The thing about kissing men - how do people stand it? The stubble is maddening.

When I first started acting in college, at Cal, the thing that I loved about acting was not being onstage but going into rehearsals. The thing, as I look back on it now, that I was most attracted to, was that I felt like I'd found my family. It was just a bunch of loonies.

I feel like there's this need that the Asian-American community has to feel like people. It's something that Asians in Asia do not understand about us.

It just seemed hedonistic when I first started acting. It was a pleasurable thing. But as I look back on it now, I understand that it was a journey of the self for me.

Typically, actors overplay jargon or toss it away in an extravagant display of casualness. Real people hit the important parts hard.

I have found men who didn't know how to kiss. I've always found time to teach them.