FastSaying

When you are offered a miracle take it. Otherwise, show God your tail so he can move on and give it to someone who doesn't want to be in hell any more.


Shannon L. Alder

  Email Quote to Friends   Link to Quote   Create Short URL  Publish Text About This Quote   Share on Facebook, Twitter, and more
  See Recommended Quotes For You

Related

When you give, you will be blessed. When you give, it will be given back to you.
CRAIG GROESCHEL if it doesn't come bursting out of you
in spite of everything,
don't do it.
unless it...
CHARLES BUKOWSKI Be all that you can be.
You can be great.
LAILAH GIFTY AKITA Be who you want to be not what others think you should be.
BILAL SAIF When you want something to move out of your life, don't focus on it. Give attention to what you want...
HINA HASHMI You can be all that you want to be.
Keep dreaming and reach out to your dreams.
LAILAH GIFTY AKITA Instead of having just good intentions that are me-centered,you can have God intentions that are God...
CRAIG GROESCHEL But when you started dating someone, you could never be sure what you were getting into. You had to ...
LISA KLEYPAS You've got to show the world who you are before it tells you. Otherwise you become victim to someone...
CHRIS COLFER The one principle of hell is – “I am my own
GEORGE MACDONALD People become more ignorant when it comes to religion.
DANIEL MELGAçO You know that we've got a few problems we need to talk through before we get married."

"I...
SUSAN ELIZABETH PHILLIPS Thus, when you wake up in the morning, called by God to be a self again, if you want to know who you...
FREDERICK BUECHNER It's very relaxing and it helps the relationship on so many levels. I don't want someone who doesn't...
HAVI HEBER Those who forget the past are doomed to repeat it
SARA SHEPARD The best thing you can do for your kids is to show them God working in you on a daily basis.
CRAIG GROESCHEL If you want to give a man credit, put it in writing. If you want to give him hell, do it on the phon...
CHARLES BEACHAM When you take a flower in your hand and really look at it, it's your world for the moment. I wan...
GEORGIA O'KEEFFE sing the song and let people do the interpretation. It is your duty to sing the unsung songs and it ...
ERNEST AGYEMANG YEBOAH If you want to provoke, you should provoke someone who is stronger than you, otherwise you are misus...
LARS VON TRIER Expectations are a good thing to have!!! But when someone doesnt live up to yours it shouldnt be wha...
HEATHER MONTANO Your past doesnt have to determine who you are today. Sexual abuse nad rape can only break you if yo...
JANIKA EMBERSON It is so simple, yet so hard for some people to do. If you want someone out of your life then you an...
SHANNON L. ALDER Time determines the occurrence of possibilities and impossibilities, but God determines the time for...
ERNEST AGYEMANG YEBOAH Decide whether you are living up to your best idea of who you should be—and work on it if you're n...
DR ANIL KUMAR SINHA If you have been voting for politicians who promise to give you goodies at someone else's expense, t...
THOMAS SOWELL When you take a flower in your hand and really look at it, it's your world for the moment. I want to...
GEORGIA O'KEEFFE When something poses as obstacle to you,surmount it and use it as a miracle to move on to greater he...
IFEANYI ENOCH ONUOHA Give yourself to God. He can do more with it than you can.
VIKRANT PARSAI It is really a miracle how you have managed to be so miserable, so thirsty, when it is raining all o...
OSHO We take more pride in our profession than that. All of us just want this to put it behind us so we c...
LAVERNE MCCOY He doesn't deserve it. he can have any girl in the world's love and he took yours. someone who deser...
ABBI GLINES We may claim to believe in God, but we don't want to believe so much that it makes us different.
CRAIG GROESCHEL Don’t run after people or plead with them beseeching them to return. If they leave you they were n...
LATIKA TEOTIA Accept yourself with grace, take pride and value who you are. Don't get too down on yourself when yo...
DR ANIL KUMAR SINHA YOU are YOU! Know YOU can! YOU must not be afraid because God has a prosperous future plan for YOU! ...
ISRAELMORE AYIVOR There’s nothing more powerful than the written word. It can transfer you to a place that exists ri...
J. LYNN When you love someone, its never over. You move on, because you have to but you take them with you i...
ELIZABETH CHANDLER You can't run around, because that's when the seams are there and the holes are there. The tighter y...
KEVYN ADAMS Your children are the greatest gift God will give to you, and their souls the heaviest responsibilit...
LISA WINGATE Basra, carrying a torch in one hand and a bucket of water in the other. When someone asked her what ...
JOHN GREEN 37. It is better to be single and unhappy than unhappily married.
JAMES C. DOBSON I want to be honest, and even if that's scary, I know it's worth it.
EMM GRYNER Time is your most precious gift because you only have a set amount of it. You can make more money, b...
RICK WARREN You are always afraid that somebody may think you a fool. You are afraid that if others think you to...
OSHO You have what others don't have. This is good news which means you can do what others can't do! You ...
ISRAELMORE AYIVOR You release the pain of the past and press on. It's a new day, and God is doing a new thing. He want...
CRAIG GROESCHEL God is always on time, it may not be the time you are expecting, but hes on time. Just like he said ...
ARTHLENE LAUDAT LAWRENCE I want to be the kind of person who can do that. Move on and forgive people and be healthy and happy...
SUSANE COLASANTI God walked with humanity in the cool of the day and gave them the most difficult and hottest parts o...
JOEY TALLADINO Give God your weakness and hell give you its Strength
MEIR EZRA You can't own a human being. You can't lose what you don't own. Suppose you did own him. Could you r...
TONI MORRISON You can have any political standpoint and find someone else with it. You can be who you are and find...
LINDA MOORE If you don’t have a goal and don’t know where you want to be and when you want be there. You are...
AHMED ALI ANJUM It is just a wonderful feeling to be able to give something to someone you know would not have it an...
DENISE MARTIN Money can't heal your heart. Money can't give you purpose. I don't want arms and legs, I...
NICK VUJICIC It is generally a bad thing when someone hunting you is polite. It means they are sure they can take...
PATRICIA BRIGGS 35. God is entitled to a portion of our income—not because He needs it but because we need to give...
JAMES C. DOBSON In the Donn, he hated the track. We want it to be a nice day so he can show what he can do.
RANDY MARTIN Because you're exactly like me- you don't want your whole life planned out. You're tired of followin...
JULIE KAGAWA Someone once joked, Hell is other people. But the truth is that connection to other people can be sa...
LORNA JANE COOK Don't take the bull by the horns, take him by the tail; then you can let go when you want to.
JOSH BILLINGS Don't take the bull by the horns, take him by the tail; then you can let go when you want to
JOSH BILLINGS Using assistive technology with your child prevents your child from missing out on content solely be...
SANDRA K. COOK I had been asking the universe and God to send me a way for me to help me. Show business has been so...
LOUIE ANDERSON Don't take it easy until life goes down to your level.
EMILY THOMAS The more power you give your child in any discipline process, the more likely he will be to be able ...
HILARY FLOWER A writer reports on the universe. When he presents his credentials, the gates of heaven and hell are...
BANGAMBIKI HABYARIMANA How to get it, I annoy you???
You are not interested???

What's the idea???
DEYTH BANGER Why are numbers so important? I take up a film I like, give it my best, and move on.
VIJAY SETHUPATHI Whatever your goal in life might be, don't take no for an answer. When you take no for an answer you...
PHILIP T. M. You want to learn everything that you possibly can, chew it, digest it, and take it for what it is, ...
MIKE SINGLETARY I want people to know that who you are in highschool, isn't gonna be who you are for the of your lif...
PETE WENTZ It really doesn't matter if the person who hurt you deserves to be forgiven. Forgiveness is a gift y...
GORDON ATKINSON So when the devil throws your sins in your face and declares that you deserve death and hell, tell h...
MARTIN LUTHER The time when there is nothing at all in your soul except a cry for help may be just that time when ...
C.S. LEWIS The word "L♡VE" means absolutely nothing without the action behind it. You wanna know how to reall...
SANJO JENDAYI So if you are confused, please remember – don’t help anybody, because your help is going to be p...
OSHO To hear people talk, you would think no one ever did anything but love each other. But when you look...
PAUL MURRAY When a goat is sweating, you won't know and he won't tell you. So stop broadcasting your suffering. ...
THE INSPIRATIONIST Always try your best to give encouragement, support and great advice to people around you. If they a...
DOUGLAS YEBOAH My advice to young people who want to act is just to do it as much as you can! Find friends who also...
SARAH STEELE You want to keep getting responses throughout your presentation. The more give and take and the more...
LILYAN WILDER I've seen guys otherwise calm and collected lose it when they are chasing someone. We try to teach o...
DAVID KLINGER If someone breaks your heart, don’t use anybody to fix it. Calm down instead, be thankful and forg...
BRADLEY B. DALINA When I want to kick it up, I like to add hardwood chips or chunks to the grill; it adds bold smoky f...
EMERIL LAGASSE I think in any situation, so much of effective leadership is when it comes from your own personality...
ANDREW LUCK When conversion takes place, the process of revelation occurs in a very simple way — a person is i...
SERAPHIM ROSE When you're offered things, it makes it so much easier to be indecisive. And it's silly beca...
ALICIA SILVERSTONE If you want your ministry to have ‘it’, more important than anything else we’ve discussed, you...
CRAIG GROESCHEL Discouragement is like a scorpion in your shoe; it takes courage to toss it out so you can move on.
RICHELLE E. GOODRICH Move out, take your position in the lane early on so motorists can see you.
PRESTON TYREE L: You want me just to be your... friend?

E: You want the truth? I think you're my guardi...
SOPHIE KINSELLA I believe if God doesn't give you a miracle, you are a miracle of God for somebody else's sa...
NICK VUJICIC Anytime you wonder about something, keep in mind and remember, there is something that can make you ...
ERNEST AGYEMANG YEBOAH I am going to take this bucket of water and pour it on the flames of hell, and then I am going to us...
JOHN GREEN I really wasn't planning to move as early as I did, but he was doing everything so easily I didn't w...
GARRETT GOMEZ If you can dream it, you can do it.
ENZO FERRARI You are the architect of your life.
LAILAH GIFTY AKITA I think he would appreciate someone on his team who isn't afraid to give a hard foul in the playoffs...
JASON COLLINS

More Shannon L. Alder

God is going to send you someone that will rescue you. Then one day you will rescue them in return a...
SHANNON L. ALDER I will never accept life for what it is. I don't need an easy life. My road was meant to be hard bec...
SHANNON L. ALDER The only people you have to look out for in life are the people that don't care about anything or an...
SHANNON L. ALDER Naive people tend to generalize people as—-good, bad, kind, or evil based on their actions. Howeve...
SHANNON L. ALDER Empowered Women 101: If he’s with you, it’s a given that he finds you attractive. Don’t talk h...
SHANNON L. ALDER What if you were wrong? What if everything you ever believed was a lie? What if you missed your oppo...
SHANNON L. ALDER And I was your moon because I shined brighter than any other star in your universe and you were my d...
SHANNON L. ALDER An open Facebook page is simply a psychiatric dry erase board that screams, “Look at me. I am inse...
SHANNON L. ALDER Never annoy an inspirational author or you will become the poison in her pen and the villian in ever...
SHANNON L. ALDER Chasing a man is not winning. The only thing you win is the loss of your dignity. Confidence is know...
SHANNON L. ALDER Before you call yourself a Christian, Buddhist, Muslim, Hindu or any other theology, learn to be hum...
SHANNON L. ALDER Being different is a revolving door in your life where secure people enter and insecure exit.
SHANNON L. ALDER One of the greatest regrets in life is being what others would want you to be, rather than being you...
SHANNON L. ALDER I love you. I hate you. I like you. I hate you. I love you. I think you’re stupid. I think you’r...
SHANNON L. ALDER They will hate you if you are beautiful. They will hate you if you are successful. They will hate yo...
SHANNON L. ALDER A best friend is the only one that walks into your life when the world has walked out.
SHANNON L. ALDER Every woman that finally figured out her worth, has picked up her suitcases of pride and boarded a f...
SHANNON L. ALDER You can't fight mental health bias if you label people based on a lists of symptoms and you have no ...
SHANNON L. ALDER The need for control always comes from someone that has lost it.
SHANNON L. ALDER When you blame others, what you are really saying is what is inside of you can’t be fixed, so you ...
SHANNON L. ALDER Beauty is not who you are on the outside, it is the wisdom and time you gave away to save another st...
SHANNON L. ALDER Carve your name on hearts, not tombstones. A legacy is etched into the minds of others and the stori...
SHANNON L. ALDER Every broken heart has screamed at one time or another: Why can't you see who I truly am?
SHANNON L. ALDER If you have feelings for someone, let them know. It doesn’t matter if they can be in your life or ...
SHANNON L. ALDER There comes a time in your life when you have to choose to turn the page, write another book or simp...
SHANNON L. ALDER Sometimes, you will go through awful trials in your life and then a miracle happens--God heals you. ...
SHANNON L. ALDER Some of the most beautiful things worth having in your life come wrapped in a crown of thorns.
SHANNON L. ALDER One of the most important things you can do on this earth is to let people know they are not alone.
SHANNON L. ALDER Staying silent is like a slow growing cancer to the soul and a trait of a true coward. There is noth...
SHANNON L. ALDER If you spend your time hoping someone will suffer the consequences for what they did to your heart, ...
SHANNON L. ALDER Cruel people offer pity when they no longer feel threatened. However, kind people offer compassion a...
SHANNON L. ALDER A coward talks to everyone but YOU.
SHANNON L. ALDER The definition of hell is two people in a relationship that is starved for love and unable to fulfil...
SHANNON L. ALDER You always had it in you to create miracles, but you forgot that it required you to do the opposite ...
SHANNON L. ALDER It is the apathetic person that sees the cause while the charitable person sees the need.
SHANNON L. ALDER I write to find strength.
I write to become the person that hides inside me.
I write to li...
SHANNON L. ALDER Soul connections are not often found and are worth every bit of fight left in you to keep.
SHANNON L. ALDER Dear Child,

Sometimes on your travel through hell, you meet people that think they are i...
SHANNON L. ALDER The more you talk about it, rehash it, rethink it, cross analyze it, debate it, respond to it, get p...
SHANNON L. ALDER There will always be someone willing to hurt you, put you down, gossip about you, belittle your acco...
SHANNON L. ALDER My father taught me that you can you read a hundred books on wisdom and write a hundred books on wis...
SHANNON L. ALDER Anger, resentment and jealousy doesn't change the heart of others-- it only changes yours.
SHANNON L. ALDER I could crawl inside the lyrics and know each note intimately. They would claw at my soul, until I c...
SHANNON L. ALDER Sensitive people care when the world doesn't because we understand waiting to be rescued and no one ...
SHANNON L. ALDER The most introspective of souls are often those that have been hurt the most.
SHANNON L. ALDER There is no perfection, only beautiful versions of brokenness.
SHANNON L. ALDER Often those that criticise others reveal what he himself lacks.
SHANNON L. ALDER It is not until you change your identity to match your life blueprint that you will understand why e...
SHANNON L. ALDER The most intriguing people you will encounter in this life are the people who had insights about you...
SHANNON L. ALDER Great leaders get people to admit the truth because they know that dreams are buried under the lies ...
SHANNON L. ALDER To love someone with all of your heart requires reaching them where they are with the only words the...
SHANNON L. ALDER When you see people only as personalities, rather than souls with life missions to fulfill, you fore...
SHANNON L. ALDER The true definition of mental illness is when the majority of your time is spent in the past or futu...
SHANNON L. ALDER Most misunderstandings in the world could be avoided if people would simply take the time to ask, "W...
SHANNON L. ALDER It is easier to tell a person what life is not, rather than to tell them what it is. A child underst...
SHANNON L. ALDER If you want to discover the true character of a person, you have only to observe what they are passi...
SHANNON L. ALDER Insanity is everyone expecting you not to fall apart when you find out everything you believed in wa...
SHANNON L. ALDER The most confused you will ever get is when you try to convince your heart and spirit of something y...
SHANNON L. ALDER Life always begins with one step outside of your comfort zone.
SHANNON L. ALDER People that have trust issues only need to look in the mirror. There they will meet the one person t...
SHANNON L. ALDER If you want to know if someone was meant to be in your future, then remove all the worldly things ab...
SHANNON L. ALDER Sometimes the simplest solution out of conflict is becoming someone’s friend, instead of saying go...
SHANNON L. ALDER A woman or man of value doesn’t love you because of what he or she wants you to be or do for them....
SHANNON L. ALDER Sensitive people usually love deeply and hate deeply. They don't know any other way to live than by ...
SHANNON L. ALDER Some stories have to be written because no one would believe the absurdity of it all.
SHANNON L. ALDER I am not perfect, but if I looked perfect to everyone I must have been rocking imperfect perfectly t...
SHANNON L. ALDER Stupidity is to have amnesia over your own faults when the person you hate makes theirs.
SHANNON L. ALDER A true gentleman is one that apologizes anyways, even though he has not offended a lady intentionall...
SHANNON L. ALDER Real women fight for something, other than their own emotions.
SHANNON L. ALDER Your strength will be found when you stop struggling with yourself, instead of thinking everyone is ...
SHANNON L. ALDER The only person that deserves a special place in your life is someone that never made you feel like ...
SHANNON L. ALDER Chasing a person doesn’t give you value or build values in you. You earn your value by chasing mor...
SHANNON L. ALDER If a man, who says he loves you, won’t tell you the details of a private conversation between him ...
SHANNON L. ALDER Strength of character comes from being hit by stray verbal stones, while protecting discarded cipher...
SHANNON L. ALDER When religious people take the stance that they don’t owe anyone that is hurting closure or answer...
SHANNON L. ALDER True confidence is not about what you take from someone to restore yourself, but what you give back ...
SHANNON L. ALDER Diversity of character is due to the unequal time given to values. Only through each other will we s...
SHANNON L. ALDER There comes a time in your life when you can no longer put off choosing. You have to choose one path...
SHANNON L. ALDER Don’t ever stray from yourself, in order to be close to someone that doesn’t have the courtesy t...
SHANNON L. ALDER A wise woman knows when to stay silent. However, a wiser woman of faith knows that sometimes words c...
SHANNON L. ALDER Your words will either give you joy or give you sorrow, but if they were spoken without regret, they...
SHANNON L. ALDER When you stop living your life based on what others think of you real life begins. At that moment, y...
SHANNON L. ALDER A very unwise man once said, “He who does not understand your silence will probably not understand...
SHANNON L. ALDER Never pray to be a better slave when God is trying to get you out of your situation.
SHANNON L. ALDER Arrogance is someone claiming to have come to Christ, but they won't spend more than five minutes li...
SHANNON L. ALDER Hide yourself in God, so when a man wants to find you he will have to go there first.
SHANNON L. ALDER When you give yourself permission to communicate what matters to you in every situation you will hav...
SHANNON L. ALDER When you find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on h...
SHANNON L. ALDER Often people that settle in life are those that only do what they can with what they have and where ...
SHANNON L. ALDER I am convinced that the jealous, the angry, the bitter and the egotistical are the first to race to ...
SHANNON L. ALDER Your tears are never invisible---there is always an insecure woman that lights up when you point the...
SHANNON L. ALDER Mental illness is not a fraternity or a social club for like minds. It is its own religion to each p...
SHANNON L. ALDER You might lose battles in your life time. However, every person that stands bravely on the side of j...
SHANNON L. ALDER I was never weighed down by beauty in my lifetime. However, I was beaten down by the sad fears of my...
SHANNON L. ALDER Realize that narcissists have an addiction disorder. They are strongly addicted to feeling significa...
SHANNON L. ALDER If you hold onto a man hoping someone else won't get them you have learned how to be desperate, not ...
SHANNON L. ALDER You will never let go of the past by ignoring the most painful thing the person you loved has done t...
SHANNON L. ALDER Often the inspiration to write music comes from the voices in your head. You’re not crazy. Just be...
SHANNON L. ALDER It isn't what you will do for your children that makes you a great mother or father. It is what you ...
SHANNON L. ALDER Relationships with negative people are simply tedious encounters with porcupines. You don’t have t...
SHANNON L. ALDER Empowered Women 101: Only an insecure woman with control issues will look outside her relationship a...
SHANNON L. ALDER Empowered Women 101: A man doesn't have to put down other women to prove his love for you. In fact, ...
SHANNON L. ALDER Love may be blind but jealousy has 20-20 vision.
SHANNON L. ALDER People that don't know what they are worth will always see their capture's wings, but never their ta...
SHANNON L. ALDER I am convinced that the jealous, the angry, the bitter and the egotistical are the first to race to ...
SHANNON L. ALDER Love has a way of making the sane insane and the insane normal.
SHANNON L. ALDER People's behaviors are messages, not a diagnosis because I can no longer discern the world's version...
SHANNON L. ALDER Often a woman that doesn’t have any business being in a fight is there because their ego thinks it...
SHANNON L. ALDER Hypocrisy
/hi pakrise/ noun

1. The moment you tell someone it is not important to be...
SHANNON L. ALDER Narcissistic Supply

You get discarded as supply for one of two reason: They find you too ...
SHANNON L. ALDER Narcissists will never tell you the truth. They live with the fear of abandonment and can't deal wit...
SHANNON L. ALDER The daggers of silence last longer than anything ever spoken.
SHANNON L. ALDER Often people that say they “don’t care” actually do. The moment they discuss you with their fr...
SHANNON L. ALDER Insecure people often falsify the past, in order to make the future pure.
SHANNON L. ALDER Women of dignity know when to stop expecting loyalty when he won't even give you honesty.
SHANNON L. ALDER Sometimes the truth is so deep that it takes someone with the same depth to see it, while others can...
SHANNON L. ALDER A person that doesn't know their worth will never know yours. Therefore, the longer you hang onto ho...
SHANNON L. ALDER Bitter people are not interested in what you say, but what you hide.
SHANNON L. ALDER The only people that can't handle the truth are those that suffer so much anxiety that they will liv...
SHANNON L. ALDER It is not through fighting the opposition that will win you dignity. It is when you fight the fear i...
SHANNON L. ALDER Bullies will knock you to your knees then tell you to get up and fight. Stay on your knees because G...
SHANNON L. ALDER Nobody knows what God's plan is for your life, but a whole lot of people will guess for you if you l...
SHANNON L. ALDER He said, “If God lived on Earth people would stalk his Facebook page and leave nasty comments on h...
SHANNON L. ALDER A wise woman protects her kids. A wiser woman hangs out with police officers, retired FBI agents and...
SHANNON L. ALDER If you are reading this then you have wasted another day of your life day dreaming, rather than plan...
SHANNON L. ALDER It is not the monsters we should be afraid of; it is the people that don't recognize the same monste...
SHANNON L. ALDER You can't always expect people to apply your wisdom when they didn't use wisdom before they found th...
SHANNON L. ALDER The moment you have to recruit people to put another person down, in order to convince someone of yo...
SHANNON L. ALDER Words don’t have the power to hurt you, unless that person meant more to you than you are willing ...
SHANNON L. ALDER You are not an option, a choice or a soft place to land after a long battle. You were meant to be th...
SHANNON L. ALDER You will know if you are on the right path when God directs your choices, not your spouse or signifi...
SHANNON L. ALDER When dealing with critics always remember this: Critics judge things based on what is outside of the...
SHANNON L. ALDER If you were born with the ability to change someone’s perspective or emotions, never waste that gi...
SHANNON L. ALDER I rather be a stupid person wanting clarification and answers, in order to be wiser, than be a stupi...
SHANNON L. ALDER You might not get the apology you deserve. You might not get answers to explain the actions of other...
SHANNON L. ALDER It is the subtle things in life that you have to look for because the deepest love speaks at a whisp...
SHANNON L. ALDER Judgement of others and ourselves always comes from a place of fear. It is fear that keeps us from l...
SHANNON L. ALDER Vulnerability gives us freedom, power and connects us to a network of injured souls. It is through t...
SHANNON L. ALDER People often tell themselves lies, in order to reach what they consider acceptance in difficult situ...
SHANNON L. ALDER Some will wear masks their entire life because they care about what other people think, while others...
SHANNON L. ALDER You will never change, unless you are honest with yourself or you are forced to be authentic by some...
SHANNON L. ALDER Anyone can possess, anyone can profess, but it is an altogether different thing to confess.
SHANNON L. ALDER The only difference between you and the person you admire is their perspective on life.
SHANNON L. ALDER The secret to your purpose is to find what you feel is important, and not pursue what others would t...
SHANNON L. ALDER Confidence is knowing who you are and not changing it a bit because of someone’s version of realit...
SHANNON L. ALDER Behind every angry soul is a wounded child that just wanted you to love them for who they are.
SHANNON L. ALDER The man that is meant to love you will have a million questions about you, but none will ever ask yo...
SHANNON L. ALDER Every relationship that has hit a crossroads has asked, “What is it that you want from me?
SHANNON L. ALDER There are only two ways to live your life. One as if all that matters is to have someone love and ac...
SHANNON L. ALDER See it for what it is and own it, rather than rethink it so you don't have to deal with the trauma o...
SHANNON L. ALDER Sometimes, we expect life to work a certain way and when it doesn’t we blame others or see it as a...
SHANNON L. ALDER True saddness is when someone still thinks your the same person after all these years. They brand yo...
SHANNON L. ALDER Everyone loses their class when they travel through hell, but only a few will regain it if they rema...
SHANNON L. ALDER Don't waste your time trying to provide people with proof of deceit, in order to keep their love, wi...
SHANNON L. ALDER God told us to love everyone. However, when you don’t like someone then you need to walk away and ...
SHANNON L. ALDER Humility is not a one time lesson that comes when you have lost everything. It is a daily reminder o...
SHANNON L. ALDER Insecure people only eclipse your sun because they’re jealous of your daylight and tired of their ...
SHANNON L. ALDER The moon will guide you through the night with her brightness, but she will always dwell in the dark...
SHANNON L. ALDER Often people that criticise your life are usually the same people that don't know the price you paid...
SHANNON L. ALDER No boundary or barrier surrounds the heart of a person that loves their self and others.
SHANNON L. ALDER The only real conflict you will ever have in your life won’t be with others, but with yourself.
SHANNON L. ALDER Fear is to begin with the end in mind. There is no end. Life is eternal. Live life knowing that the ...
SHANNON L. ALDER A Plan B life can be just as good or better than a Plan A life. You just have to let go of that firs...
SHANNON L. ALDER It is not lies or a lack of loyalty that ends a relationship. It is the agonizing truth that one per...
SHANNON L. ALDER The most important thing is this: to sacrifice what you are now for what you can become tomorrow.
SHANNON L. ALDER Your heart’s strength is measured by how hard it holds on. Your self worth and faith is measured b...
SHANNON L. ALDER The only real battle in life is between hanging on and letting go.
SHANNON L. ALDER When someone you love says goodbye you can stare long and hard at the door they closed and forget to...
SHANNON L. ALDER Courage doesn’t happen when you have all the answers. It happens when you are ready to face the qu...
SHANNON L. ALDER Empowered Women 101: If they made you an option you will always be an option vs. the person they rea...
SHANNON L. ALDER You can't compare men or women with mental disorders to the normal expectations of men and women in ...
SHANNON L. ALDER Two people with mental issues in a relationship does not work. It's like sitting in a boat and neith...
SHANNON L. ALDER People that have been consistently hurt by others in life will only see the one time you hurt them a...
SHANNON L. ALDER victim
noun \ˈvik-təm\

1. The moment you tell everyone you have a mental disorder...
SHANNON L. ALDER Feelings are something you have; not something you are.
SHANNON L. ALDER The greatest thing a father can do for his children is to respect the woman that gave birth to his c...
SHANNON L. ALDER A heart worth loving is one you understand, even in silence.
SHANNON L. ALDER Perspective is as simple as answering this question: If I had 5 months to live would I experience th...
SHANNON L. ALDER Whenever you can’t balance what you see with what you believe you have conflict.
SHANNON L. ALDER Spiritual pain is when you can’t stand another moment not knowing the real truth, and when you fin...
SHANNON L. ALDER Do not conform to seek the seekers, but leave the leavers. Wisdom comes from facing what you do not ...
SHANNON L. ALDER Accomplishments don’t erase shame, hatred, cruelty, silence, ignorance, discrimination, low self-e...
SHANNON L. ALDER Honesty is vulnerability. Sadly, not everyone can handle someone’s honesty. However, lying allows ...
SHANNON L. ALDER Regardless of your faith, you can never escape uncertainty.
SHANNON L. ALDER Half of the time, the Holy Ghost tries to warn us about certain people that come into our life. The ...
SHANNON L. ALDER The only person that should wear your ring is the one person that would never…

1...
SHANNON L. ALDER Marriage is the beginning of love for your spouse, not the result of it.
SHANNON L. ALDER It is not the hand that rocks the cradle that rules the world; it is the woman that holds the keys t...
SHANNON L. ALDER When I was a child, an angel came to say,
A true friend is coming my warrior to sweep you away,...
SHANNON L. ALDER When someone you love dies, you are given the gift of "second chances". Their eulogy is a reminder t...
SHANNON L. ALDER One of the most powerful lessons in life is to recognize that no one can give you power, and many pe...
SHANNON L. ALDER Her wounds brought her a great source of power because they lived in the same place as her heart.
SHANNON L. ALDER You're only a victim to the degree of what your perception allows.
SHANNON L. ALDER Your most important “want” should be the one you can control!
SHANNON L. ALDER If he emotionally cheated on you remember this before you take him back. It was a choice to do it an...
SHANNON L. ALDER The number of chances you give someone doesn't tell the world how loving you are without telling the...
SHANNON L. ALDER A deceitful man will go as far as to trample all over a woman’s reputation and spirit, in order to...
SHANNON L. ALDER Be leery of silence. It doesn't mean you won the argument. Often, people are just busy reloading the...
SHANNON L. ALDER I am tired of people saying that poor character is the only reason people do wrong things. Actually,...
SHANNON L. ALDER Temptation goes both ways. Sometimes, you can be tempted to live a half life because it pleases some...
SHANNON L. ALDER