Set boundaries to protect yourself, not to keep others out.
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I have to remind myself not to set boundaries.
RICHARD THOMPSON My life is not mine - it is for my people – the humans – the humans of the thinking society.
ABHIJIT NASKAR Daring to set boundaries is about having the courage to love ourselves, even when we risk disappoint...
BRENE BROWN We’ve all been around middle-aged people who have the boundaries of an eighteen-month-old. They ha...
HENRY CLOUD Be true to yourself & your feelings.They will never let you down.
DR ANIL KUMAR SINHA Compare yourself to others for inspiration not competition
BANGAMBIKI HABYARIMANA That's why we have the perimeter set up to keep pedestrian traffic out of the area. It's obviously s...
JUSTIN OHLEMILLER Life is not just about betterment of one’s own life. It is important to make yourself stronger so ...
ZENG HAN JUN The market is still waiting for HSBC results, which will have a big impact on the direction of the m...
ANDREW TO Property shares had a technical rebound, but interest rate concerns will still affect properties unt...
ANDREW TO Bank of China's results were quite good; double-digit growth can be taken as good results for a bank...
ANDREW TO The index tried to challenge 18,000 but failed, so that triggered profit taking. Tokyo's slide also ...
ANDREW TO Trading seems to be focusing on selective counters because investors are cautious amid interest rate...
ANDREW TO We're seeing a minor technical rebound after Wall Street rebounded from two days of losses. The key ...
ANDREW TO Some investors have returned to pick up the stock at bargain prices.
ANDREW TO I think the take-up for the placement is not too good and other property developers may be discourag...
ANDREW TO We are afraid that our freedoms and liberties will be infringed in the future.
ANDREW TO I think there was some minor selling pressure on telecom stocks as the market continued to see a wea...
ANDREW TO You must not keep the light for yourself,but share it with others to come.
HAREL R. LAWRENCE You Must not keep the light for yourself, but share it with others to come.
HAREL R. LAWRENCE Keep in yourself, and protect yourself, otherwise it will be too late, and you will not be remembere...
M. AZEEM PASHA When our life in him is healthy and vibrant, we do not only ache to keep sinking our roots down deep...
DAVID MATHIS Just as we expect others to value our boundaries, it's equally important for us to respect the bound...
LAURIE BUCHANAN, PHD Stay true to yourself.Take everyday challenge in your stride & strive to make journey of life exactl...
DR ANIL KUMAR SINHA Be true to yourself & know your virtue & capability. This will inculcate sense of confidence & fulln...
DR ANIL KUMAR SINHA Be true to yourself.Give wings of confidence & courage to your endeavour. Your strength is reflected...
DR ANIL KUMAR SINHA You know you're being yourself when you 'please' without trying (so hard).
MITTA XININDLU Don't lie to yourself?
SONYA.E.WILLIAMS A man speaking sense to himself is no madder than a man speaking nonsense not to himself.
TOM STOPPARD I'm talking to myself in two different personas now. I'm reaching for a full-throttle meltdown and w...
C.K. KELLY MARTIN Keep your fears to yourself but share your courage with others
G.K. CHESTERON Keep your fears to yourself, but share your inspiration with others.
ROBERT LOUIS STEVENSON Keep your fears to yourself, but share your courage with others.
ROBERT LOUIS STEVENSON …it’s not the truth about others that will set you free, but the truth about yourself.
LOUISE PENNY Do never entrust someone, because if you can not keep it to yourself, do not expect that others do t...
TISCHA To be, or not to be, that is the question.
WILLIAM SHAKESPEARE Your "Not To Do" list is also important.
MANI S. SIVASUBRAMANIAN The thought of being whoever I want is a terrifying thing, because I have only ever been who everyon...
DIANNA HARDY Perfect is the enemy of good.
VOLTAIRE Uniqueness lies in not comparing oneself to others.
RAHEEL FAROOQ Your ears love to hear, so speak to it
SOTONYE ANGA Spirituality is not creating boundaries but creating space for others to come into your life.
AMIT RAY I'd like to see us moving ahead with those things that protect the people of this country, rather th...
JOHN MURRAY Forgiveness is a gift to the one who is hurting.
JOSEE D'AMORE I am not a queen; I am nothing at your service
EVY MICHAELS First keep peace with yourself, then you can also bring peace to others.
THOMAS KEMPIS First keep peace with yourself, then you can also bring peace to others.
THOMAS A KEMPIS Do not keep a running mentality yourself.
Avoid using a probing mentality on others.
Instead have a ...
APURVA GAGLANI I am no God. I am no Messiah. I am no divine incarnation. I am but a human in the service of humans.
ABHIJIT NASKAR First keep the peace within yourself, then you can also bring peace to others.
THOMAS A KEMPIS Keep your fears to yourself, but share your courage with others. -Robert Louis Stevenson.
ROBERT LOUIS STEVENSON First keep the peace within yourself, then you can also bring peace to others.
THOMAS KEMPIS Never underestimate the lingering effects of a dash of spontaneous comfort.
GINA GREENLEE The moon does not fight. It attacks no one. It does not worry. It does not try to crush others. It k...
MING-DAO DENG I could not sit seriously down to write a serious Romance under any other motive than to save my lif...
JANE AUSTEN Do you know what i hate? I hate people who hides behind GOD, it doesn't matter how much u pray or fa...
CRYSTAL DEONARINE It's like I'm trying to distract him with something shiny." Cath circled her spoon hand in front of ...
RAINBOW ROWELL If you can BE your way through it, you can find your way to it.
SUZETTE VEARNON The truer you are to yourself, the greater your gifts will manifest themselves.
TIFFANY L. JACKSON To be or not to be. That's not really a question.
JEAN-LUC GODARD Don't forget to love yourself.
SOREN KIERKEGAARD We think this is truly a body blow, not only to the (Genovese family) membership, but the leadership...
MARK MERSHON If you can't protect yourself with talk, you won't be alive to protect yourself with guns.
ARTHUR BOYD You must get an education. You must go to school, and you must learn to protect yourself. And you mu...
JOSEPHINE BAKER Learn to lead yourself before you lead others; you can't lead others not knowing how to lead yoursel...
PETER SAYSOMPHANE The surest way of concealing from others the boundaries of one's own knowledge is not to overstep th...
GIACOMO LEOPARDI You have the approval of yourself. That's quite enough for we who know true inner peace! - Charmaini...
CHARMAINE SMITH LADD It’s common to reject or punish yourself when you’ve been rejected by others. When you experienc...
CHRISTINA ENEVOLDSEN A True Wise Man Surrenders Every Thing Freely To God While Alive.
A Foolish Man Surrenders Ever...
BABA TUNDE OJO-OLUBIYO Set a challenge for yourself and challenge yourself to set a challenge for others to challenge thems...
ERNEST AGYEMANG YEBOAH The end of all knowledge should be service to others.
CESAR CHAVEZ The most important service to others is service to those who are not like yourself.
J. IRWIN MILLER The boundaries are set by the customer.
JOE HEEL One way of keeping your dreams alive is to keep it to yourself. It can save you and protect your dre...
MICHAEL BASSEY JOHNSON It's one of those things, you can't escape it. You set your own boundaries and you say as much as yo...
NATALIE IMBRUGLIA I think in terms of the day's resolutions, not the years
HENRY MOORE I didn't want the clothes or the perfect shoes or the expensive anything. I didn't want to be draped...
TAHEREH MAFI The surest cure for loneliness,
the quickest way to happiness,
is found in this, a simple ...
WILLIAM ARTHUR WARD Was it possible to find recompense, meaning, connection with others amidst the mess and the muddle ?
ELIZABETH BUCHAN If you are busy pleasing everyone, you are not being true to yourself
JOCELYN MURRAY Do I have the courage of being a ruthless man to myself with the complete knowledge on my manner or ...
FEREIDOON YAZDI Love yourself enough to set boundaries. Your time and energy are precious. You get to choose how y...
ANNA TAYLOR Set the standard! Stop expecting others to show you love, acceptance, commitment, & respect when you...
STEVE MARABOLI Let the improvement of yourself keep you so busy that you have no time to criticize others.
ROY T. BENNETT Listen to yourself to understand others ! If you can't listen to yourself, NOT EVEN YOU CAN UNDERSTA...
EPHDAN People who take delight in putting you down will end up destroying your self-esteem. Be wise, delive...
SOTONYE ANGA When we see the relatedness of ourselves to the universe, that we do not live as isolated entities, ...
SHARON SALZBERG The more others encounter us honoring the boundaries we have set for our lives, the more they will k...
DANNY SILK However, the mild degree of caution that we exercised was an improper response to the world unfoldin...
WARREN BUFFETT "LIFE IS NOT TO HATE OTHERS,LIFE IS TO GIVE YOURSELF ENOUGH TO OTHERS"
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HAMZA ASHRAF Set the standard! Stop expecting others to show you love, acceptance, commitment, & respect when...
STEVE MARABOLI In short, boundaries help us keep the good in and the bad out. They guard our treasures...
HENRY CLOUD Whatever you do don't let anybody talk you into doing something about the way you look ever.
JOHN CASABLANCAS I am not a typical human being. I am me and don't try to be anything but that because God didn't giv...
TAMMY WOOSTER What I like best about cell phones is that I can talk to myself in the car now and nobody thinks it'...
RON BRACKIN No matter how many thousands friends you've had, or even more likes you've got, but if you do not en...
TOBA BETA Whenever you serve someone from your heart, the food tastes so much better
BUNMI SHONUBI (BOAT) The earth will support anything that supports life. What I have found after a soul retrieval is that...
SANDRA INGERMAN When you look down on yourself, you set an example on how others should treat you.
BANGAMBIKI HABYARIMANA To be or not to be is not a question of compromise. Either you be or you don't be.
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