You don't begin with a destiny. It is the sum total of your choices. The first and the last are especially important.

Destiny deals you your hand and what you do with the cards is up to you.

"Simple choices can determine our destiny." ~Tom Baker

"Feel inner gratitude by making right choices, which will help determine our destiny" ~Tom Baker

What I believe is that when it comes to big things in life, there are no accidents. Everything happens for a reason. You are here for a reason -- and it's not to fail and die.

You can never know about about your own destiny: are the people you meet there to play a part on your oun destiny, or do you exist just to play a role in theirs?