We do not need to grieve for the dead. Why should we grieve for them? They are now in a place where there is no more shadow, darkness, loneliness, isolation, or pain. They are home.
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Once I went back when a good monarch prayed;
Mortals... MAURICE MAETERLINCK What will make you a star is in you SOTONYE ANGA Only a few industrious Scots perhaps, who indeed are dispersed
over the face of the whole earth. B... GEORGE CHAPMAN I'm not one to grieve too hard or too long over golf. I'm disappointed, mostly for the girls. They t... CATRIN NILSMARK Air is approximately 21% oxygen, our brains feed off of oxygen. So basically we are all airheads. ANDONI GARCIA Inspired By Beauty In Creation We Are One DANIEL GILMAN Are shadows a shadowy reflection of the soul or is it a reflection of who we really are, or possibly... GARY F EVANS... We are this fucking stick in the end... DEYTH BANGER Their home did get damaged some. They are able to live there, but it's no environment for them to be... DOROTHY GIBSON Death is as sure for that which is born, as birth is for that which is dead. Therefore grieve not fo... BHAGAVAD GITA For certain is death for the born And certain is birth for the dead; Therefore over the inevit... BHAGAVAD GITA We shall meet in the place where there is no darkness. GEORGE ORWELL We are here to create, not destroy. VIKTORIJA GRUMBLYTė My heart is broken and I grieve, for I have known love. Your heart is broken and you grieve, for you... JESIKAH SUNDIN For about two and half years now we've been sending packages to our military where ever they're depl... KATHY BUCKLEY So, tomorrow, I'm leaving. And I'm not going to let that happen again with anyone else. I'm going to... STEPHEN CHBOSKY There is nothing to fear. Nothing to worry about. Grieve nothing in this transitionary world. It's t... TAHEREH MAFI It's not going to be a happy ending for everybody. There need to be cuts. I understand that. But whe... KATHRYN DONAHUE If someone feels they need to come back for a second session, we can have them do that. If there are... KAY WILSBACH There is no Dubai and Abu Dhabi; we are one. Whoever doesn't understand this should do their hom... MOHAMMED BIN RASHID AL MAKTOUM We call them 'Mystery Missions' because the kids sign up by faith. They have no idea where they are ... LAURA HOVI Since every death diminishes us a little, we grieve - not so much for the death as for ourselves LYNN CAINE Else what shall they do which are baptized for the dead, if the dead rise not at all? why are they t... BIBLE Birth, life, death is a cycle. And they're all beautiful, you celebrate all of them. Animals do ... CESAR MILLAN The wise grieve neither for the living nor for the dead. There was never a time when you and I and a... ANONYMOUS No one will grieve because your lips are dumb. ELLA WHEELER WILCOX Where you come from now is much less important than where you're going. More and more of us are ... PICO IYER Sometimes people leave you halfway through the woods. Do not let it grieve you, no one leaves for go... STEPHEN SONDHEIM Pain only shows us we've lost something that was intimately involved in our lives. Why on earth woul... ASHLEY NIKOLE There are moments when troubles enter our lives and we can do nothing to avoid them. But they a... PAULO COELHO We are slow to believe that which, if true, would grieve us. UNKNOWN Where is General Garner now? ... The people need assistance here in Nasiriya. Why are they not here?... AHMAD CHALABI Many times in our society, children are the forgotten grievers because they don't grieve the way we ... DAVID KESSLER What you gotta think about is what they're saying in their locker room. They need to jump on us. On ... SUE BIRD If they are using more precise aircraft, there is a ground for us to be extra worried. We are waitin... ERNEST WAMBA People who are underprivileged have more to grieve and have more to overcome. SHERYL SANDBERG We may not get to choose how we die, but we can chose how we live. The universe may for... SHAUN DAVID HUTCHINSON Dreams are hopeful because they exist as pure possibility. Unlike memories, which are fossils, long ... SHAUN DAVID HUTCHINSON Sometimes we represent our weakness as if it were bad. We don’t think it’s okay to be weak…We ... HENRY CLOUD The longer and closer their association has been, the more strongly and the longer they are likely t... DR. JESSICA JAHIEL We are now taking deals from those players, where before they got them for no apparent reason, ... C... MARTEN MICKOS Grieve and mourn for yourself not once or twice, but again and again. MORRIE SCHWARTZ Are your rights to protest more important than my rights to grieve? JULIE MACKENZIE They are very brave when they talk about other countries where they have no competencies, but where ... CARLES PUIGDEMONT We are not in a situation where we have to form a federal government at all costs and there is no re... ZORAN DJINDJIC As Luke knelt down beside his corpse, Clary couldn’t help but remember what he had said about havi... CASSANDRA CLARE Now we come to forgiveness. Don't worry about forgiving me right now. There are more important thing... 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BILL MISKELL Do not save your loving speeches for your friends till they are dead. Do not write them on their tom... ANNA CUMINS
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O'ROURKE The Universe and Spirit do not understand limitations...PEOPLE invented limitations! JENNIFER O'NEILL Not only have we not done the good things that God really wants us to do, but in fact, we’ve done ... ERIN O'RIORDAN Anybody who has survived his childhood has enough information about life to last him the rest of his... FLANNERY O'CONNOR You have to quit confusing a madness with a mission. FLANNERY O'CONNOR By subsidiarity is meant the principle that responsibilities should be devolved to the lowest viable... DENIS O'BRIEN For me it is the virgin birth, the Incarnation, the resurrection which are the true laws of the fles... FLANNERY O'CONNOR The truth is not distorted here, but rather a distortion is used to get at truth. FLANNERY O'CONNOR There are some of us who have to pay for our faith every step of the way and who have to work out dr... FLANNERY O'CONNOR We lost our innocence in the Fall, and our turn to it is through the Redemption which was brought ab... FLANNERY O'CONNOR Satisfy your demand for reason but always remember that charity is beyond reason, and God can be kno... FLANNERY O'CONNOR Faith is what someone knows to be true, whether they believe it or not. FLANNERY O'CONNOR Everybody knows how to raise children, except the people who have them. P.J. O'ROURKE I have been told by the third grade teacher that my daughter Poppet is reading at middle school leve... P.J. O'ROURKE My father...was a man who understood all dogs thoroughly and treated them like human beings. FLANN O'BRIEN When all else fails, there's always delusion. CONAN O'BRIEN You would not want to be responsible for someone else’s happiness, so please do not hold someone e... JENNIFER O'NEILL The yellow commuter train ran through canal-crossed fields as dull as graph paper. Always one saw ev... JOSEPH O'NEILL I was always the girl growing up who just wasn’t quite like the rest of them. I liked working hard... R.B. O'BRIEN You don't know. When I'm out there at night I feel close to my own body, I can feel my blood moving,... TIM O'BRIEN They carried all the emotional baggage of men who might die. Grief, terror, love, longing--these wer... TIM O'BRIEN I was a coward. I went to the war. TIM O'BRIEN To generalize about war is like generalizing about peace. Almost everything is true. Almost nothing ... TIM O'BRIEN Linda was nine then, as I was, but we were in love...it had all the shadings and complexities of mat... TIM O'BRIEN Well, right now I'm not dead. But when I am, it's like...I don't know, I guess it's like bein... TIM O'BRIEN Together we understood what terror was: you're not human anymore. You're a shadow. You slip out of y... TIM O'BRIEN It wasn't a question of deceit. Just the opposite; he wanted to heat up the truth, to make it burn s... TIM O'BRIEN In any war story, but especially a true one, it's difficult to separate what happened from what seem... TIM O'BRIEN It was my view then, and still is, that you don't make war without knowing why. Knowledge of course,... TIM O'BRIEN He wished he could've explained some of this. How he had been braver than he ever thought possible, ... TIM O'BRIEN And sometimes remembering will lead to a story, which makes it forever. That's what stories are for.... TIM O'BRIEN What sticks to memory, often, are those odd little fragments that have no beginning and no end... TIM O'BRIEN It was very sad, he thought. The things men carried inside. The things men did or felt they had to d... TIM O'BRIEN you're never more alive than when you're almost dead. TIM O'BRIEN But in a story, which is a kind of dreaming, the dead sometimes smile and sit up and return to the w... TIM O'BRIEN War is hell, but that's not the half of it, because war is also mystery and terror and adventure and... TIM O'BRIEN I survived, but it's not a happy ending. TIM O'BRIEN Stories are for joining the past to the future. Stories are for those late hours in the night when y... TIM O'BRIEN The thing about a story is that you dream it as you tell it, hoping that others might then dream alo... TIM O'BRIEN