We tell people to dress in layers and wear comfortable shoes.

We are very careful about how we balance the program for First Night every year.

We have extraordinary volunteers who are incredibly committed to this event.

People want to do something practical, more than just send a check, which we realize is often the most practical thing to do. But it just seems so impersonal. People want to make connections and feel like they're part of something larger than themselves, so getting involved in collecting provisions, tools, toys or whatever, gives us a sense that we are really helping.

Frankly, people who buy Showtime pay-per-view are supporting him and supporting the notion that you can get away with anything.

Sit down and talk things over. You have to be compatible. But you're two people, so you're going to have differences. But if you sit down and talk things over, you'll be better off.