You don't have to accept the invitation to get angry. Instead, practice forgiveness, empathy and encouragement.

Embrace your loved one, no matter what has happened, forgive and make peace.

The Canadian Pacific Railroad stood in this court and said they were ready to accept responsibility. The question now is whether they will accept that responsibility or do everything in their power to delay payment.

Understanding is the best route to forgiveness. Remember that we are all human, we all have fears, we all make mistakes. When in doubt, be kind.

...treat people with understanding when you can, and fake it when you can't
until you do understand.

There is no greater intelligence than kindness and empathy.