The signs of sociopathy are usually there before we are abused; most of us just don’t know enough to recognize them

We do not have to be mental health professionals to identify the traits of the possible sociopaths among us.

The toxic behaviors were there before you decided to enter into relationships with them. The signs were there. You may have chosen to look the other way, but the signs were there.—Psychotherapist from Type 1 Sociopath

#1 Dating Tip: Make Sure Your Date has a Conscience!

Doormatitis: door-mat-i-tis noun; low self-worth. A learned behavior where the infected person allows others to walk all over them, blame them, treat them terribly, always giving the boundary crossers the benefit of the doubt. They make excuses for them, They will give in to guilt and intimidation and give the boundary crossers what they want again and again." P.A. Speers Dictionary

I have heard that we are spirits having a human experience. Perhaps those of us who have no conscience are dark spirits having a human experience.