You don't have to live a lie. Living a lie will mess you up. It will send you into depression. It will warp your values.

Flags say something. You put a rainbow flag on your windshield, and you're saying something.

You can't live a lie. You have to follow your heart.

I decided that we should have a flag, that a flag fit us as a symbol, that we are a people, a tribe if you will. And flags are about proclaiming power, so it's very appropriate.

Haven't you felt a peculiar sort of worry about the chair in your living room that no one sits in?

Wherever you are, design your life. Live the values of your generation.