Some people can’t be in your life because they don’t have the power to help you improve it. That doesn’t mean you don’t wish them well, it just means that you are on Chapter ten of your life, when they are on Chapter five. Maybe, it is just enough to meet at the crossroads in life and agree to take separate paths, then with a cheshire grin you both look back and shout, “Beat you to the top of the mountain”, followed by the funnest sprint of both of your lives.
Shannon L. Alder
Related If you have feelings for someone, let them know. It doesn’t matter if they can be in your life or ... SHANNON L. ALDER Every event in life — the rejections, the relationships, all the embarrassing things you do will l... MIKE ZACCHIO Don’t just exist; do something meaningful with your life. Discover a problem and fix it. ISRAELMORE AYIVOR You are the architect of your life. LAILAH GIFTY AKITA Dare to follow your own paths. Dare to be yourself. Dare to be different. LAILAH GIFTYAKITA You are charming. Your charm, just like your ability to live happily and be successful is beyond a l... ANE KRSTEVSKA Don’t allow anyone to shame you with your life story. Walk in your truth knowing that you are the ... STALINA GOODWIN Just because you refuse to acknowledge something, refuse to look at it or think about it, doesn’t ... RACHEL GIBSON But if you forgive someone for something they did to you, it doesn’t mean you agree with what they... IDOWU KOYENIKAN Sometimes, you will go through awful trials in your life and then a miracle happens--God heals you. ... SHANNON L. ALDER Being an introvert doesn’t mean you’re shy. It means you enjoy being alone. Not just enjoy it—... AMY SCHUMER If you encounter to see in this beautiful earth anyone from special needs don’t look at away. Just... PALITHA ARIYARATHNA All that the spider needs to complete its web is step taking ERNEST AGYEMANG YEBOAH Don’t give power to others to control your emotions or make you feel inadequate or remind you of y... LATIKA TEOTIA If you are now facing difficulties in your life, don’t focus on them but rather focus on God becau... DRAGOS BRATASANU When someone you love dies, you are given the gift of "second chances". Their eulogy is a reminder t... SHANNON L. ALDER Remember, it is done unto you as you believe. It’s not “I’ll believe it when I see it,” it�... DEREK RYDALL If you are convinced that the life style you are leading is right, if you are not coming in the way ... LATIKA TEOTIA Every moment is the right moment”. The right one is NOW. Seize it and make the most of it. Don’t... LATIKA TEOTIA Be kind. We never know what people are going through. Give grace and mercy because one day your circ... GERMANY KENT Many people experience the travesty of regret in their end days; the realization that nothing held t... STEVE MARABOLI Food Allergies Are Not Due to Food, Rather Are Due to the Constant Contamination of That Food That Y... THEHEALTHFOODGURU You are embarking on the greatest adventure of your life -- to improve your self-image, to create mo... MAXWELL MALTZ When you honor your true inner desires, and don’t become sexually involved when you don’t really... LINDA ALFIORI Enjoy the power and beauty of your youth; oh nevermind; you will not understand the power and ... MARY SCHMICH If you want to see your life improve, your dreams come closer to fruition, and happiness deepen in y... OSCAR AULIQ-ICE Almost universally, when people look back on their lives while on their deathbed [...] they wish the... RICHARD CARLSON The unfortunate thing is that, sometimes, we slip, but, fortunately, consciously or unconsciously, w... ERNEST AGYEMANG YEBOAH There are five people you meet in heaven. Each of us was in your life for a reason. You may not have... MITCH ALBOM When you always stay positive, you least worry yourself over anything at all! You only take lessons ... ERNEST AGYEMANG YEBOAH And when you look at the sky you know you are looking at stars which are hundreds and thousands of l... MARK HADDON The source to low self-esteem is the lack of control you feel you have in your life. If you spend yo... SHANNON L. ALDER If you don’t monitor your life, you will regret it. If you don’t measure your life you will regr... SUNDAY ADELAJA So if you are confused, please remember – don’t help anybody, because your help is going to be p... OSHO Don’t run after people or plead with them beseeching them to return. If they leave you they were n... LATIKA TEOTIA Be innovative & be prepared to take initiative in life. When an opportunity knocks door, grab it. Do... DR ANIL KUMAR SINHA When people around you do not support your personal growth and reinvention, it doesn’t mean you ar... SUSAN C. YOUNG How To Tell If Somebody Loves You: Somebody loves you if they pick an eyelash off of your face ... RYAN O'CONNELL I think, for every phase of your life, you take something out of it, you learn from it, you grow fro... KAREN HANDEL i will tell you about selfish people. even when they know they will hurt you they walk into your lif... RUPI KAUR You don’t know what goes on in anyone’s life but your own. And when you mess with one part of a ... JAY ASHER If life is a stage and you are your own agent, then don’t hesitate to play the character you wish ... RICHELLE E. GOODRICH Understand that you can’t achieve your dreams if you don’t connect with people who guide you to ... ISRAELMORE AYIVOR When people show you who they are, believe them the first time. ~Maya Angelou Remember th... OPRAH WINFREY An important success trait is the ability to detach from people who aren’t on course with you. It ... LILY CHATTERJEE Clay in the hands of a good potter suffers so many good turns, but in the end, we see its real and t... ERNEST AGYEMANG YEBOAH The purpose of life is to watch and experience living. To enjoy living every moment of it. And to li... YOGI BHAJAN Make time for yourself. How are you spending your time? Are you doing the things you love?Are you ma... AKIROQ BROST I know that you and your girls have been told for years on end that you just don’t pass up any opp... STEVE HARVEY Temptation goes both ways. Sometimes, you can be tempted to live a half life because it pleases some... SHANNON L. ALDER We've been working really hard on being consistent on both ends. LC is a very consistent team. If yo... BRENDA ELLIS You don’t want me to stand against the council. You want a magic wand, so you can walk around smac... RACHEL VINCENT All you need in life is to know thyself; to live with the knowledge that it’s just life and that's... JAMES A. MURPHY Always remember that you are the observer and not the doer. Do not take life to be anything more tha... OSHO I know, Little Man, you are quick with the diagnosis of craziness when you meet a truth you don’t ... WILHELM REICH Your life is enough, don’t be concerned with others. And I tell you that if you can live unconcern... BHAGWAN SHREE RAJNEESH Don’t concern yourself with being right in others’ eyes. And don’t secretly hope that their li... JOSHUA HARRIS If you don't make a conscious effort to visualize, who you are and what you want to become in life, ... SHANNON L. ALDER Are they real fires? Or are people just reacting to something? Just because there’s an alarm going... CHRIS ROCK It doesn’t happen all at once,” said the Skin Horse. “You become. It takes a long time. That�... MARGERY WILLIAMS BIANCO You, and those like you, take your fill of pleasure on earth by making the life of such as me bitter... THOMAS HARDY In your life you meet people. Some you never think about again. Some, you wonder what happened to th... C.S. LEWIS People know your tragedies and they treat you like you’re not human. Like you’re a three-h... ERIC JEROME DICKEY Don’t underestimate your tears. They have the power to strengthen your commitment to your life’s... SAAD SALMAN Being married means giving it your all to your spouse daily. Even when you don’t feel like it and ... MARRIAGE.COM You become. It takes a long time. That’s why it doesn’t happen often to people who break easily,... MARGERY WILLIAMS BIANCO You become. It takes a long time. That’s why it doesn’t happen often to people who break easily,... MARGERY WILLIAMS BIANCO Dare to seize and make the most of all opportunities that life bring to your path. LAILAH GIFTY AKITA Time determines the occurrence of possibilities and impossibilities, but God determines the time for... ERNEST AGYEMANG YEBOAH Never care what other people think of you. You are master of your own ship of life & move ahead of y... DR ANIL KUMAR SINHA This life is yours. Take the power to choose what you want to do and do it well. Take the power to l... SUSAN POLIS SCHUTZ Life is full of lessons; learn the lessons in life you meet each moment of time well! So many people... ERNEST AGYEMANG YEBOAH If you want to help someone move on, you don’t label people as good, bad, worst or best. This cate... SHANNON L. ALDER I will tell them that you can work hard, you can improve your life and the lives of your children in... MIA LOVE If you find out that people that once were in your life are evil you dont take matters into your own... GARY F EVANS... Do not dilute the truth of your potential. We often convince ourselves that we cannot change, that w... STEVE MARABOLI I don't take relationships too seriously, but everyone else seems to. And when you get your hear... COLBIE CAILLAT Time is your most precious gift because you only have a set amount of it. You can make more money, b... RICK WARREN Never try to hide who you are.Always stand up for what you believe in. When people walk away from yo... DR ANIL KUMAR SINHA Uncomplicate it. Don’t make excuses. Some of life’s biggest heartaches come from missed opportun... KANDI STEINER Learn from your past and be better because of your past,” she would say, “but don’t cry about ... TREVOR NOAH With a hologram, like when your teacher is one of them, if you aren’t looking right at them, they ... M.T. ANDERSON Time is so important.'so spend time doing something that you love.' make the most of it and Let the ... NAPZ CHERUB PELLAZO When you know how to handle people, handle people well, for you may need people one day! Don’t jus... ERNEST AGYEMANG YEBOAH It is growing up different. It is extreme hypersensitivity. It is a bottomless pit of feeling you're... SHANNON L. ALDER It's interesting when you're old enough to take a new, objective approach looking at your pa... ROBERT DOWNEY, JR. Don’t you understand? You are Elder. When you take my role as Eldest, you must dedicate your whole... BETH REVIS No, I don’t think you’re gonna be single forever, and also I don’t understand your obsession w... JOHN GREEN Get Off The Scale! You are beautiful. Your beauty, just like your capacity for life, happ... STEVE MARABOLI You don't give up on people you truly love. Whether they are in your life or stand on the edge of yo... SHANNON L. ALDER Forgive those that hurt you. It will only make you stronger.. Take your Power back from them. They a... NERISSA IRVING When you know how to handle people, handle people well, for you may need people one day! Don’t jus... ERNEST AGYEMANG YEBOAH You meet lots of people in your life, and sometimes you think that people are a certain way, and the... WILL ARNETT I think that many people will intentionally overlook all of the lifeless facts about their relations... C. JOYBELL C. Do you want a good advice on your path? Here it is: Don’t be sure of your path! Don’t ever be su... MEHMET MURAT ILDAN Instead of you pouring out your life and giving out your life and exchanging it for a porridge calle... SUNDAY ADELAJA I like to open for a band as it brings on sort of a challenge and it makes things more interesting. ... KELLY JONES In the journey of life, certain paths may seem to be leading nowhere because of a mountain or hill o... ERNEST AGYEMANG YEBOAH Live your life for the moment and let go of everything else going on in your life. Negative feelings... DR ANIL KUMAR SINHA Feeling loneliness doesn’t mean always that people are not around,
It often means that you don’t... ZUBAIR AHMED (Z.A)
More Shannon L. Alder
God is going to send you someone that will rescue you. Then one day you will rescue them in return a... SHANNON L. ALDER I will never accept life for what it is. I don't need an easy life. My road was meant to be hard bec... SHANNON L. ALDER The only people you have to look out for in life are the people that don't care about anything or an... SHANNON L. ALDER Naive people tend to generalize people as—-good, bad, kind, or evil based on their actions. Howeve... SHANNON L. ALDER Empowered Women 101: If he’s with you, it’s a given that he finds you attractive. Don’t talk h... SHANNON L. ALDER What if you were wrong? What if everything you ever believed was a lie? What if you missed your oppo... SHANNON L. ALDER And I was your moon because I shined brighter than any other star in your universe and you were my d... SHANNON L. ALDER An open Facebook page is simply a psychiatric dry erase board that screams, “Look at me. I am inse... SHANNON L. ALDER Never annoy an inspirational author or you will become the poison in her pen and the villian in ever... SHANNON L. ALDER Chasing a man is not winning. The only thing you win is the loss of your dignity. Confidence is know... SHANNON L. ALDER Before you call yourself a Christian, Buddhist, Muslim, Hindu or any other theology, learn to be hum... SHANNON L. ALDER Being different is a revolving door in your life where secure people enter and insecure exit. SHANNON L. ALDER One of the greatest regrets in life is being what others would want you to be, rather than being you... SHANNON L. ALDER I love you. I hate you. I like you. I hate you. I love you. I think you’re stupid. I think you’r... SHANNON L. ALDER They will hate you if you are beautiful. They will hate you if you are successful. They will hate yo... SHANNON L. ALDER A best friend is the only one that walks into your life when the world has walked out. SHANNON L. ALDER Every woman that finally figured out her worth, has picked up her suitcases of pride and boarded a f... SHANNON L. ALDER You can't fight mental health bias if you label people based on a lists of symptoms and you have no ... SHANNON L. ALDER The need for control always comes from someone that has lost it. SHANNON L. ALDER When you blame others, what you are really saying is what is inside of you can’t be fixed, so you ... SHANNON L. ALDER Beauty is not who you are on the outside, it is the wisdom and time you gave away to save another st... SHANNON L. ALDER Carve your name on hearts, not tombstones. A legacy is etched into the minds of others and the stori... SHANNON L. ALDER Every broken heart has screamed at one time or another: Why can't you see who I truly am? SHANNON L. ALDER If you have feelings for someone, let them know. It doesn’t matter if they can be in your life or ... SHANNON L. ALDER There comes a time in your life when you have to choose to turn the page, write another book or simp... SHANNON L. ALDER Sometimes, you will go through awful trials in your life and then a miracle happens--God heals you. ... SHANNON L. ALDER Some of the most beautiful things worth having in your life come wrapped in a crown of thorns. SHANNON L. ALDER One of the most important things you can do on this earth is to let people know they are not alone. SHANNON L. ALDER Staying silent is like a slow growing cancer to the soul and a trait of a true coward. There is noth... SHANNON L. ALDER If you spend your time hoping someone will suffer the consequences for what they did to your heart, ... SHANNON L. ALDER Cruel people offer pity when they no longer feel threatened. However, kind people offer compassion a... SHANNON L. ALDER A coward talks to everyone but YOU. SHANNON L. ALDER The definition of hell is two people in a relationship that is starved for love and unable to fulfil... SHANNON L. ALDER You always had it in you to create miracles, but you forgot that it required you to do the opposite ... SHANNON L. ALDER It is the apathetic person that sees the cause while the charitable person sees the need. SHANNON L. ALDER I write to find strength. I write to become the person that hides inside me. I write to li... SHANNON L. ALDER Soul connections are not often found and are worth every bit of fight left in you to keep. SHANNON L. ALDER Dear Child, Sometimes on your travel through hell, you meet people that think they are i... SHANNON L. ALDER The more you talk about it, rehash it, rethink it, cross analyze it, debate it, respond to it, get p... SHANNON L. ALDER There will always be someone willing to hurt you, put you down, gossip about you, belittle your acco... SHANNON L. ALDER My father taught me that you can you read a hundred books on wisdom and write a hundred books on wis... SHANNON L. ALDER Anger, resentment and jealousy doesn't change the heart of others-- it only changes yours. SHANNON L. ALDER I could crawl inside the lyrics and know each note intimately. They would claw at my soul, until I c... SHANNON L. ALDER Sensitive people care when the world doesn't because we understand waiting to be rescued and no one ... SHANNON L. ALDER The most introspective of souls are often those that have been hurt the most. SHANNON L. ALDER There is no perfection, only beautiful versions of brokenness. SHANNON L. ALDER Often those that criticise others reveal what he himself lacks. SHANNON L. ALDER It is not until you change your identity to match your life blueprint that you will understand why e... SHANNON L. ALDER The most intriguing people you will encounter in this life are the people who had insights about you... SHANNON L. ALDER Great leaders get people to admit the truth because they know that dreams are buried under the lies ... SHANNON L. ALDER To love someone with all of your heart requires reaching them where they are with the only words the... SHANNON L. ALDER When you see people only as personalities, rather than souls with life missions to fulfill, you fore... SHANNON L. ALDER The true definition of mental illness is when the majority of your time is spent in the past or futu... SHANNON L. ALDER Most misunderstandings in the world could be avoided if people would simply take the time to ask, "W... SHANNON L. ALDER It is easier to tell a person what life is not, rather than to tell them what it is. A child underst... SHANNON L. ALDER If you want to discover the true character of a person, you have only to observe what they are passi... SHANNON L. ALDER Insanity is everyone expecting you not to fall apart when you find out everything you believed in wa... SHANNON L. ALDER The most confused you will ever get is when you try to convince your heart and spirit of something y... SHANNON L. ALDER Life always begins with one step outside of your comfort zone. SHANNON L. ALDER People that have trust issues only need to look in the mirror. There they will meet the one person t... SHANNON L. ALDER If you want to know if someone was meant to be in your future, then remove all the worldly things ab... SHANNON L. ALDER Sometimes the simplest solution out of conflict is becoming someone’s friend, instead of saying go... SHANNON L. ALDER A woman or man of value doesn’t love you because of what he or she wants you to be or do for them.... SHANNON L. ALDER Sensitive people usually love deeply and hate deeply. They don't know any other way to live than by ... SHANNON L. ALDER Some stories have to be written because no one would believe the absurdity of it all. SHANNON L. ALDER I am not perfect, but if I looked perfect to everyone I must have been rocking imperfect perfectly t... SHANNON L. ALDER Stupidity is to have amnesia over your own faults when the person you hate makes theirs. SHANNON L. ALDER A true gentleman is one that apologizes anyways, even though he has not offended a lady intentionall... SHANNON L. ALDER Real women fight for something, other than their own emotions. SHANNON L. ALDER Your strength will be found when you stop struggling with yourself, instead of thinking everyone is ... SHANNON L. ALDER The only person that deserves a special place in your life is someone that never made you feel like ... SHANNON L. ALDER Chasing a person doesn’t give you value or build values in you. You earn your value by chasing mor... SHANNON L. ALDER If a man, who says he loves you, won’t tell you the details of a private conversation between him ... SHANNON L. ALDER Strength of character comes from being hit by stray verbal stones, while protecting discarded cipher... SHANNON L. ALDER When religious people take the stance that they don’t owe anyone that is hurting closure or answer... SHANNON L. ALDER True confidence is not about what you take from someone to restore yourself, but what you give back ... SHANNON L. ALDER Diversity of character is due to the unequal time given to values. Only through each other will we s... SHANNON L. ALDER There comes a time in your life when you can no longer put off choosing. You have to choose one path... SHANNON L. ALDER Don’t ever stray from yourself, in order to be close to someone that doesn’t have the courtesy t... SHANNON L. ALDER A wise woman knows when to stay silent. However, a wiser woman of faith knows that sometimes words c... SHANNON L. ALDER Your words will either give you joy or give you sorrow, but if they were spoken without regret, they... SHANNON L. ALDER When you stop living your life based on what others think of you real life begins. At that moment, y... SHANNON L. ALDER A very unwise man once said, “He who does not understand your silence will probably not understand... SHANNON L. ALDER Never pray to be a better slave when God is trying to get you out of your situation. SHANNON L. ALDER Arrogance is someone claiming to have come to Christ, but they won't spend more than five minutes li... SHANNON L. ALDER Hide yourself in God, so when a man wants to find you he will have to go there first. SHANNON L. ALDER When you give yourself permission to communicate what matters to you in every situation you will hav... SHANNON L. ALDER When you find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on h... SHANNON L. ALDER Often people that settle in life are those that only do what they can with what they have and where ... SHANNON L. ALDER I am convinced that the jealous, the angry, the bitter and the egotistical are the first to race to ... SHANNON L. ALDER Your tears are never invisible---there is always an insecure woman that lights up when you point the... SHANNON L. ALDER Mental illness is not a fraternity or a social club for like minds. It is its own religion to each p... SHANNON L. ALDER You might lose battles in your life time. However, every person that stands bravely on the side of j... SHANNON L. ALDER I was never weighed down by beauty in my lifetime. However, I was beaten down by the sad fears of my... SHANNON L. ALDER Realize that narcissists have an addiction disorder. They are strongly addicted to feeling significa... SHANNON L. ALDER If you hold onto a man hoping someone else won't get them you have learned how to be desperate, not ... SHANNON L. ALDER You will never let go of the past by ignoring the most painful thing the person you loved has done t... SHANNON L. ALDER Often the inspiration to write music comes from the voices in your head. You’re not crazy. Just be... SHANNON L. ALDER It isn't what you will do for your children that makes you a great mother or father. It is what you ... SHANNON L. ALDER Relationships with negative people are simply tedious encounters with porcupines. You don’t have t... SHANNON L. ALDER Empowered Women 101: Only an insecure woman with control issues will look outside her relationship a... SHANNON L. ALDER Empowered Women 101: A man doesn't have to put down other women to prove his love for you. In fact, ... SHANNON L. ALDER Love may be blind but jealousy has 20-20 vision. SHANNON L. ALDER People that don't know what they are worth will always see their capture's wings, but never their ta... SHANNON L. ALDER I am convinced that the jealous, the angry, the bitter and the egotistical are the first to race to ... SHANNON L. ALDER Love has a way of making the sane insane and the insane normal. SHANNON L. ALDER People's behaviors are messages, not a diagnosis because I can no longer discern the world's version... SHANNON L. ALDER Often a woman that doesn’t have any business being in a fight is there because their ego thinks it... SHANNON L. ALDER Hypocrisy /hi pakrise/ noun 1. The moment you tell someone it is not important to be... SHANNON L. ALDER Narcissistic Supply You get discarded as supply for one of two reason: They find you too ... SHANNON L. ALDER Narcissists will never tell you the truth. They live with the fear of abandonment and can't deal wit... SHANNON L. ALDER The daggers of silence last longer than anything ever spoken. SHANNON L. ALDER Often people that say they “don’t care” actually do. The moment they discuss you with their fr... SHANNON L. ALDER Insecure people often falsify the past, in order to make the future pure. SHANNON L. ALDER Women of dignity know when to stop expecting loyalty when he won't even give you honesty. SHANNON L. ALDER Sometimes the truth is so deep that it takes someone with the same depth to see it, while others can... SHANNON L. ALDER A person that doesn't know their worth will never know yours. Therefore, the longer you hang onto ho... SHANNON L. ALDER Bitter people are not interested in what you say, but what you hide. SHANNON L. ALDER The only people that can't handle the truth are those that suffer so much anxiety that they will liv... SHANNON L. ALDER It is not through fighting the opposition that will win you dignity. It is when you fight the fear i... SHANNON L. ALDER Bullies will knock you to your knees then tell you to get up and fight. Stay on your knees because G... SHANNON L. ALDER Nobody knows what God's plan is for your life, but a whole lot of people will guess for you if you l... SHANNON L. ALDER He said, “If God lived on Earth people would stalk his Facebook page and leave nasty comments on h... SHANNON L. ALDER A wise woman protects her kids. A wiser woman hangs out with police officers, retired FBI agents and... SHANNON L. ALDER If you are reading this then you have wasted another day of your life day dreaming, rather than plan... SHANNON L. ALDER It is not the monsters we should be afraid of; it is the people that don't recognize the same monste... SHANNON L. ALDER You can't always expect people to apply your wisdom when they didn't use wisdom before they found th... SHANNON L. ALDER The moment you have to recruit people to put another person down, in order to convince someone of yo... SHANNON L. ALDER Words don’t have the power to hurt you, unless that person meant more to you than you are willing ... SHANNON L. ALDER You are not an option, a choice or a soft place to land after a long battle. You were meant to be th... SHANNON L. ALDER You will know if you are on the right path when God directs your choices, not your spouse or signifi... SHANNON L. ALDER When dealing with critics always remember this: Critics judge things based on what is outside of the... SHANNON L. ALDER If you were born with the ability to change someone’s perspective or emotions, never waste that gi... SHANNON L. ALDER I rather be a stupid person wanting clarification and answers, in order to be wiser, than be a stupi... SHANNON L. ALDER You might not get the apology you deserve. You might not get answers to explain the actions of other... SHANNON L. ALDER It is the subtle things in life that you have to look for because the deepest love speaks at a whisp... SHANNON L. ALDER Judgement of others and ourselves always comes from a place of fear. It is fear that keeps us from l... SHANNON L. ALDER Vulnerability gives us freedom, power and connects us to a network of injured souls. It is through t... SHANNON L. ALDER People often tell themselves lies, in order to reach what they consider acceptance in difficult situ... SHANNON L. ALDER Some will wear masks their entire life because they care about what other people think, while others... SHANNON L. ALDER You will never change, unless you are honest with yourself or you are forced to be authentic by some... SHANNON L. ALDER Anyone can possess, anyone can profess, but it is an altogether different thing to confess. SHANNON L. ALDER The only difference between you and the person you admire is their perspective on life. SHANNON L. ALDER The secret to your purpose is to find what you feel is important, and not pursue what others would t... SHANNON L. ALDER Confidence is knowing who you are and not changing it a bit because of someone’s version of realit... SHANNON L. ALDER When you are offered a miracle take it. Otherwise, show God your tail so he can move on and give it ... SHANNON L. ALDER Behind every angry soul is a wounded child that just wanted you to love them for who they are. SHANNON L. ALDER The man that is meant to love you will have a million questions about you, but none will ever ask yo... SHANNON L. ALDER Every relationship that has hit a crossroads has asked, “What is it that you want from me? SHANNON L. ALDER There are only two ways to live your life. One as if all that matters is to have someone love and ac... SHANNON L. ALDER See it for what it is and own it, rather than rethink it so you don't have to deal with the trauma o... SHANNON L. ALDER Sometimes, we expect life to work a certain way and when it doesn’t we blame others or see it as a... SHANNON L. ALDER True saddness is when someone still thinks your the same person after all these years. They brand yo... SHANNON L. ALDER Everyone loses their class when they travel through hell, but only a few will regain it if they rema... SHANNON L. ALDER Don't waste your time trying to provide people with proof of deceit, in order to keep their love, wi... SHANNON L. ALDER God told us to love everyone. However, when you don’t like someone then you need to walk away and ... SHANNON L. ALDER Humility is not a one time lesson that comes when you have lost everything. It is a daily reminder o... SHANNON L. ALDER Insecure people only eclipse your sun because they’re jealous of your daylight and tired of their ... SHANNON L. ALDER The moon will guide you through the night with her brightness, but she will always dwell in the dark... SHANNON L. ALDER Often people that criticise your life are usually the same people that don't know the price you paid... SHANNON L. ALDER No boundary or barrier surrounds the heart of a person that loves their self and others. SHANNON L. ALDER The only real conflict you will ever have in your life won’t be with others, but with yourself. SHANNON L. ALDER Fear is to begin with the end in mind. There is no end. Life is eternal. Live life knowing that the ... SHANNON L. ALDER A Plan B life can be just as good or better than a Plan A life. You just have to let go of that firs... SHANNON L. ALDER It is not lies or a lack of loyalty that ends a relationship. It is the agonizing truth that one per... SHANNON L. ALDER The most important thing is this: to sacrifice what you are now for what you can become tomorrow. SHANNON L. ALDER Your heart’s strength is measured by how hard it holds on. Your self worth and faith is measured b... SHANNON L. ALDER The only real battle in life is between hanging on and letting go. SHANNON L. ALDER When someone you love says goodbye you can stare long and hard at the door they closed and forget to... SHANNON L. ALDER Courage doesn’t happen when you have all the answers. It happens when you are ready to face the qu... SHANNON L. ALDER Empowered Women 101: If they made you an option you will always be an option vs. the person they rea... SHANNON L. ALDER You can't compare men or women with mental disorders to the normal expectations of men and women in ... SHANNON L. ALDER Two people with mental issues in a relationship does not work. It's like sitting in a boat and neith... SHANNON L. ALDER People that have been consistently hurt by others in life will only see the one time you hurt them a... SHANNON L. ALDER victim noun \ˈvik-təm\ 1. The moment you tell everyone you have a mental disorder... SHANNON L. ALDER Feelings are something you have; not something you are. SHANNON L. ALDER The greatest thing a father can do for his children is to respect the woman that gave birth to his c... SHANNON L. ALDER A heart worth loving is one you understand, even in silence. SHANNON L. ALDER Perspective is as simple as answering this question: If I had 5 months to live would I experience th... SHANNON L. ALDER Whenever you can’t balance what you see with what you believe you have conflict. SHANNON L. ALDER Spiritual pain is when you can’t stand another moment not knowing the real truth, and when you fin... SHANNON L. ALDER Do not conform to seek the seekers, but leave the leavers. Wisdom comes from facing what you do not ... SHANNON L. ALDER Accomplishments don’t erase shame, hatred, cruelty, silence, ignorance, discrimination, low self-e... SHANNON L. ALDER Honesty is vulnerability. Sadly, not everyone can handle someone’s honesty. However, lying allows ... SHANNON L. ALDER Regardless of your faith, you can never escape uncertainty. SHANNON L. ALDER Half of the time, the Holy Ghost tries to warn us about certain people that come into our life. The ... SHANNON L. ALDER The only person that should wear your ring is the one person that would never… 1... SHANNON L. ALDER Marriage is the beginning of love for your spouse, not the result of it. SHANNON L. ALDER It is not the hand that rocks the cradle that rules the world; it is the woman that holds the keys t... SHANNON L. ALDER When I was a child, an angel came to say, A true friend is coming my warrior to sweep you away,... SHANNON L. ALDER When someone you love dies, you are given the gift of "second chances". Their eulogy is a reminder t... SHANNON L. ALDER One of the most powerful lessons in life is to recognize that no one can give you power, and many pe... SHANNON L. ALDER Her wounds brought her a great source of power because they lived in the same place as her heart. SHANNON L. ALDER You're only a victim to the degree of what your perception allows. SHANNON L. ALDER Your most important “want” should be the one you can control! SHANNON L. ALDER If he emotionally cheated on you remember this before you take him back. It was a choice to do it an... SHANNON L. ALDER The number of chances you give someone doesn't tell the world how loving you are without telling the... SHANNON L. ALDER A deceitful man will go as far as to trample all over a woman’s reputation and spirit, in order to... SHANNON L. ALDER Be leery of silence. It doesn't mean you won the argument. Often, people are just busy reloading the... SHANNON L. ALDER I am tired of people saying that poor character is the only reason people do wrong things. Actually,... SHANNON L. ALDER