Trying to define yourself is like trying to bite your own teeth.

So what is discord at one level of your being is harmony at another level.

When you don't inherit an identity you have to define it on your own.

So then, the relationship of self to other is the complete realization that loving yourself is impossible without loving everything defined as other than yourself.

Don't let anyone try to tell you who you are. Define yourself.

To have faith is to trust yourself to the water. When you swim you don't grab hold of the water, because if you do you will sink and drown. Instead you relax, and float.