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ALAIN BOTTON We are humiliated by what is powerful and mean, but awed by what is powerful and noble.
ALAIN DE BOTTON It is precisely when we hear little from our partner which frightens, shocks, or sickens us that we ...
ALAIN DE BOTTON There is no greater evil for men than the constraint of fortune.
SOPHOCLES Could a greater miracle take place than for us to look through each other's eyes for an instant?
HENRY DAVID THOREAU We would hope for an improved security environment because otherwise many people who may wish to par...
ASHRAF QAZI Not everyone who stares likes us; we may look weird enough to get everyone’s attention.
M.F. MOONZAJER Could a greater miracle take place than for us to look through each other's eyes for an instant?
HENRY DAVID THOREAU It was a good chance for us to play for people who would never have heard us otherwise.
DAISY BERKOWITZ I think most of us would agree that people who have, say, little formal schooling but labor honestly...
BEN BERNANKE Fortune is a goddess that reveals herself only to people who seek her
BANGAMBIKI HABYARIMANA There is no greater treasure than the respect and love of a true friend.
SOURCE UNKNOWN If ye love wealth greater than liberty, the tranquility of servitude greater than the animating cont...
SAMUEL ADAMS We really can't tell the difference between people who might seek power for some greater good an...
BRUCE BUENO DE MESQUITA We must plan for freedom, and not only for security, if for no other reason than that only freedom c...
KARL POPPER We must plan for freedom, and not only for security, if for no other reason than that only freedom c...
KARL POPPER There can be no greater spiritual accomplishment than to come through brutal trials and then look ba...
BARBARA KINGSOLVER Make improvements, not excuses. Seek respect, not attention.
ROY T. BENNETT Seek not greater wealth, but simpler pleasure; not higher fortune, but deeper felicity.
MAHATMA GANDHI We probably have a greater love for those we support than for those who support us. Our vanity carr...
ERIC HOFFER There's no greater affirmation to our humanity than the Bethlehem manger, no greater demonstration o...
DAVID L. HATTON We respect the result of the election, and we respect the people and the government, but this doesn'...
ABU HASSAN I would rather die and come to Jesus Christ than be king over the entire earth. Him I seek who died ...
IGNATIUS OF ANTIOCH But as many things entice us to apostasy, so that it is difficult to keep us faithful to God in the ...
JOHN CALVIN There is no greater feeling in business than building a product which impacts people's lives in ...
ELLIOTT BISNOW It appeared to Harriet that she was always the one who remembered having seen other people. They nev...
ELIZABETH TAYLOR We should thank God that He did not give us the power of hearing through walls; otherwise there woul...
AUSTIN O'MALLEY No power on earth is greater than a mind and soul reawakened. Our Constitution begins 'we the people...
CAL THOMAS We feel that rather than advertise for it we're going to look down and pick people or a person who w...
JACKIE HENDRIKS This was a pretty astonishing number for us. We knew that it would be a high volume, but this was an...
TIM CRANTON [...] the diversity of our opinions, consequently, does not arise from some being endowed with a lar...
RENé DESCARTES As we honor and thank the brave men and women of our military who fight today to guarantee our freed...
BOB BEAUPREZ We have a name for people who create universes - they're called gods. There is no greater hubris...
GREGORY BENFORD Mothers are the people who love us for no good reason. And those of us who are mothers know it's...
MAGGIE GALLAGHER We reserve our deepest respect and admiration for those who volunteer for service and give their liv...
MITT ROMNEY The way forward is always found through greater respect for the equal rights of all.
MARTIN O'MALLEY Fear nothing but what thy industry may prevent; be confident of nothing but what fortune cannot de...
FRANCIS QUARLES Fear nothing but what thy industry may prevent; be confident of nothing but what fortune cannot defe...
FRANCIS QUARLES I don't think that anything happens by coincidence... No one is here by accident... Everyone who cro...
JAMES REDFIELD People under stress often drink more than they otherwise would. It's the same thing for smoking -- p...
DR. CECIL WILSON None of us has ever seen a motive. Therefore, we don't know we can't do anything more than suspect w...
BRENNAN MANNING I gained greater respect for the Marines -- for their real commitment to high principles and standar...
JACK SZYMANSKI Here, everything is tragic through and through, and the will, that fain would shape a world accordin...
RICHARD WAGNER There is no greater view of the world, than through the eyes of a child.
KURT KROHN Most of us think we're too busy or too important to rest for a day.
CRAIG GROESCHEL We may not return the affection of those who like us, but we always respect their good judgment.
LIBBIE FUDIM We may not return the affection of those who like us, but we always respect their good judgment.
LILLIAN GORDY CARTER We may not return the affection of those who like us, but we always respect their good judgment.
LILLIAN CARTER The road's a safe road. It's a straight stretch of road, ... We'd have fewer accidents if people wou...
DENIS MURPHY We seek knowledge only because we desire enjoyment, and it is impossible to conceive why a person wh...
JEAN-JACQUES ROUSSEAU Be found of us whom Thou hast deigned to seek, / Be found that we the more may seek for Thee; / Lord...
CHRISTINA G. ROSSETTI Mark Twain and I are in the same position. We have put things in such a way as to make people, who w...
GEORGE BERNARD SHAW There can be no reproach to pain unless we assume human dignity, there is no reason for restraints o...
RAVI ZACHARIAS With Katrina the potential for rates to stay lower than they otherwise would have is greater. If the...
GERALD ZUKOWSKI People who lived in the 1920s and '30s and '40s were not so different from us. In some ways,...
TIMOTHY D. SNYDER To endure is greater than to dare; to tire out hostile fortune; to be daunted by no difficulty; to k...
WILLIAM MAKEPEACE THACKERAY No power on earth is greater than a mind and soul reawakened. Our Constitution begins 'we the pe...
CAL THOMAS No one is satisfied with his fortune, nor dissatisfied with his
intellect.
[Fr., Nul n'est conten...
NICOLAS BOILEAU-DESPREAUX She made a fence of phrases, which seemed a treachery to herself.
ELIZABETH TAYLOR The leaders of the world face no greater task than that of avoiding nuclear war. While preserving th...
ROBERT KENNEDY We may pretend that we're basically moral people who make mistakes, but the whole of history proves ...
TERRY HANDS We may pretend that we're basically moral people who make mistakes, but the whole of history proves...
TERRY HANDS Supply concerns at the forefront of market attention and any threats to production are feeding strai...
INGRID STERNBY May our daily choices be a reflection of our deepest values, and may we use our voices to speak for ...
COLLEEN PATRICK-GOUDREAU Attention to our duties provides far greater rewards than beauty and wit. Self-control is what diffe...
LAURA MONCUR Elegance of language may not be in the power of all of us; but simplicity and straight forwardness a...
ALFORD We're optimistic pessimists. We believe in ourselves, but no one else. We have respect for our fans ...
DERON MILLER We look forward to being reunited. We have a lot of people who have been praying for us.
DENISE BAKLID What other species now require of us is our attention. Otherwise, we are entering a narrative of dis...
TERRY TEMPEST WILLIAMS For some people a thing may be right, and for others it may be wrong. There is no greater truth to m...
KATHERINE EWELL We never respect those who amuse us, however we may smile at their comic powers.
MARGUERITE BLESSINGTON We never respect those who amuse us, however we may smile at their comic powers
MARGUERITE GARDINER We never respect those who amuse us, however we may smile at their comic powers.
MARGUERITE GARDINER We need to seek wise leaders who will seek common ground among Americans instead of dividing us furt...
JAMES MCGREEVEY No man can ever be secure until he has been forsaken by Fortune.
BOETHIUS, 522 The surveillance of ordinary people is far greater than I would have imagined and far greater than t...
BARTON GELLMAN There's a libertarian streak in Colorado and a respect for people's individual rights throughout the...
MASON TVERT This is definitely very bad news, ... Until now, we had given the company's management the benefit o...
CARL SIBILSKI This is definitely very bad news. Until now, we had given the company's management the benefit of th...
CARL SIBILSKI To abstain that we may enjoy is the epicurianism of reason.
[Fr., L'abstenir pur jouir, c'est l'ep...
UNKNOWN There is no greater mystery to me than that of light traveling through darkness.
ALEXANDER VOLKOV To endure is greater than to dare; to tire out hostile fortune; to be daunted by no difficulty; to k...
WILLIAM MAKEPEACE THACKERAY Life is thickly sown with thorns, and I know no other remedy than to pass quickly through them. The ...
VOLTAIRE There is no greater force for change than people inspired to live a better life.
STEVE MARABOLI The answer isn't more time but a greater awareness of the time we have.
CRAIG GROESCHEL I have a lot of respect for my fellow young actors. It takes a lot to push forward after being told ...
COLTON HAYNES There is much of economic theory which is pursued for no better reason than its intellectual attract...
JOHN HICKS Avoid those who seek friends in order to maintain a certain social status or to open doors they woul...
PAULO COELHO There is no greater beast than envy, no greater thief than fear, no greater enemy than greed, no gre...
MATSHONA DHLIWAYO (All the grief she had suffered over her lifetime had moulded her face into a mask of eternal sadnes...
JEAN SASSON It is the fortune of France.
[Fr., C'est la fortune de France.]
NICEPHORUS Our American story, for generations, is of a people who seek to move forward. A people who look at a...
BILL OWENS Let us eat, drink, and love for tomorrow we die, would be in fact the language of reason, the morali...
MARY WOLLSTONECRAFT I feel that it is healthier to look out at the world through a window than through a mirror. Otherwi...
BILL WITHERS Can there be greater foolishness than the respect you pay to people collectively when you despise th...
MARCUS TULLIUS CICERO They deserve no respect those who do not respect their peers. No tolerance those who violate the dig...
MARIANA FULGER We find nothing easier than being wise, patient, superior. We drip with the oil of forbearance and s...
FRIEDRICH NIETZSCHE It is quite possible for people who have never met us and who have spent only twenty minutes thinkin...
MALCOLM GLADWELL It requires so much more than knowledge to follow through on what we may know is right for us. We ar...
LASHAN DIA GRAY The reason most people play golf is to wear clothes they would not be caught dead in otherwise.
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ALAIN DE BOTTON Despite the best efforts of critics and the hopes of authors, our tastes in books are probably as in...
ALAIN DE BOTTON We would like to go and see the field that Millet…shows us in his Springtime, we would like Claude...
ALAIN DE BOTTON Our feelings of anxiety are genuine but confused signals that something is amiss, and so need to be ...
ALAIN DE BOTTON Paying tax should be framed as a glorious civic duty worthy of gratitude - not a punishment for maki...
ALAIN DE BOTTON It was no longer her absence that wounded me, but my growing indifference to it. Forgetting, however...
ALAIN DE BOTTON Perhaps it is true that we do not really exist until there is someone there to see us existing, we c...
ALAIN DE BOTTON Every fall into love involves the triumph of hope over self-knowledge. We fall in love hoping we won...
ALAIN DE BOTTON Nature puts us all in our places. Being made to feel small isn't something we welcome when it's done...
ALAIN DE BOTTON in Flaubert’s eyes, that only entirely illiterate and uneducated Frenchmen now stood a chance of b...
ALAIN DE BOTTON A clean conscience is the preserve of those without sufficient imagination.
ALAIN DE BOTTON In the past, Flaubert implied, idiots had had no clue as to what the carbon structure of diamonds wa...
ALAIN DE BOTTON Never too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.
ALAIN DE BOTTON But we would do well to meditate daily, rather as the religious do on their God, on the 9.5 trillion...
ALAIN DE BOTTON To a shameful extent, the charm of marriage boils down to how unpleasant it is to be alone. This isn...
ALAIN DE BOTTON One of the best protections against disappointment is to have a lot going on.
ALAIN DE BOTTON What kills us isn't one big thing, but thousands of tiny obligations we can't turn down for fear of ...
ALAIN DE BOTTON Booksellers are the most valuable destination for the lonely, given the numbers of books written bec...
ALAIN DE BOTTON It is precisely when we hear little from our partner which frightens, shocks, or sickens us that we ...
ALAIN DE BOTTON Unrequited love may be painful, but it is safely painful, because it does not involve inflicting dam...
ALAIN DE BOTTON It's clear to me that there is no good reason for many philosophy books to sound as complicated as t...
ALAIN DE BOTTON Jarenlang kwam ik bij het boodschappen doen langs een huis dat weliswaar een van de lelijkste gebouw...
ALAIN DE BOTTON Snobbery exists in all areas of life, not least literary criticism. By snobbery I mean, any method o...
ALAIN BOTTON Kant and Hegel are interesting thinkers. But I am happy to insist that they are also terrible writer...
ALAIN BOTTON I passionately believe that's it's not just what you say that counts, it's also how you say it - tha...
ALAIN BOTTON I am in general a very pessimistic person with an optimistic, day-to-day take on things. The bare fa...
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