There's a balance: You want to love them and do what you can, but you don't want to lose your job or drain your savings,

It's a little early to say whether the whole program hangs in the balance.

One of the things these commercial Web sites say is that you don't want to go to a credit counseling service because it will show up on your credit report. That's a false alarm.

Just as there are none good but God, and nothing good but goodness, so there are no loves but love its self, the very love; and that what I call the other unnatural loves, are not loves at all in their own right but become so only so far as they participate in the very love.

If your life, or the life of someone you love, is hanging in the balance, of course you would withstand any amount of abuse to get the job done and to get the life saved. Of course, you have to be convinced that person knows what they're doing. In real life, you have no way of knowing that you're dealing with the best person for the job. It's only on television that you can know that.

Just in case you ever foolishly forget; I'm never not thinking of you.