You did not choose this path for yourself - it is the path that was chosen for you. That is the way life works at time. However, the choices you make as you travel the path are always yours and you must make them wise choices

Quit telling me that "you haven't done anything wrong." Most people waste their lives trying to do nothing wrong. Instead, the real question is "what have you done right?"

Because the reality is that you can do nothing wrong without ever doing anything right.

I don't spend a lot of time asking "WHY?" Instead I focus on what I should do now or how I should react." (p.180)

I didn't think meanness was ever in anyone's destiny. Meanness was a choice.

The river of emotions will almost always over-run the barrage of logic.

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