You give up a lot. I gave up my job, my family, the life I had. But I gained so much, too.

It was one-on-one. He asked me some American history questions, and I had to say the Pledge of Allegiance. At least he didn't ask me to sing.

They had to check me out, make sure everything was on the up and up.

I love being an American. I feel so lucky to live here.

I heard a lot of stuff, but my wife and family heard more. If you want to be a coach, you have to deal with it. Luckily, the Internet wasn't as big as it is now. It's harder on the wives than the coaches. No one ever says much to our faces.

The detectives are working the case very hard. They've been canvassing the neighborhood, talking to associates of the family and trying to find any possible leads.