Too many Americans are spurred to achieve, rather than to attach.

What cannot be communicated to the [m]other cannot be communicated to the self.

Strangers were a fairytale full of
possibilities not yet corrupted by reality while caregivers were the reality – and everything that couldn't be counted upon.

When the time comes, I will leave without uttering a word. So if you want me to stay, stop the time right now or else it would be too late!!

The key to finding a mate who can fulfill those needs is to first fully acknowledge your need for intimacy, availability, and security in a relationship - and to believe that they are legitimate. They aren't good or bad, they are simply your needs. Don't let people make you feel guilty for acting "needy" or dependent." Don't be ashamed of feeling incomplete when you're not in a relationship, or for wanting to be close to your partner and to depend on him.

I have an emotional attachment with Katihar.