What's really great is when people get the jokes, when people laugh,

[(PEOPLE) -- Inside the offices of the production company she created with her actor husband,] Everybody Loves Raymond ... Motherhood & Hollywood: How to Get a Job Like Mine.

Anytime anybody is rude, it makes me double-check my own behavior to make sure I don't do that to other people.

Some people are cool with the fact that their bodies bear witness to this great thing they produced, their children, and I understand that. But on a personal level, it makes me feel better that my breasts are not down to my knees when I'm undressed in front of my husband.

That drives me nuts when they do that,

When it comes to accepting emotional support or affection, I'm a little guarded and hardened to that.