Virginia Woolf quote: "If one could be friendly with women, what a pleasure -- the relationship so secret and private compared with relations with men. Why not write about it truthfully?"

Someone has to die in order that the rest of us should value life more.
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Masterpieces are not single and solitary births; they are the outcome of many years of thinking in c...
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One of the signs of passing youth is the birth of a sense of fellowship with other human beings as w...
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Each has his past shut in him like the leaves of a book known to him by his heart, and his friends c...
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I can only note that the past is beautiful because one never realises an emotion at the time. It exp...
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Where the Mind is biggest, the Heart, the Senses, Magnanimity, Charity, Tolerance, Kindliness, and t...
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Really I don't like human nature unless all candied over with art.
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Nothing has really happened until it has been recorded.
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It is far harder to kill a phantom than a reality.
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Every secret of a writer's soul, every experience of his life, every quality of his mind is writ...
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As a woman I have no country. As a woman my country is the whole world.
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It was a miserable machine, an inefficient machine, she thought, the human apparatus for painting or...
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The interest in life does not lie in what people do, nor even in their relations to each other, but ...
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So the days pass, and I ask myself whether one is not hypnotized, as a child by a silver globe, by l...
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For love... has two faces; one white, the other black; two bodies; one smooth, the other hairy. It h...
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Fiction is like a spider's web, attached ever so lightly perhaps, but still attached to life at all ...
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All I could do was to offer you an opinion upon one minor point
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Novels so often provide an anodyne and not an antidote, glide one into torpid slumbers instead of ro...
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Every secret of a writer's soul, every experience of his life, every quality of his mind is written ...
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I was in a queer mood, thinking myself very old: but now I am a woman again -- as I always am when I...
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We are nauseated by the sight of trivial personalities decomposing in the eternity of print.
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Against you I will fling myself, unvanquished and unyielding, O Death!
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It is no use trying to sum people up. One must follow hints, not exactly what is said, nor yet entir...
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The older one grows, the more one likes indecency.
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Now, aged 50, I'm just poised to shoot forth quite free straight and undeflected my bolts whatever t...
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At 46 one must be a miser; only have time for essentials.
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These are the soul's changes. I don't believe in aging. I believe in forever altering one's aspect t...
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It is in our idleness, in our dreams, that the submerged truth sometimes comes to the top.
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If we help an educated man's daughter to go to Cambridge are we not forcing her to think not abo...
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Growing up is losing some illusions, in order to acquire others.
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My own brain is to me the most unaccountable of machinery - always buzzing, humming, soaring roaring...
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We can best help you to prevent war not by repeating your words and following your methods but by fi...
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I feel certain that I'm going mad again. I feel we can't go through another of those terrible times....
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As a woman I have no country. As a woman my country is the whole world.
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What is amusing now had to be taken in desperate earnest once.
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It's not catastrophes, murders, deaths, diseases, that age and kill us; it's the way people look and...
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My own brain is to me the most unaccountable of machinery --always buzzing, humming, soaring roaring...
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It would be a thousand pities if women wrote like men, or lived like men, or looked like men, for if...
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If one could be friendly with women, what a pleasure -- the relationship so secret and private compa...
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Women have served all these centuries as looking-glasses possessing the magic and delicious power of...
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Why are women so much more interesting to men than men are to women?
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All this pitting of sex against sex, of quality against quality; all this claiming of superiority an...
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Different though the sexes are, they inter-mix. In every human being a vacillation from one sex to t...
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But when the self speaks to the self, who is speaking? The entombed soul, the spirit driven in, in,...
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It is curious how instinctively one protects the image of oneself from idolatry or any other handlin...
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Really I don't like human nature unless all candied over with art.
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Inevitably we look upon society, so kind to you, so harsh to us, as an ill-fitting form that distort...
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Every face, every shop, bedroom window, public-house, and dark square is a picture feverishly turned...
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The current flows fast and furious. It issues in a spate of words from the loudspeakers and the poli...
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That great Cathedral space which was childhood.
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The word-coining genius, as if thought plunged into a sea of words and came up dripping.
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Young women... you are, in my opinion, disgracefully ignorant. You have never made a discovery of an...
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Therefore if you insist upon fighting to protect me, or
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When the body escaped mutilation, seldom did the heart go to the grave unscarred.
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We all indulge in the strange, pleasant process called thinking, but when it comes to saying, even t...
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Somewhere, everywhere, now hidden, now apparent in what ever is written down, is the form of a human...
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The only advice, indeed, that one person can give another about reading is to take no advice, to fol...
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If we help an educated man's daughter to go to Cambridge are we not forcing her to think not about e...
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A masterpiece is something said once and for all, stated, finished, so that it's there complete in t...
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One likes people much better when they're battered down by a prodigious siege of misfortune than whe...
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The poet gives us his essence, but prose takes the mold of the body and mind.
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Boredom is the legitimate kingdom of the philanthropic.
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It is the nature of the artist to mind excessively what is said about him. Literature is strewn with...
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To enjoy freedom we have to control ourselves.
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Henry James seems most entirely in his element, doing that is to say what everything favors his doin...
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No need to hurry. No need to sparkle. No need to be anybody but oneself.
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As long as she thinks of a man, nobody objects to a woman thinking.
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When I cannot see words curling like rings of smoke round me I am in darkness—I am nothing.
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If you do not tell the truth about yourself you cannot tell it about other people.
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I can only note that the past is beautiful because one never realises an emotion at the time. It exp...
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Books are the mirrors of the soul.
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I will not be "famous," "great." I will go on adventuring, changing, opening my mind and my eyes, re...
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To depend upon a profession is a less odious form of slavery than to depend upon a father.
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Lock up your libraries if you like; but there is no gate, no lock, no bolt that you can set upon the...
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Orlando naturally loved solitary places, vast views, and to feel himself for ever and ever and ever ...
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Alone, I often fall down into nothingness. I must push my foot stealthily lest I should fall off the...
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Melancholy were the sounds on a winter's night.
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Women and fiction remain, so far as I am concerned, unsolved problems.
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The eyes of others our prisons; their thoughts our cages.
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Yet Byron never made tea as you do, who fill the pot so that when you put the lid on the tea spills ...
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Just in case you ever foolishly forget; I'm never not thinking of you.
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One cannot think well, love well, sleep well, if one has not dined well.
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Women have served all these centuries as looking glasses possessing the magic and delicious power of...
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A woman knows very well that, though a wit sends her his poems, praises her judgment, solicits her c...
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The connection between dress and war is not far to seek; your finest clothes are those you wear as s...
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But it is just when opinions universally prevail and we have added lip service to their authority th...
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The man who is aware of himself is henceforward independent; and he is never bored, and life is only...
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Great bodies of people are never responsible for what they do.
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There can be no two opinions as to what a highbrow is. He is the man or woman of thoroughbred intell...
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I am to be broken. I am to be derided all my life. I am to be cast up and down among these men and w...
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I ransack public libraries, and find them full of sunk treasure.
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Thus when I come to shape here at this table between my hands the story of my life and set it before...
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Almost any biographer, if he respects facts, can give us much more than another fact to add to our c...
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Yet it is in our idleness, in our dreams, that the submerged truth sometimes comes to the top.
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Methinks the human method of expression by sound of tongue is very elementary, and ought to be subst...
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Things have dropped from me. I have outlived certain desires; I have lost friends, some by death... ...
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When a subject is highly controversial... one cannot hope to tell the truth. One can only show how o...
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I thought how unpleasant it is to be locked out; and I thought how it is worse, perhaps, to be locke...
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Most of a modest woman's life was spent, after all, in denying what, in one day at least of every ye...
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Life for both sexes is arduous, difficult, a perpetual struggle. It calls for gigantic courage and s...
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As the streets that lead from the Strand to the Embankment are very narrow, it is better not to walk...
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Some collaboration has to take place in the mind between the woman and the man before the art of cre...
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Each has his past shut in him like the leaves of a book known to him by heart and his friends can on...
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For what Harley Street specialist has time to understand the body, let alone the mind or both in com...
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Tom's great yellow bronze mask all draped upon an iron framework. An inhibited, nerve-drawn; dropped...
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Rigid, the skeleton of habit alone upholds the human frame.
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A strange thing has happened -- while all the other arts were born naked, this, the youngest, has be...
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There is much to support the view that it is clothes that wear us and not we them; we may make them ...
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Humor is the first gift to perish in a foreign language.
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Publicity in women is detestable. Anonymity runs in their blood. The desire to be veiled still posse...
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For such will be our ruin if you, in the immensity of your public abstractions, forget the private f...
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What I like, or one of the things I like, about motoring is the sense it gives one of lighting accid...
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Those comfortably padded lunatic asylums which are known, euphemistically, as the stately homes of E...
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If we didn't live venturously, plucking the wild goat by the beard, and trembling over precipices, w...
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What is meant by reality? It would seem to be something very erratic, very undependable -- now to be...
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One has to secrete a jelly in which to slip quotations down people's throats --and one always secret...
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Some people go to priests; others to poetry; I to my friends.
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Every season is likeable, and wet days and fine, red wine and white, company and solitude. Even slee...
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The man who is aware of himself is henceforward independent; and he is never bored, and life is only...
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In solitude we give passionate attention to our lives, to our memories, to the details around us.
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Life is a luminous halo, a semi-transparent envelope surrounding us from the beginning.
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The first duty of a lecturer--to hand you after an hour's discourse a nugget of pure truth to wrap u...
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It is far harder to kill a phantom than a reality
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The first duty of a lecturer is to hand you after an hour's discourse a nugget of pure truth to wrap...
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Why are women... so much more interesting to men than men are to women?
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The history of men's opposition to women's emancipation is more interesting perhaps than the story o...
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All this pitting of sex against sex, of quality against quality; all this claiming of superiority an...
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A woman must have money and a room of her own if she is to write fiction.
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Anything may happen when womanhood has ceased to be a protected occupation.
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It is in our idleness, in our dreams, that the submerged truth sometimes comes to the top.
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Women have sat indoors all these millions of years, so that by this time the very walls are permeate...
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This soul, or life within us, by no means agrees with the life outside us. If one has the courage to...
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On the outskirts of every agony sits some observant fellow who points.
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When the shriveled skin of the ordinary is stuffed out with meaning, it satisfies the senses amazing...
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Language is wine upon the lips.
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Yet, it is true, poetry is delicious; the best prose is that which is most full of poetry.
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A good essay must have this permanent quality about it; it must draw its curtain round us, but it mu...
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Once conform, once do what other people do because they do it, and a lethargy steals over all the fi...
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Humor is the first of the gifts to perish in a foreign tongue.
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Women have served all these centuries as looking glasses possessing the power of reflecting the figu...
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It seems as if an age of genius must be succeeded by an age of endeavour; riot and extravagance by c...
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One must love everything.
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How then did it work out, all this? How did one judge people, think of them? How did one add up this...
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The beauty of the world, which is so soon to perish, has two edges, one of laughter, one of anguish,...
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You cannot find peace by avoiding life.
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Fiction is like a spider's web, attached ever so slightly perhaps, but still attached to life at...
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These are the soul's changes. I don't believe in ageing. I believe in forever altering one&#...
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Life is not a series of gig lamps symmetrically arranged; life is a luminous halo, a semi-transparen...
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Arrange whatever pieces come your way.
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Mental fight means thinking against the current, not with it. It is our business to puncture gas bag...
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It is fatal to be a man or woman pure and simple: one must be a woman manly, or a man womanly.
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One likes people much better when they're battered down by a prodigious siege of misfortune than...
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He who robs us of our dreams robs us of our life.
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When, however, one reads of a witch being ducked, of a woman possessed by devils, of a wise woman se...
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It flattered her, where she was most susceptible of flattery, to think how, wound about in their hea...
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Now begins to rise in me the familiar rhythm; words that have lain dormant now lift, now toss their ...
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To want and not to have, sent all up her body a hardness, a hollowness, a strain. And then to want a...
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For this moment, this one moment, we are together. I press you to me. Come, pain, feed on me. Bury y...
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For most of history, Anonymous was a woman.
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The truth is, I often like women. I like their unconventionality. I like their completeness. I like ...
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I would venture to guess that Anon, who wrote so many poems without signing them, was often a woman.
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Indeed, I would venture to guess that Anon, who wrote so many poems without signing them, was often ...
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The telephone, which interrupts the most serious conversations and cuts short the most weighty obser...
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Anyone who has the temerity to write about Jane Austen is aware of [two] facts: first, that of all g...
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I feel a thousand capacities spring up in me. I am arch, gay, languid, melancholy by turns. I am roo...
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It's not catastrophes, murders, deaths, diseases, that age and kill us; it's the way people ...
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It might be possible that the world itself is without meaning.
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One might fancy that day, the London day, was just beginning. Like a woman who had slipped off her p...
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I rise from my worst disasters, I turn, I change.
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As a woman I have no country. As a woman I want no country. As a woman, my country is the whole worl...
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How much better is silence; the coffee cup, the table. How much better to sit by myself like the sol...
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Sleep, that deplorable curtailment of the joy of life.
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What does the brain matter compared with the heart?
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Often on a wet day I begin counting up; what I've read and what I haven't read.
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Literature is strewn with the wreckage of men who have minded beyond reason the opinions of others.
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I have lost friends, some by death... others through sheer inability to cross the street.
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I meant to write about death, only life came breaking in as usual.
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Women have served all these centuries as looking-glasses possessing the magic and delicious power of...
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The beautiful seems right by force of beauty, and the feeble wrong because of weakness.
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If you insist upon fighting to protect me, or 'our' country, let it be understood soberly an...
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Friendships, even the best of them, are frail things. One drifts apart.
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I see you everywhere, in the stars, in the river, to me you're everything that exists; the reality o...
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The beauty of the world...has two edges, one of laughter, one of anguish, cutting the heart asunder.
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I am rooted, but I flow.
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When you consider things like the stars, our affairs don't seem to matter very much, do they?
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Mrs. Dalloway said she would buy the flowers herself.
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The most important thing is not to think very much about oneself. To investigate candidly the charge...
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One has to secrete a jelly in which to slip quotations down people's throats - and one always se...
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I read the book of Job last night, I don't think God comes out well in it.
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The hatchet must fall on the block; the oak must be cleft to the centre. The weight of the world is ...
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If one is to deal with people on a large scale and say what one thinks, how can one avoid melancholy...
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With stars in her eyes and veils in her hair, with cyclamen and wild violets—what nonsense was he ...
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Happiness is in the quiet, ordinary things. A table, a chair, a book with a paper-knife stuck betwee...
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Yes, I deserve a spring–I owe nobody nothing.
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One should be a painter. As a writer, I feel the beauty, which is almost entirely colour, very subtl...
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What I value is the naked contact of a mind.
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Whatever may be their use in civilized societies, mirrors are essential to all violent and heroic ac...
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All the being and the doing, expansive, glittering, vocal, evaporated; and one shrunk, with a sense ...
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To look life in the face, always, to look life in the face, and to know it for what it is...at last,...
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Love, the poet said, is woman's whole existence.
VIRGINIA WOOLF

If one could be friendly with women, what a pleasure -- the relationship so secret and private compared with relations with men. Why not write about it truthfully?

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If one could be friendly with women, what a pleasure -- the relationship so secret and private compared with relations with men. Why not write about it truthfully?

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