...the taste of chocolate is a sensual pleasure in itself, existing in the same world as sex... For myself, I can enjoy the wicked pleasure of chocolate...entirely by myself. Furtiveness makes it better.

He thinks that he’s not attracted to her because he doesn’t know that there’s no psychogenic erection anymore.

An orgasm is just a reflex, like a sneeze

If the relationship is not a good one, then she’s going to use menopause as a reason for saying, ’I don’t have to do that anymore. I can go play mah-jongg with my girlfriends. I can go do other things and I don’t have to deal with this anymore.’ That’s what we have to change. We have to say this is a lifelong process, and we have to say, work on the relationship. That’s why it’s so important to talk about the relationship.

Don't criticize in the sack. Discuss constructively later.

Talking from morning to night about sex has helped my skiing, because I talk about movement, about looking good, about taking risks.