Use your anger for good. Anger to people is like gas to the automobile - it fuels you to move forward and get to a better place. Without it, we would not be motivated to rise to a challenge. It is an energy that compels us to define what is just and unjust.

The greatest remedy for anger is delay.

You have the right to be angry but it is not always right to be angry.

But there are indeed specific obstacles to change, which different people experience in different ways. In some sense, what we are calling obstacles to change are actually defenses against some perceived threat if we change, so we persist in thoughts that were originally protective.

Identifying the things that get in our way as we want to change becomes complex and difficult.

Besides, just being heard helps the other person calm down and feel less angry. We often yell when we are angry because we want to be Heard.

Transcending anger happens when we are able to commit to something greater than ourselves. And, ironically, sacrifice and concern for others are the best things we can do for ourselves. Solidifying our human ties sustains us in the time of greatest need and angst.