Sleep serves not only a restorative function for adolescents' bodies and brains, but it is also a key time when they process what they've learned during the day.
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Still, in this life, we choose the games we live to play. J.R. RIM It serves as a rude awakening when they show up and they realize 'Boy, it never occurred to me this ... BARMAK NASSIRIAN Not only are pasta dishes delicious, but they are also great, easy options for a quick dinner during... MARCUS SAMUELSSON This life is a process of learning. LAURYN HILL Life is a process. We are a process. The universe is a process. ANNE WILSON SCHAEF Our brains are very active during sleep, and research has shown that adequate sleep is important to ... MICHAEL TWERY There is a time for many words, and there is also a time for sleep. HOMER It's been a key for us all year, to get that pressure at some point during the game. It might not ha... LOU POSTAGE Writing is always a restorative process. It's like paddling a kayak. When you're writing, yo... TABITHA KING Whenever you play dance music, it serves a function. It becomes a utility; you have to worry about t... STAN KENTON What we learn in studying fertilization is not only important for this event, but also for the funct... ANDREW SINGSON They know what they want, but aren't sure how to find it. JAMES C. DOBSON It is what it is, it is what you make it. JAMES DURBIN Did you see more glass? J.D. SALINGER She was a girl who for a ringing phone dropped exactly nothing. She looked as if her phone had been ... J.D. SALINGER Oh happy day! A day to make a hay! And when it is mid-day, think about the day! And when you think a... ERNEST AGYEMANG YEBOAH Good sleep habits are very important. Especially in the older children, making sure that they use th... LENORA LEHWALD The hope is not only will they extend their stay for a vacation but they also will come back if they... KAREN BRAND The key is to slow it down and not get in such a hurry. (The season opener) will be here quick, but ... BILLY GODWIN Intuition is a perfectly natural process, not only for you, but also for something as small as a bug... RUBEN PAPIAN We do not understand these Americans who, like adolescents, always speak of sex, and who, like adole... ORIANA FALLACI You often love someone not for what they are, but for what you are when you are with them. JEFFREY FRY The effect of course is not only in losing some good people, but also in what it says to our key sci... BOB NOUN Theyve got the experience and know what it takes to build a temporary city. TOM CLARK Guys figured, why be out on the road for three weeks when they could swing a hammer during the day, ... BOB COSTELLO When you receive what you begged for, it only lasts for a short time. But what you build day after d... ISRAELMORE AYIVOR I guess it's also easier for players to slide on, but that's the only other purpose it really serves... ELLIOTT MCCULLOUGH His life seemed like a deck of cards, and in the midst of all those two’s and three’s someone ha... TEKOA MANNING I would not have one as a pet. 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APOLLONIUS OF TYANA Critics were ignored during the Lee administration, and this administration has also pursued its pro... ANSTRESS FARWELL ... it is certain that the real function of art is to increase our self-consciousness; to make us mo... JAMES JOSEPH SYLVESTER A man can only do what he can do. But if he does that each day he can sleep at night and do it again... ALBERT SCHWEITZER (All the grief she had suffered over her lifetime had moulded her face into a mask of eternal sadnes... JEAN SASSON Anyone who is in love is making love the whole time, even when they're not. When two bodies meet, it... PAULO COELHO Life's irony;The only time some women imagination faculty is put to use is when they want to prepare... DAVID ATTA (A.K.A DAVIED ATTLARS & MR DAIN) What I learned from Weight Watchers is that food was meant to be used as fuel for our bodies. If we ... , I GOT THIS: HOW I CHANGED MY WAYS AND LOST WHAT WEIGHED ME DOWN, 2012 35. God is entitled to a portion of our income—not because He needs it but because we need to give... JAMES C. DOBSON The most important lessons are learned during the process. Pay attention to the process. KEMI SOGUNLE They also said they woke better and seemed to have a bit more energy during the day. ANDREW DAVIES They include vitamins, which are organic compounds our bodies need to function normally, and mineral... DR. DAVID L. KATZ A new day is here! yesterday is gone! tomorrow is preparing to come! but why is today here? ERNEST AGYEMANG YEBOAH I regret that I wasn't more successful with my marriages, but it is what it is. TED TURNER I'm not an Emontional, but how??? I live with the thought that "Nothing can be returned, it has... DEYTH BANGER You grew up in Germany during a terrible time. We not only see in you the head of the Catholic Churc... ABRAHAM LEHRER When a child comes to school and is irritable, not performing well or having a bad day, it is likely... JOE COOK Our pediatrician told us her circadian rhythms are off. She sleeps a lot during the day; we're tryin... JOSIAH PHILLIPS Mindfulness, also called wise attention, helps us see what we’re adding to our experiences, not on... SHARON SALZBERG We speculate that our brains can compensate for up to a 60 percent loss of pre-Boetzinger cells, but... JACK FELDMAN I like to call it nighttime brain: the way your mind seems to function on a different frequency than... ERIN MORGENSTERN It is fortunate that molecular synthesis also serves the utilitarian function of producing quantitie... ELIAS JAMES COREY The brain is online during dreams. The experiences you have during the day are codified and associat... EDWARD O'MALLEY I've worked a lot during the night. But I don't sleep in the day either. ENRIQUE IGLESIAS I love yoga because not only is it a workout for your body, but also your breathing, which helps rel... TIA MOWRY Our ancestors relied upon their advanced brains to survive during times of food shortage, and fortun... DAVID PERLMUTTER It is people who are the objects of globalization and at the same time its subjects. What also follo... TARJA HALONEN History is a wheel, for the nature of man is fundamentally unchanging. What has happened before will... GEORGE R.R. MARTIN When it comes to brains, size matters. It's not all that matters, of course. Whales and dolphins... SETH SHOSTAK Emily said ... Well, I read that it's important to sleep. While you sleep, the hippopotamus in your ... JACLYN MORIARTY Mother Superior jump the gun... -The Beatles, Happiness is a Warm Gun LAUREN MYRACLE It is not only what we do, but also what we do not do for which we are accountable. MOLI It is not only what we do, but also what we do not do, for which we are accountable. MOLIERE It is not only what we do, but also what we do not do, for which we are accountable. MOLIèRE It is not only for what we do that we are held responsible, but also for what we do not do. MOLIERE When you hold your baby in your arms the first time, and you think of all the things you can say and... ROSE KENNEDY I meditate every day, which is profoundly restful and restorative. It wipes out a lot of the fatigue... MIKE LOVE We have a good blend. We are seeing a lot of the senior people from the area. And for many of them, ... DEBBIE KING To be honest, when I'm home, every day is a Friday for me. It doesn't really matter what day... DANICA PATRICK We've had 24 hours in a day for an awful long time. People's brains evolved based on a slower experi... CATHY O'KEEFE The kids talked from day one about not making it last year and they stayed more focused during key a... JOSH HERRING The only time I have problems is when I sleep. TUPAC SHAKUR Art serves to confront that which is outside order, to give form to the obscene. In the process, it ... JENNIFER BIRKETT I change during the course of a day. I wake and I'm one person, and when I go to sleep I know fo... BOB DYLAN The time volunteers contribute to the program is minimal when compared to the satisfaction they rece... JACKIE WILLIS I try to get in quiet time and book time, but really, the only time I ever get that is when I'm ... KESHA Developed countries should support developing countries in tackling climate change. This not only is... HU JINTAO Ah," Gary said dreamily. " 'Free time.' I've heard about that. Don't fool yourself, Fire-Top. What w... TAMORA PIERCE Pope John Paul II not only was a powerful spiritual leader for Catholics but also a world leader of ... MIKE FERGUSON Restorative justice is not a replacement of retributive justice, but a complement. It seeks the reha... LEWIS B. SMEDES There is a place where the sidewalk ends And before the street begins, And there the grass... 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JODI PICOULT Do you know what it's like to love someone so much, that you can't see yourself without picturing he... JODI PICOULT Take it from me: love has all the lasting permanence of a rainbow- beautiful while it's there, and j... JODI PICOULT Love is the most dangerous craving of all, if you ask me. It turns us into people we aren't. It make... JODI PICOULT I know better than most people that a criminal isn't always a thug in a black leather jacket with a ... JODI PICOULT Sometimes parents don't find what they're looking for it their child, so they plant seeds for what t... JODI PICOULT I could tell her from personal experience that when people we love make choices we don't always unde... JODI PICOULT When I'm with you, bells go off in my head like a moving truck that's backing up. JODI PICOULT That's the strange thing about being a mother: until you have a baby, you don't even realize how muc... JODI PICOULT Who I am, and what I am capable of doing has always managed to surprise me. JODI PICOULT If you want something to be true badly enough, you can rewrite it that way, in your head. You can ev... JODI PICOULT Sometimes we find ourselves walking through life blindfolded, and we try to deny that we're the ones... JODI PICOULT We make messes of our lives, but every now and then, we manage to do something that's exactly right.... JODI PICOULT It's choice that makes us human. JODI PICOULT What if it turns out that a life isn’t defined by who you belong to or where you came from, by wha... JODI PICOULT When you love someone more than he loves you, you'll do anything to switch the scales. You dress the... JODI PICOULT The only way someone can leave you is if you let them. JODI PICOULT Sometimes I think my whole life has been about holding on to you. JODI PICOULT Is Fate getting what you deserve, or deserving what you get? JODI PICOULT If it had been easy for Romeo to get to Juliet, nobody would have cared. Same goes for Cyrano and Do... JODI PICOULT Bad is not an absolute, but a relative term. Ask the robber who used the cash he stole to feed his i... JODI PICOULT Just because you keep something a secret doesn't mean it never happened, no matter how much you want... JODI PICOULT It took me a lifetime to realizethings don't get lost if they don't have value- you don't miss what ... JODI PICOULT You can't exist in this world without leaving a piece of yourself behind. JODI PICOULT Some lessons can't be taught, they simply have to be learned. JODI PICOULT You make yourself strong because it's expected of you. You become confident because someone beside y... JODI PICOULT It takes two people to make a lie work: the person who tells it, and the one who believes it. JODI PICOULT How could he convey to someone who'd never even met her the way she always smelled like rain, or how... JODI PICOULT I wondered how long it took for a baby to become yours, for familiarity to set in. Maybe as long as ... JODI PICOULT I know you love me. The question is, how much? JODI PICOULT What was the point of being able to forgive, when deep down, you both had to admit you'd never forge... JODI PICOULT Nobody wants to admit to this, but bad things will keep on happening. Maybe that's beause it's all a... JODI PICOULT In the space between yes and no, there's a lifetime. It's the difference between the path you walk a... JODI PICOULT Love is not a because, it's a no matter what. JODI PICOULT You know how sometimes, your life is so perfect you’re afraid for the next moment, because it coul... JODI PICOULT I knew what it was like to lose someone you loved. You didn't get past something like that, you got ... JODI PICOULT You were in business making meth? Do you have any idea what that drug does to people?" We... JODI PICOULT Campbell" Julia says "Don't do this to me" "Do what?" "Push me off the same cliff twice JODI PICOULT Most people who offer their help do it to make themselves feel better, not us. To be honest, I don't... JODI PICOULT People ask all the time how I'm doing, but the truth is, they don't really want to know. JODI PICOULT Michelle Obama has gone from political skeptic to political partner to a woman with a White House ag... JODI KANTOR