This is the part ... that I absolutely, positively could never figure out,

Your job is not just to do what your parents say, what your teachers say, what society says, but to figure out what your heart calling is and to be led by that.

When you're the most successful person in your family, in your neighborhood, and in your town, everybody thinks you're the First National Bank, and you have to figure out for yourself where those boundaries are.

[While not directly criticizing the relief effort, she said:] This makes me so mad. This should not have happened. ... I think we all -- this country owes these people an apology.

Yes, yes, yes! Yes, you do.

The more you praise and celebrate your life, the more there is in life to celebrate.