True saddness is when someone still thinks your the same person after all these years. They brand you because of their own ego, fear and lack of spirituality. What's sadder is when they are Christian.
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But That Is Nothing To Be Ashamed Of Because That Is No... PHENG XIONG Somewhere there is someone that dreams of your smile, and finds in your presence that life is worthw... NEIL GAIMAN True love is when you put someone on a pedestal, and they fall - but you are there to catch them. ASHISH KUMAR These are spots in your feasts of charity, when they feast with you, feeding themselves without fear... BIBLE The crafty person is always in danger; and when they think they walk in the dark, all their pretense... JOHN TILLOTSON Learn to love someone when they least deserve it, because that is when they need your love most. RODOLFO COSTA It's a great excuse and luxury, having a job and blaming it for your inability to do your own art. W... JULIAN SCHNABEL Don't try changing someone else's opinion when the real problem is you are unsure of your own. JIM GENOVESE They say being in love and loving someone are two different things, right? I mean, you love your bes... MIA ASHER Many people undermine the importance of dreams, and say that simply living a simple life is good eno... DR ANIL KUMAR SINHA When you know someone close to you who are quiet or smaller or missing, seek them out, they may need... ANGIE KARAN EVEN AFTER BREAKING UP WITH SOMEONE WHOM YOU LOVE, THEY ARE STILL IN YOUR HEART. JOB LAZARUS OKELLO. When we dislike someone, or feel threatened by someone, the natural tendency is to focus on somethin... JAMES REDFIELD These are the days when the Christian is expected to praise every creed except his own. G.K. CHESTERTON When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You just know that your name is saf... WINNIE THE POOH The best men tell you the truth because they think you can take it; the worst men either try to pres... WHITNEY OTTO All women are the same, really: They are strong, but they are afraid of their own strength. DIANE VON FURSTENBERG The Ego, however, is not who you really are. The ego is your self-image; it is your social mask; it ... DEEPAK CHOPRA When you want something with all your heart, that's when you are closest to the Soul of the World...... PAULO COELHO When I like someone a lot, I get scared that I'll let them down. My fear of sucking is worst when I ... CASEY AFFLECK Do not be discourage by people who reject your true purpose. Do not stop because of anxiety; stop be... ERNEST AGYEMANG YEBOAH You can feel the whole world and still feel lost in it. So many people are in pain-- no matter how s... MITCH ALBOM When someone tells you they are too 'busy'… It’s not a reflection of their schedule; it’s a re... STEVE MARABOLI To love someone is to acknowledge the goodness of who they are. Through loving a person we awaken th... JOHN GRAY When things aren't going well, you have to bring youth in because the youngsters have a complete lac... ROD MARSH Just build your brand from day one, man. Your brand is your name, basically. A lot of people don'... MEEK MILL It's frustrating. It takes ego to get to the NFL. And your ego gets bruised a little bit when someon... JIM KIICK When anyone tells you cant achieve anything, it's because they fear your greatness. @ICONIC88 Highest level of inner peace; when you are able to let go of your ego and smile in the worse situati... NAQIBULLAH PAIMAN The true test of power is to disapprove those who admire you when they are wrong and to admire those... AMIT KALANTRI When the bad time begins, you may feel alone, because your mind never goes with you. Even your shado... SALMAN AZIZ When it is working, you completely go into another place, you're tapping into things that are totall... KEITH HARING Some never recognize or will even acknowledge their own personal lack of education or intelligence, ... MIKE E. KNEZEVICH, JR. We all have the potential to fall in love a thousand times in our lifetime. It's easy. The first gir... CHUCK KLOSTERMAN When people are frightened about going hungry and paying their mortgages, a scarcity model begins to... BARBARA KINGSOLVER You're not looking for perfection in your partner. Perfection is all about the ego. With soulmat... KAREN SALMANSOHN A piece of art is not a loaf of bread. When someone steals a loaf of bread from the store, that's it... JEFF TWEEDY The chains that keep you bound to the past are not the actions of another person. They are your own ... SHANNON L. ALDER It's a great excuse and luxury, having a job and blaming it for your inability to do your own ar... JULIAN SCHNABEL There is no greater heaven than the heart of a loving mother She takes care of you when you are... BANGAMBIKI HABYARIMANA The only thing secretive about secret societies is the fear that the arrogant inside these groups ha... ROBIN SACREDFIRE The only thing secretive about secret societies is the fear that the arrogant inside these groups ha... ROBIN SACREDFIRE All political thinking for years past has been vitiated in the same way. People can foresee the futu... GEORGE ORWELL If you give your time to help someone, you can't get mad if they fail or quit. The act of giving is ... KRIS HUEN There is nothing more entertaining then leaving someone speechless. Yet, there is nothing sadder tha... SHANNON L. ALDER When people lack teachers, their tendencies are not corrected; when they do not have ritual and mora... XUN KUANG Narcissistic Supply You get discarded as supply for one of two reason: They find you too ... SHANNON L. ALDER They set about making people so unhappy and isolated and when they crawl into a hole and pull it in ... CHRISTINA ENGELA The problem is that too many adults think their kids' lives are simple, or they try to make thei... SHERMAN ALEXIE A loyal friend is when your having the worst day they make it the best day.
When you don't make funn... MEHREEN MUSHARAFA When you're walking down the street, or you're at a restaurant, someone catches your eye bec... MARY-KATE OLSEN True beauty is when someone radiates that they like themselves. AIMEE MULLINS Anarchists are mouthpieces of a declining stratum of society; when they work themselves into a state... FRIEDRICH NIETZSCHE In essence, you are neither inferior nor superior to anyone. True self-esteem and true humility aris... ECKHART TOLLE When you do your works sincerely, you put wings to your works and then they will fly all over the wo... MEHMET MURAT ILDAN I believe that every person regardless of race, gender, religion, personal trend, and sexual prefere... BLEAU ROYALE Get to know who you are not, because when you know your ego the Truth of who you are will also becom... MARIA ERVING I think people are sexy when they have a sense of humor, when they are smart, when they have some se... SUZANNE VEGA They look sadder unlike in the first meeting when they were very robust and looked more hopeful beca... ZOSIMO PAREDES
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ALDER The moon will guide you through the night with her brightness, but she will always dwell in the dark... SHANNON L. ALDER Often people that criticise your life are usually the same people that don't know the price you paid... SHANNON L. ALDER No boundary or barrier surrounds the heart of a person that loves their self and others. SHANNON L. ALDER The only real conflict you will ever have in your life won’t be with others, but with yourself. SHANNON L. ALDER Fear is to begin with the end in mind. There is no end. Life is eternal. Live life knowing that the ... SHANNON L. ALDER A Plan B life can be just as good or better than a Plan A life. You just have to let go of that firs... SHANNON L. ALDER It is not lies or a lack of loyalty that ends a relationship. It is the agonizing truth that one per... SHANNON L. ALDER The most important thing is this: to sacrifice what you are now for what you can become tomorrow. SHANNON L. ALDER Your heart’s strength is measured by how hard it holds on. Your self worth and faith is measured b... SHANNON L. ALDER The only real battle in life is between hanging on and letting go. SHANNON L. ALDER When someone you love says goodbye you can stare long and hard at the door they closed and forget to... SHANNON L. ALDER Courage doesn’t happen when you have all the answers. It happens when you are ready to face the qu... SHANNON L. ALDER Empowered Women 101: If they made you an option you will always be an option vs. the person they rea... SHANNON L. ALDER You can't compare men or women with mental disorders to the normal expectations of men and women in ... SHANNON L. ALDER Two people with mental issues in a relationship does not work. It's like sitting in a boat and neith... SHANNON L. ALDER People that have been consistently hurt by others in life will only see the one time you hurt them a... SHANNON L. ALDER victim noun \ˈvik-təm\ 1. The moment you tell everyone you have a mental disorder... SHANNON L. ALDER Feelings are something you have; not something you are. SHANNON L. ALDER The greatest thing a father can do for his children is to respect the woman that gave birth to his c... SHANNON L. ALDER A heart worth loving is one you understand, even in silence. SHANNON L. ALDER Perspective is as simple as answering this question: If I had 5 months to live would I experience th... SHANNON L. ALDER Whenever you can’t balance what you see with what you believe you have conflict. SHANNON L. ALDER Spiritual pain is when you can’t stand another moment not knowing the real truth, and when you fin... SHANNON L. ALDER Do not conform to seek the seekers, but leave the leavers. Wisdom comes from facing what you do not ... SHANNON L. ALDER Accomplishments don’t erase shame, hatred, cruelty, silence, ignorance, discrimination, low self-e... SHANNON L. ALDER Honesty is vulnerability. Sadly, not everyone can handle someone’s honesty. However, lying allows ... SHANNON L. ALDER Regardless of your faith, you can never escape uncertainty. SHANNON L. ALDER Half of the time, the Holy Ghost tries to warn us about certain people that come into our life. The ... SHANNON L. ALDER The only person that should wear your ring is the one person that would never… 1... SHANNON L. ALDER Marriage is the beginning of love for your spouse, not the result of it. SHANNON L. ALDER It is not the hand that rocks the cradle that rules the world; it is the woman that holds the keys t... SHANNON L. ALDER When I was a child, an angel came to say, A true friend is coming my warrior to sweep you away,... SHANNON L. ALDER When someone you love dies, you are given the gift of "second chances". Their eulogy is a reminder t... SHANNON L. ALDER One of the most powerful lessons in life is to recognize that no one can give you power, and many pe... SHANNON L. ALDER Her wounds brought her a great source of power because they lived in the same place as her heart. SHANNON L. ALDER You're only a victim to the degree of what your perception allows. SHANNON L. ALDER Your most important “want” should be the one you can control! SHANNON L. ALDER If he emotionally cheated on you remember this before you take him back. It was a choice to do it an... SHANNON L. ALDER The number of chances you give someone doesn't tell the world how loving you are without telling the... SHANNON L. ALDER A deceitful man will go as far as to trample all over a woman’s reputation and spirit, in order to... SHANNON L. ALDER Be leery of silence. It doesn't mean you won the argument. Often, people are just busy reloading the... SHANNON L. ALDER I am tired of people saying that poor character is the only reason people do wrong things. Actually,... SHANNON L. ALDER Temptation goes both ways. Sometimes, you can be tempted to live a half life because it pleases some... 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