That's understandable because they are getting out and dating and getting more independent.

I'm nothing but envious that you've been happily married for two years. Try hauling your cookies on a new blind date every Friday, only to have your, already extremely low, expectations dashed as you meet men who look like Quasimodo and have Homer Simpson's IQ. 

The more attention you pay to your surroundings, the safer you are going to be.

The ones that appear very random usually it's about power and control, and they are looking for a vulnerable victim. Sometimes they will case a situation for several days.

Charity groped for the phone, coming up with it at last and croaking "hello" in a voice that sounded exactly like a bullfrog's mating call. Which made a kind of twisted sense -- last night she'd been hunting for a mate as well.

Keep the first date brief, short, sweet and simple and they'll come back to you.