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ROBERT PLANT "THANK YOU" Don't rely on someone else for your happiness and self worth. Only you can be responsible for that. ... STACEY CHARTER You can love someone like your son, even if he's not your biological son, and you can love someo... OLIVER HUDSON GOLDA MEIR There is nothing in this life that can destroy you but yourself. Bad things happen to everyone, but ... ALEXANDRA MONIR JENA MALONE JOHANNA LINDSEY If Someone misunderstood You but You have nothing against them, But sometimes people want to see in ... AVNIJCUKY B.J. NOVAK There is no fence nor hedge round time that is gone. You can go back and have what you like of it if... PHILIP DUNNE If you can control a mans thinking, you dont have to worry about his actions. If you can determine w... CARTER WOODSON You can have any political standpoint and find someone else with it. You can be who you are and find... LINDA MOORE TAYLOR SWIFT GERTRUDE STEIN i want to be the best i can be but when i cant i'll try my best to achieve my goal my goals in life ... DALLY SALAD BETH DITTO Not everyone is going to like what you do or what you have to offer; however, if you can't see y... KRISTIN CHENOWETH You can't be who you are if you're living to be like someone else. RODEL NATIVIDAD CASIO OSHO C. JOYBELL C. In life, you shall meet a person who is so much like you. You will have so much love and respect tha... SASHIL KUMAR dont be too confident when someone tells you they love you, the real question is UNTIL WHEN? becoz j... NIESA AMOR IBARRA FLANNERY O'CONNOR loving someone is not difficult, but what's difficult is, if someone you loved never loves you back ... BENJAMIN CARVAJAL Sometimes it is good to be created like animal. You eat, you protect yourself, you want to have sex.... 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BEN MATTHEWS If you want to turn something on in the root, you might not need it in the flowers or the pods. Thes... BEN MATTHEWS You can have it as loud as you want and there's no one around to hear it. BEN MATTHEWS My audience is much more center right, or centrist. CHRIS MATTHEWS You know, there were 29 Democratic votes for censure in the Senate. And if the Republicans had any s... CHRIS MATTHEWS Witnesses stated the Toyota began to pull out and then paused then drove into the path of the bus. BARBARA MATTHEWS He wasn't wearing a helmet. BARBARA MATTHEWS The officer saw the car and ran the tag. That was a good thing. BARBARA MATTHEWS She's eating, crying but they just don't believe there's any sight there. BARBARA MATTHEWS (She) tells him that she loves him, tells him that she wants to be with him again sexually, so she d... BARBARA MATTHEWS It clearly looked like an accident. BARBARA MATTHEWS You see this seat belt? There is too much slack, and so it doesn't secure the baby's seat tight enou... BARBARA MATTHEWS It looks like she drove farther south and then turned around when she realized she had gone too far. BARBARA MATTHEWS Right now police officers are trying to keep people off the road. BARBARA MATTHEWS The Senate hearing turned the tide, BARBARA MATTHEWS DAVE MATTHEWS It's the typical magic show taken to another level. AMANDA MATTHEWS There will probably be some audience requests, as well. AMANDA MATTHEWS We don't know exactly what the program will be, but Chuck's always been known for his ability to pic... AMANDA MATTHEWS We like to bring in a wide variety of performances, so there's something that everyone can enjoy. Ch... AMANDA MATTHEWS It started on [the Utah State University] campus, but last year was held in the Ellen Eccles Theater... AMANDA MATTHEWS DAVE MATTHEWS DAVE MATTHEWS We'll be back next year. This is just the beginning. BRIANA MATTHEWS Our shots just weren't falling. We had an off night. BRIANA MATTHEWS Honestly, I didn't think we would get this far. BRIANA MATTHEWS As the season wore on, you could see our development. We got used to playing with each other. I thou... BRIANA MATTHEWS Using fishing and boating to meet PE lifetime skills mandates is a natural. Fishing and boating are ... BRUCE MATTHEWS Defense has been our mainstay. BRUCE MATTHEWS Woodland has a lot of weapons. There is not a better team in the league when it comes to throwing th... BRUCE MATTHEWS We have taken a look at Woodland and we have looked at them every way that there is to look at them.... BRUCE MATTHEWS We may try and pound it out to open up the passing game. We run the ball pretty well. BRUCE MATTHEWS We have been able to rush the football. Each week we play, we hope to show improvement. The last two... BRUCE MATTHEWS It's a lot of fun and it motivates us to play hard. But the kids are going to have to bounce back an... BRUCE MATTHEWS So much of our offense fell on Warren's shoulders, and we knew he was always going to be prepared. I... BRUCE MATTHEWS DAVE MATTHEWS The professional literature says they have not successfully wooed the well. It's supposed to be an i... BOB MATTHEWS It's already confusing enough. Now that they can make changes, it'll be even more confusing. BOB MATTHEWS This is Middle America. Tracy's values have more in common with the South or the Midwest than they d... BOB MATTHEWS You can't complain about what we're doing if you don't go out and have a part. That's the big deal. BOB MATTHEWS The argument was between the number of days and the quality of paper we wanted to print, and quality... BOB MATTHEWS DAVE MATTHEWS Reagan was all about America, and you talked about it. Obama is, 'We are above that now. We'... 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BARBARA MATTHEWS I can't tell you what is going to work 100 percent of the time because nobody knows. BARBARA MATTHEWS We've already had some dangerous situations, and I am really dreading March. TODD MATTHEWS We've already had a dangerous situation in January with a number of grass fires. But the month I dre... TODD MATTHEWS DAVE MATTHEWS Hitting that first shot helped a lot. I felt like I was hot, even though I missed a lot of shots aft... CHRIS MATTHEWS Daniel could challenge for a starting spot on the defense, but all those guys are important because ... CHRIS MATTHEWS We graduated five starters and eight kids in all from last year's team (which made its second trip i... CHRIS MATTHEWS This is almost reparations opportunity isn’t it? CHRIS MATTHEWS All the 'too close to call' announcements are not due to incompetence ... It's caution, CHRIS MATTHEWS The original version of ['Needle in the Hay'] was built up with drums, trumpets, a harmonica, and va... 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