A choice made having devastating consequences for another is really not a choice. It is an act.

But circumstances change. Small causes lead to large effects. New paths are added.
And all anyone can do . . . is choose.

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And having once chosen, never to seek to return to the crossroads of that decision-for even if one chooses wrongly, the choice cannot be unmade.

You did not choose this path for yourself - it is the path that was chosen for you. That is the way life works at time. However, the choices you make as you travel the path are always yours and you must make them wise choices

Don't be afraid to make mistakes. But if you do, make new ones. Life is too short to make the wrong choice twice.