You can't possibly prepare for what happens to you the day you hit No. 1 and people treat you differently.

When you are in your 20's and 30's, you just want a hit record and you don't really care how it happens.

These days, with 'American Idol' and all the other reality shows, young people become famous overnight, and that can be very difficult to handle, the way photographers follow you around and study your every move.

Everybody has to find out: who are you? What do you believe in?

Everything you say and do is having an impact on others.

You say something stupid and the next morning you're in the headlines.