We're often ashamed of asking for so much help because it seems selfish or petty or narcissistic, but I think, if there's a God - and I believe there is - that God is there to help. That's what God's job is.
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Related Oh yeah, I believe in God. I think there's much more evidence that there is a God than that ther... DAVID ZUCKER I don't spend that much time being introspective, believe it or not. All I know is that I grew u... JANE GOODALL What I find is that we're all human beings and that it's all very similar, what we believe. ... DENNIS QUAID The most important thing I think we need to remember is that we're a work in progress. Do not be... CARNIE WILSON I believe that when you think of the negative, and you get up discouraged - 'There's nothing... JOEL OSTEEN Anytime you interfere with a natural process, you're playing God. God determines what happens na... JACK KEVORKIAN It's so easy to settle for less than God's best for us because we don't always feel like... JOYCE MEYER We think when God speaks to us, there's going to be a boom out of Heaven or we're going to g... JOEL OSTEEN I think I'm a very religious person. I think I believe in God as much as any man does. I don'... ERNEST GAINES All I'm saying is, is God the god who we look to for comfort during tragedies? Is he the god who... BENJAMIN WATSON One thing I do believe is I'm a believer in the presence of God. I believe that God is close. Wh... DAVID GREGORY I don't believe in a personal god. It's good to give thanks, whether or not there's a go... WILLIAM T. VOLLMANN There is no job that is America's God-given right anymore. CARLY FIORINA There's nothing wrong in men of God going into politics. It will help them to do what is right. T. B. JOSHUA The very first job I did, a Barbie commercial when I was eight or nine, that was like 'Oh my God... BIANCA LAWSON We're professional athletes. People know who we are, and if there's some way we can help wit... BOBBY ORR There's no shame in a bronze medal. I used to think that, and I'm so ashamed of thinking tha... KERRI WALSH JENNINGS I have a very clear vision, and I come from film, where director is God, so if there's a clash, ... LEE DANIELS I don't consider myself an artist necessarily, but craftsmen or people in the arts, their spirit... AL FRANKEN If I truly believe everything that's in that book, God is in control. He is in control. He's... SHAWN MICHAELS Because the Internet is so new, we still don't really understand what it is. We mistake it for a... DOUGLAS ADAMS I believe in believing. My coach John Kavanagh is a big atheist, and he is always trying to persuade... CONOR MCGREGOR Here is God's purpose - for God, to me, it seems, is a verb not a noun, proper or improper. R. BUCKMINSTER FULLER A demon, in a way, is a test of your faith. Because if you're doing God's work, there's ... TROY POLAMALU Mindfulness is a quality that's always there. It's an illusion that there's a meditation... RICHARD GERE I'm actually not a big fan of the word hope. I think it's a depressing word. I don't wan... KELLY CLARKSON I believe God created sports for a good reason. It's recreation. It's something that we enjo... LUKE SCOTT In God's eyes, there's not before and after. Every moment of time is simultaneous to God. MICHAEL NOVAK There's absolutely nothing that the God I believe in cannot do. OBIAGELI EZEKWESILI I think that God gives you your own will and choices. I don't believe that we're supposed to... JOEL OSTEEN Isn't it amazing that we are all made in God's image, and yet there is so much diversity amo... DESMOND TUTU God's grace is amazing! We're saved by grace - God's undeserved favor - and we live by g... JOYCE MEYER Actually, I began to think that maybe there is a god, after all. Or maybe it's a different one. ... TERRY GILLIAM I don't think you should spend your life praying for things, but I do believe you should thank G... JOEL OSTEEN I don't think they're gratuitous with the nudity on 'Game of Thrones.' It's very... NEIL MARSHALL Is man one of God's blunders? Or is God one of man's blunders? FRIEDRICH NIETZSCHE Well the basic thesis is that there's a god in heaven who is all powerful who wants to help peop... PAT ROBERTSON There's so much light in Broughty Ferry. I think the humour in Glasgow is darker, because it'... BRIAN COX You know, there's a real irony in U.S. assistance programs. First of all, I think it's misna... RICHARD ARMITAGE I think that's what distinguishes Schmidt, really. In the movies now, so much of what is appeali... JACK NICHOLSON I think there's a difference between God and religion. SINEAD O'CONNOR There is no question that America has been a nation that has been blessed by almighty God. There is ... FRANKLIN GRAHAM I just feel like, with rappers, there's so much complacency. It's like, 'Oh, I'm a r... J. COLE I'm thankful to God for having a family that's been there for me. He's been there from t... ASHTON SHEPHERD Christians who believe in the Bible believe that it is their job to bring others the joy of salvatio... DANIEL EVERETT I'm still a big 'Grey's Anatomy' fan. BROOKE ELLIOTT I used to watch 'Grey's Anatomy' pretty religiously. ERINN HAYES God is not upset that Gandhi was not a Christian, because God is not a Christian! All of God's c... DESMOND TUTU Even if we don't believe in church or God, we still believe in things that are bigger than ourse... RACHEL JOYCE I just really like Houston despite its craziness. There is a sense of energy and a kind of excitemen... GAIL COLLINS I believe that there is a Matrix and... to be more accurate I am in the Pornography Matrix. DEYTH BANGER The idea that God's mercy is connected to whether or not I shave is ludicrous, and I need to jus... MATISYAHU God says in the Quran that there is only one true religion, God's religion. It's the same th... FEISAL ABDUL RAUF I believe that rejection is a blessing because it's the universe's way of telling you that t... MICHELLE PHAN I figured there's nobody who's going to beat me or shoot me or crucify me. I can't help ... RALPH HALL It's also selfish because it makes you feel good when you help others. I've been helped by a... CAROL BURNETT This is God's work. Therefore it must be triumphant. There is no place for misgiving or desponde... JOSEPH BARBER LIGHTFOOT The thing that alarms me is that there are so many clergymen who say that the so-called 'new mor... BILLY GRAHAM With a popular show, you know that there's expectations there, so that's a little nerve-wrac... AARON ASHMORE If you're going to figure something out, study ethics. You can ask What's the answer? What... DUFF GOLDMAN The author of the Gospel of Judas wasn't against martyrdom, and he didn't ever insult the ma... ELAINE PAGELS What does genius mean? God has put us here specifically... every person has a job or journey to do. ... SAVION GLOVER I'm not questioning the monotheistic god. I think there's absolutely no evidence for the exi... BARBARA EHRENREICH Whether you like it or not, you're forced to come to the realisation that death is out there. Bu... CLINT EASTWOOD There is not a formula for the way that God heals. There's not a timetable. AMY GRANT I like to think 'The God Delusion' is a humorous book. I think, actually, it's full of l... RICHARD DAWKINS If a process or adaptation seems too smart for nature, that's a failure of your imagination, not... KYLE HILL There is a volatile mix, and that's because we're all intense. And there's no denying th... ALEX VAN HALEN Pro wrestling is not fake; it's sports entertainment. We go out there and we perform, and a lot ... KURT ANGLE It's horrible to think that a small cadre of people would manipulate that information. I mean, f... DWIGHT SCHULTZ There are several insights at the heart of the A's system that I think are wonderful for basebal... MICHAEL LEWIS I'm just totally into being strong. There's something about wanting to get a jar or whatever... MAGGIE Q Everybody's under God's planet, and God is the Almighty, the Beginning, the End, the Alpha, ... DUANE CHAPMAN I believe that there is no God, but that matter is God and God is
matter; and that it is no matter ... UNATTRIBUTED AUTHOR For me, it's sad to say, but I would probably have a spiritual marriage but not a legal marriage... ANDIE MACDOWELL I think in politics, in Congress, you often do things that are Republican, or you do things because ... J. C. WATTS Well I think fundamentally, what I think surprises me is the creationist movement, and the notion th... ROBERT WINSTON No matter what argument you make against evolution, the response is, 'Well, you know, it's p... ANN COULTER Documentaries - my God, there is so much going on in our country and in the world today that every t... JONATHAN DEMME I think we have to believe in things we don't see. That's really important for all of us, wh... JAMES CAAN I think what my hope is is that the only downside of having a steady job on television is, I think f... LAUREN GRAHAM I believe that President Obama is here for a reason, but that doesn't mean that he has to stay t... VICKY HARTZLER I think of talent as being God-given. I know that contradicts what a lot of people believe, but that... BRANDON FLOWERS I think we're in good hands. There's definitely much more momentum in bringing in good thing... CRYSTAL CHAPPELL The first thing that we need to say is that God is grieving, too. Uh, a lot of people try to make it... RICK WARREN There's fears in everyone's job. Ours are in the limelight, and people think we're incre... RAMI MALEK I think every woman, maybe every man, looks in the mirror and says, 'Oh my God, there's a wr... CHERYL TIEGS Oh, I love Nottingham. I know some people go, 'Oh God, there's not much going off there,'... VICKY MCCLURE I think that's something people need to convey because you see all these celebrity moms out ther... LISA LING There is a reason behind life. There is some connectivity between living beings. Whether you want to... DAMON LINDELOF I took two or three months and I came up with a reason that I thought was enough and I went with it:... TARSEM SINGH MaxCoin is competing for the crypto buck, if you will. So is Bitcoin, so is Dogecoin. Alt-coins are ... MAX KEISER I look at the Samurai because they were the artists of their time. What I think struck me when I rea... TOM CRUISE The assurance of Heaven is never given to the person. And that's why at the core of the Christia... RAVI ZACHARIAS When they're growing up, if you tell kids God exists, they believe it. It's the same with th... DOUGLAS TOMPKINS I don't think God cares if I wear nail polish or not. I don't think that's a deal breake... SOFIA VERGARA The thing to do, it seems to me, is to prepare yourself so you can be a rainbow in somebody else'... MAYA ANGELOU There's a duality of a guy calling on God: 'Where are you when I need you?' and then, at... JOE CARNAHAN I have mixed feelings about how fast things are changing as a result of technology. There's no d... AMANDA CREW What bothers me, I guess, is when I get these messages from girls on Twitter, and they're like, ... CARA DELEVINGNE
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ANNE LAMOTT We can see Spirit made visible when people are kind to one another, especially when it's a really bu... ANNE LAMOTT Faith includes noticing the mess, the emptiness and discomfort, and letting it be there until some l... ANNE LAMOTT Her purse was a weight, ballast; it tethered her to the earth as her mind floated away. ANNE LAMOTT ... one of the immutable laws of being human is that the people who show up are the right people. [p... ANNE LAMOTT But you don't always get what you want;,you get what you get ANNE LAMOTT What you're looking for is already inside you. You've heard this before, but the holy thing inside y... ANNE LAMOTT If you haven't already, you will lose someone you can't live without, and your heart will be badly b... ANNE LAMOTT ... everyone has come to understand that unconditional love is a reality, but with as shelf life of ... ANNE LAMOTT When we did art with the kids, the demons would lie down. ANNE LAMOTT Age has given me what I was looking for my entire life - it has given me me . It has provide... ANNE LAMOTT You want to protect your child from pain, and what you get instead is life, and grace; and though th... ANNE LAMOTT Rule 1: When all else fails, follow instructions. And Rule 2: Don't be an asshole. ANNE LAMOTT Rest and laughter are the most spiritual and subversive acts of all. Laugh, rest, slow down. ANNE LAMOTT I'm here to be me, which is taking a great deal longer than I had hoped. ANNE LAMOTT This is one thing they forget to mention in most child-rearing books, that at times you will just lo... ANNE LAMOTT Certainty is missing the point entirely. ANNE LAMOTT Help" is a prayer that is always answered. It doesn't matter how you pray--with your head bowed in s... ANNE LAMOTT Forgiveness means it finally becomes unimportant that you hit back. You're done. It doesn't necessar... ANNE LAMOTT Hope is not about proving anything. It's about choosing to believe this one thing, that love is bigg... ANNE LAMOTT A good marriage is where both people feel like they're getting the better end of the deal. ANNE LAMOTT Underneath all things means that beneath the floorboards, in the depths, in the spaces between the p... ANNE LAMOTT These are the words I want on my gravestone: that I was a helper, and that I danced." ANNE LAMOTT I still encourage anyone who feels at all compelled to write to do so. I just try to warn people who... ANNE LAMOTT But how?" my students ask. "How do you actually do it?" You sit down, I say. You try to sit do... ANNE LAMOTT I do not understand the mystery of grace -- only that it meets us where we are and does not leave us... ANNE LAMOTT Your problem is how you are going to spend this one odd and precious life you have been issued. Whet... ANNE LAMOTT I got a lot of things that society had promised would make me whole and fulfilled - all the things t... ANNE LAMOTT رفض ما دون الكمال ، ينطوي على كثير من الظلم والعداء للإ�... ANNE LAMOTT I didn't write about my mother much in the third year after she died. I was still trying to get ... ANNE LAMOTT I like the desert for short periods of time, from inside a car, with the windows rolled up, and the ... ANNE LAMOTT When I was a kid, our family used to watch 'Bonanza.' I really liked having a Sunday night T... ANNE LAMOTT I used to love to untangle chains when I was a child. I had thin, busy fingers, and I never gave up.... ANNE LAMOTT A good marriage is supposed to be one where each spouse secretly thinks he or she got the better dea... ANNE LAMOTT See how the fearful chandelier Trembles above you Each time you open your mouth To sing. Sing. —DO... ANNE LAMOTT After a while the middle-aged person who lives in her head begins to talk to her soul, the kid. ANNE LAMOTT Perfectionism means that you try not to leave so much mess to clean up. But clutter and mess show us... ANNE LAMOTT