just want t... LATIKA TEOTIA It is obvious that art cannot teach anyone anything, since in four thousand years humanity has learn... ANDREI TARKOVSKY He blesses us so we can be different. CRAIG GROESCHEL People only watch my shows for me, and those shows have remained evergreen long after the guests are... BARRY HUMPHRIES Enjoy the successes that you have, and don't be too hard on yourself when you don't do well. Too man... PATTY SHEEHAN Enjoy the successes that you have, and don't be too hard on yourself when you don't do well. Too m... PATTY SHEEHAN One of the heartening things is when the great players miss out a few times, it shows they're human ... JUSTIN LANGER If we have no peace, it is because we have forgotten that we belong to each other. MOTHER THERESA If we have no peace, it is because we have forgotten that we belong to each other. MOTHER TERESA If we have no peace, it is because we have forgotten that we belong to each other. MOTHER TERESA If we have no peace, it is because we have forgotten that we belong to each other. MOTHER TERESA OF CALCUTTA Self-care is never a selfish act - it is simply good stewardship of the only gift I have, the gift I... PARKER J. PALMER It's not easy. Many, many, many songs have been written about it. We wouldn't have anything to read ... CLAIRE DANES Inspired By Beauty In Creation We Are One DANIEL GILMAN We have been the recipients of the choicest bounties of Heaven. We have been preserved, these many y... ABRAHAM LINCOLN We have all forgotten what we really are. All that we call common sense and rationality and practica... G.K. CHESTERTON We feel free... Now we are really self-reliant. This is the great advantage of teaching ourselves to... SUKARNO I don't have a lot of patience for stories in which women are rescued by men. NEIL GAIMAN
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ALDER The only real battle in life is between hanging on and letting go. SHANNON L. ALDER When someone you love says goodbye you can stare long and hard at the door they closed and forget to... SHANNON L. ALDER Courage doesn’t happen when you have all the answers. It happens when you are ready to face the qu... SHANNON L. ALDER Empowered Women 101: If they made you an option you will always be an option vs. the person they rea... SHANNON L. ALDER You can't compare men or women with mental disorders to the normal expectations of men and women in ... SHANNON L. ALDER Two people with mental issues in a relationship does not work. It's like sitting in a boat and neith... SHANNON L. ALDER People that have been consistently hurt by others in life will only see the one time you hurt them a... SHANNON L. ALDER victim noun \ˈvik-təm\ 1. The moment you tell everyone you have a mental disorder... SHANNON L. ALDER Feelings are something you have; not something you are. SHANNON L. ALDER The greatest thing a father can do for his children is to respect the woman that gave birth to his c... SHANNON L. ALDER A heart worth loving is one you understand, even in silence. SHANNON L. ALDER Perspective is as simple as answering this question: If I had 5 months to live would I experience th... SHANNON L. ALDER Whenever you can’t balance what you see with what you believe you have conflict. SHANNON L. ALDER Spiritual pain is when you can’t stand another moment not knowing the real truth, and when you fin... SHANNON L. ALDER Do not conform to seek the seekers, but leave the leavers. Wisdom comes from facing what you do not ... SHANNON L. ALDER Accomplishments don’t erase shame, hatred, cruelty, silence, ignorance, discrimination, low self-e... SHANNON L. ALDER Honesty is vulnerability. Sadly, not everyone can handle someone’s honesty. However, lying allows ... SHANNON L. ALDER Regardless of your faith, you can never escape uncertainty. SHANNON L. ALDER Half of the time, the Holy Ghost tries to warn us about certain people that come into our life. The ... SHANNON L. ALDER The only person that should wear your ring is the one person that would never… 1... SHANNON L. ALDER Marriage is the beginning of love for your spouse, not the result of it. SHANNON L. ALDER It is not the hand that rocks the cradle that rules the world; it is the woman that holds the keys t... SHANNON L. ALDER When I was a child, an angel came to say, A true friend is coming my warrior to sweep you away,... SHANNON L. ALDER When someone you love dies, you are given the gift of "second chances". Their eulogy is a reminder t... SHANNON L. ALDER One of the most powerful lessons in life is to recognize that no one can give you power, and many pe... SHANNON L. ALDER Her wounds brought her a great source of power because they lived in the same place as her heart. SHANNON L. ALDER You're only a victim to the degree of what your perception allows. SHANNON L. ALDER Your most important “want” should be the one you can control! SHANNON L. ALDER If he emotionally cheated on you remember this before you take him back. It was a choice to do it an... SHANNON L. ALDER The number of chances you give someone doesn't tell the world how loving you are without telling the... SHANNON L. ALDER A deceitful man will go as far as to trample all over a woman’s reputation and spirit, in order to... SHANNON L. ALDER Be leery of silence. It doesn't mean you won the argument. Often, people are just busy reloading the... SHANNON L. ALDER I am tired of people saying that poor character is the only reason people do wrong things. Actually,... SHANNON L. ALDER Temptation goes both ways. Sometimes, you can be tempted to live a half life because it pleases some... SHANNON L. ALDER