The first duty of a state is to see that every child born therein shall be well housed, clothed, fed and educated till it attains years of discretion.

We require from buildings two kinds of goodness: first, the doing their practical duty well: then that they be graceful and pleasing in doing it.

It is better to be nobly remembered than nobly born

And whoso shall swear by the temple, sweareth by it, and by him that dwelleth therein.

For you therein are many fruits of which you shall eat.

I can honestly say that there was no nurturing at all. I mean, we were fed. We were well clothed. The neglect was love. I can never ever remember being told 'I love you' as a little kid. I have no memories of sitting on my parents' lap, snuggling. I have no memories of my mother ever reading to me. I don't remember ever, ever being hugged.