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We are far from perfect but willing to be different. 
But we can also ask for something we are much more likely to get, and that is to find a person or tw... 
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In a real sense, people who have read good literature have lived more than people who cannot or will... 
Most of us think we're too busy or too important to rest for a day. 
To be, or not to be, that is the question. 
There is little we can point to in our lives as deserving anything but God's wrath. Our best moments... 
Sometimes," Jem said, "our lives can change so fast that the change outpaces our minds and hearts. I... 
To be or not to be. That's not really a question. 
Perhaps there are those who are able to go about their lives unfettered by such concerns. But for th... 
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What will happen if we go to 0 day?
Most of us are not raised to actively encounter our destiny. We may not know that we have one. As ch... 
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But, in a larger sense, we can not dedicate -- we can not consecrate -- we can not hallow -- this gr... 
See the world as it is, not as you wish it would be 
Once humans traded their hunter-gatherer existences for more settled communities, we began a quest t... 
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No, the secret is that there's no reward and we have to endure our characters and our natures as bes... 
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Children are not our property, and they are not ours to control any more that we were our parents' p... 
Once we have resolved only to see those who will treat us morally and virtuously, reasonably and tru... 
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To be or not to be is not a question of compromise. Either you be or you don't be. 
To be or not to be isn't the question. The question is how to prolong being. 
In the future, I can imagine that we will genetically modify ourselves using the genes that have dou... 
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We are bemused and crazed creatures, strangers to our true selves, to one another, and to the spirit... 
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The creation of a world view is the work of a generation rather than of an individual, but we each o... 
When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives mean the most to us, we often find that it ... 
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Traditionally, I have responded to the transcendent mystics of all religions. I have always responde... 
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Death frightens us. When we see another person die, we are reminded that we are also mortal, that so... 
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For the barbarians were not only at our gates but within our skins. We were our own wooden horses, e... 
I write books to change the world. Perhaps I can only change one little piece of that world. But if ... 
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The entire journey of life is lived with energy and we use energy in all that we do from dawn to dus... 
We may not imagine how our lives could be more frustrating and complex--but Congress can. 
We may not imagine how our lives could be more frustrating and complex - but Congress can. 
It is easy for Christians to have the false impression that once we have established a relationship ... 
We can spend our lives letting the world tell us who we are. Sane or insane. Saints or sex addicts. ... 
The capacity of the human organism to bear pain is, for our own protection, limited. All attempts to... 
The truth about childhood, as many of us have had to endure it, is inconceivable, scandalous, painfu... 
Mr. President how long must women wait to get their liberty? Let us have the rights we deserve. 
The decisions you make are a choice of values that reflect your life in every way. 
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I think that I do feel that my nature is to express what this self, this particular self at this tim... 
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I find talking about my work harder than it might be if honesty wasn't my calling card. 
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If we want to fight people in the world, we should fight them with pillows - pillows stuffed with fo... 
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Writing saved me from the sin and inconvenience of violence. 
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The stories are not autobiographical, but they're personal in that way. I seem to know only the thin... 
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