She mentioned someone in New Jersey that threatened to kill her,

He just threatened [the sister]. Apparently he told her he would kill her if she said anything. She was paralyzed and in shock for a couple of hours until she went in and talked with her dad. Then, her dad couldn't believe it either. He cased the house and then realized it was true.

We look at the sky, we watch the birds, we don't talk about it.

never even crossed my mind.

services were no longer needed.

And excuse me for not being able to deal with your problems, but I was busy saving someone's life ...