We write in ways that, we generally hope, reflect real life, or at least look familiar to humans. And in life, recurring themes are a recurring theme. We never quite conquer a pet vice or a relationship pattern or a communication habit. We're haunted by our particular demons.

Real relationship is gritty and earthy, the stuff that life is made of.

I'm able to leave Don Draper at work. I'm quite dissimilar from him in real life.

I think as humans we do want to control our relationships, and you can't. It's probably better that you can't. That wouldn't be a real relationship, and we'd never learn and grow.

We don't set out to have a particular theme, but sometimes certain themes emerge.

I no longer have a problem!, I'm free from the lies, the bs, the games, the drama, the sneaky shit you did! I'm free from( its OK if i do it but you better not do it to me shit), I'm free from the fuckin person that doesn't know wrong from right and expects to always get away with shit like your a juvenile. Enough is enough I have no choice but to be free from all that foolishness!,