Winning is about making enemy reacts as predicted.

A well-trained mind responded to symptoms. An ordinary mind reacted after it happened.

There's lower wisdom in comment.

Action triggers reaction.
An object somehow responds when we observe it.
We just assume that we do objective.
In fact, unconsciously we only want to see some parts
of the object which do not evoke the bitter memories of our past.

If you can cope the pride when winning, then you can confront despair when lose.

If you're confused about what to do, it's a sign that your enemy is winning.