The reason he went out there was because an alarm went off in the house saying there was movement out there.

I'm upset. I'm not pointing the finger at anybody. Right now, to me, it was a big accident.

My gut feeling is that an alarm went off in the house and he went off to investigate.

If the relationship is not a good one, then she’s going to use menopause as a reason for saying, ’I don’t have to do that anymore. I can go play mah-jongg with my girlfriends. I can go do other things and I don’t have to deal with this anymore.’ That’s what we have to change. We have to say this is a lifelong process, and we have to say, work on the relationship. That’s why it’s so important to talk about the relationship.

I was consciously saying, 'There's no reason to rush. Stay at 60,' and bam, something hit me in the back.

What she's saying is there has to be a reason because she knows her son was not there,